so heart broken, is it time to call it quits? *UPDATE*

[Miss_Kate]

Have not followed your story as I have not been on here for awhile, but so sorry to hear of your loss. I wouldn't worry too much about your DH..maybe this is just his way of grieving and coping with the disappointment. I know it's hard when you feel like you don't have their support, give him time. He will come around. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

 

[Trekkie1]

So sorry to hear your news. I don't know what to say other than we are all here for you. Keep hope and faith, good things will come to you I'm sure. Lots of love x

 

[Kimiw]

Thank you all. I go in today for another beta so they can confirm a m/c is on the way

 

[Kimiw]

I am waiting to see what the results are from my beta hcg today. I am terrifed, the doctor is sure that I am going to miscarry, but I can't find it in my heart to accept it. I will keep you posted.

 

[WANBMUM]

Good luck! Keep us posted! We are here for you either way

 

[justhoping]

Im sorry you have to go through this, I know Im new but I have been told similar to you at your stage and it turned out the egg implanted later and it was a bit off. So it looked as if I lost it. Can you maybe ask for another ultrasound to make sure?? I dont want to get your hopes up but it is still so early. I hope I didnt over step here. I just wanted to pass off the info.

 

[justhoping]

hi ladies, I'm back! I am about to the end of my rope right now, and don't know what else to do. DH is avoiding me, my doctor was so cold and I am just sitting here feeling crushed. For those of you who may not know, me and DH spend 6 years ttc, and I was on my second round of clomid when I finally got my long awaited bfp. I did not post it in this forum because I respect all of you ladies so very much I didn't want to upset anybody. Well, I went for my first scan yesterday and nothing was seen. The doctor told me the baby was dead. Finally, after 6 years my short lived happiness came to an end. She told me to just let nature take it's course and I should be starting to bleed any day now. I am so heartbroken rightnow I don't even know where to turn.

Something I waited so long for was ripped away from me before it could fully sink in. DH is acting like he is mad at me, (as if it was my fault) and I feel so hopless and alone. I love you ladies so much, and you have always been a wonderful support system. I didn't feel comfortable going to other forums with this because a lot of the other women who have been through this kind of thing already have other children or successfully had other pregnancies after the fact. So I wanted to turn to my friends here, you wonderful and supportive women that I love so very much.

OMG i am so so so so sorry. i am in tears right now. its just so unfair. and nothing anyone can say right now will make you feel better. i dont understand why someone who waits so long for a BFP has to have it ripped away in just the blink of an eye. i just want to yell in frustration for you. all i can say is that its just not fair. i send you lots of hugs if you need a shoulder to cry on im here for you chicka

Thanks for the hugs, I am just so numb, and a part of me keeps thinking "maybe they made a mistake and everything is fine", but that is my denial sneaking up on the situation. I just don't want to believe this is happening to me. I am so very upset.

keeping you in my thoughts and prayers hun, men can be so (ugh) . Sending hugs too..

 

[hoot]

My prayers are with you. Sometimes there are no words to express the torment that this world throws at us. Try to stay strong and on the days you can't, feel free to say whatever you need to us, we know the heartache better than most.

 

[tamithomas]

Sending you loads of love hun. Just went for my blood test tuesday only to see a women big as a house wobbling out of the hospital at the same time. So heart breaking

 

[Kimiw]

Thanks everybody. Dh wants to try again rightaway, but re wants us to sit out one cycle before he gives me more clomid.

 

[layla29988]

i first got pregnant at 19 and altho i was young i was super excited as i had been with boyfriend sins 15, but after 8 weeks i lost my baby, and then told it happens, as if that was going to make me feel better, then i was told iv pcos, im now 24 and iv been trying all that time, clomid after clomid, stress after stress, so many tears because it was so easy for other even those that would say "it wasnt pland" that made me so angry, and over the past 2 mths i desided not to try so hard, to make love and not have to work out when the best time is, and iv just found out im pregnant, altho its the early stages, but i belev lightning dosnt strike twice in the same place, so dont give up, i did, i tought it would never be me, ul get ur bfp soon hunny, its so stressfull, but ul get there soon..

 

[Andypanda6570]

I am so deeply sorry

 

[MackMomma8]

Nothin' but , love.

And maybe a glass or two of

 

[threebirds]

So sorry xxx