So fed up

[Kirkie]

Hi all

We have been TTC for one year and had a mc in the middle. I am finding it so hard to stay positive and hopeful and nothing at all can change the fact that we really want a baby (e.g. distracting ourselves with careers, houses, planning things etc). I dread hearing of friend's pregnancies and every time I do I feel happy for them but so upset for me. Every time AF comes it feels like a huge blow. I am feeling really sorry for myself, thinking "why us, why can't we be people who sneeze and have a (healthy) pregnancy?" Does anyone feel like this?

x

 

[JulianasMommy]

I feel like this all the time and i REALLY felt this way before I had my daughter. Now I have grown in my faith and feel like He has a plan for you. God Bless you hun. It will get better I promise.

 

[hollyw79]

I am sure all of us feel this way- especially after having a mc... it's different to me when you're just TTC- but when you have a loss.. it's just harder in my opinion. It will be your turn soon hun!