So much unfairness in life - MAD!!!

[Petal]

I am absolutely raging mad right now!! and seriously p'eed off with life and fate and destiny or whatever "higher power" is supposed to be out there.

I am sitting watching the Oprah show and she has a family on - mum, dad and 2 teenage sons and they are ALL ADDICTED TO HEROIN. They also have a 13 month baby and think that he is loved because his diaper gets changed. WTF!!! I am SICK TO DEATH of hearing of people like this. How do they deserve to have another child when the 2 they already have are drug addicts - where is the justice??? Why is it the addicts, prostitutes and child abusers have kids no problem when some decent loving people out there with a lovely home and stable home life cant get a whiff of a BFP???

I am SO sorry for ranting but steam is practically coming out my ears right now so I just had to vent.

I am so depressed right now coz I think this cycle has failed AGAIN.... I started taking vitamin B complex 1DPO as i think my luteal phase is on the short side at 9-10 days. We BD'd twice a day for 2 days before Ov, the day of and the day after Ov so I was sure we should have caught the eggie this time. AF may be delayed if the B complex has worked so I will have an even longer wait. And after 2 wks my referral letter to the ACU still hasn't come through....

OMG - now Oprah has on a single mother who is 5 mths preg and addicted to heroin
where is the justice??

 

[BizyBee]

Ugh! It sickens me to watch shows like that. You're right and you have every reason to vent here. Life is so unfair sometimes!

 

[Millnsy]

Oh petal, I know how you feel, it just isn't fair! Our time will come... eventually...

 

[Petal]

Thanks Millsny, I am hanging onto that thought by a thread. TBH each day is a struggle and the only thing stopping me asking the GP for anti-depressants is that I know its not good when TTC. I feel like my life is on hold at the moment and meanwhile around me the time continues to speed on!! Oh well, tomorrow is another day as they say.

Thank god for all the lovely girlies on BnB - you ladies are the only thing keeping me sane at the mo!!

to all out there.
I'm off to have some

 

[hopeful4baby]

"""TBH each day is a struggle and the only thing stopping me asking the GP for anti-depressants is that I know its not good when TTC. I feel like my life is on hold at the moment and meanwhile around me the time continues to speed on!!"""" - (Sorry I'm not sure how to do the quote thing - so I copied it myself)

This is exactly how I feel too. I think I must have a mild depression, because I can't think of anything else, but how life is unfair and tough. I can't enjoy anything the way I did before, everything's lost ist sparkle! I'm like in some bubble looking at people outside enjoying their life, looking forward to things and I'm locked in just waiting not knowing whether I will ever get released!

Petal, I think we better stay away from all this terrible stories!

 

[HAYS]

its sickens me too, i often get days where i go mental and rant on about how bloody crack heads can concieve and i cant!!!!

makes me sooooo mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[jonnanne3]

its sickens me too, i often get days where i go mental and rant on about how bloody crack heads can concieve and i cant!!!!

Makes me sooooo mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

amen!

 

[Nathyrra]

It's tough chick.. and there are no answers and that's the hardest thing to except
Personally.. I don't believe in God, or higher beings controlling my life.. I am science-minded person and I think life is one big game of chance.. That's the only justification I have. That's the only way I can justify these individuals getting pregnant.

One thing is for sure though. Any child that us LTTC and a/c girls bores will be extremely lucky to have us as parent's. They will be cherished. This is something that no one can take away from you..

 

[HAYS]

its sickens me too, i often get days where i go mental and rant on about how bloody crack heads can concieve and i cant!!!!

Makes me sooooo mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

amen!

5min rant over

 

[MrsJD]

Lifes a bitch and these bitches get on my nerves. People want kids who can't have them and these bloody junkies have no problems conceiving....GOD they make me mad!

Rant over!

 

[CareBear]

its sickens me too, i often get days where i go mental and rant on about how bloody crack heads can concieve and i cant!!!!

makes me sooooo mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me too! I work in adoption and therefore surrounded by these sort of stories each day and it drives me nuts that I can't have a child but all these people can and then have them removed from their care.

 

[Vestirse]

Just to note, you should actually be taking the Vit B Complex from CD1 - it promotes the health of the follicle and in turn the corpus luteum (when the follicle pops off) which makes some have a longer LPD if a poor quality follicle or corpus luteum are the problem (or part of it). Therefore taking it after O would not have any affect on lengthening your LP.

I do think it works though. I went from an 11 day LP to a 14 day LP. You should be taking at elast 25mg of Vit B6 is your Complex and a similarly high level of the other B's (except Folic Acid which you should take at least 400mcg of).

 

[FJL]

Its the million $ question and it sucks that we don't have answers to all of the unjust in this world. Part of the reason why I am an athiest.

I just shrug my shoulders, roll my eyes and shake my head...its fucking BULLSHIT.

 

[Mynxie]

It makes me mad too...but I try to think positively...

Maybe we've not had LOs yet because we'd be too good to them? (not that other parents aren't good to their LOs or anything silly like that though!) or because all the TTC will make us better parents? Or because there's a really special soul that's perfect for our families, but it's too far down the queue?

Maybe those of us who've MCd did so because that child was too special? Or it was already loved so very much that it went straight back to Heaven (again not saying that other unborn children aren't loved!)

Do you know what I mean? I try to give some kind of justice in my head, that probably doesn't make alot of sense...

 

[Petal]

Just to note, you should actually be taking the Vit B Complex from CD1 - it promotes the health of the follicle and in turn the corpus luteum (when the follicle pops off) which makes some have a longer LPD if a poor quality follicle or corpus luteum are the problem (or part of it). Therefore taking it after O would not have any affect on lengthening your LP.

I do think it works though. I went from an 11 day LP to a 14 day LP. You should be taking at elast 25mg of Vit B6 is your Complex and a similarly high level of the other B's (except Folic Acid which you should take at least 400mcg of).

Hi Vestirse, thanks for the info - I wasn't aware of the benefits to the follicle prior to the egg getting released, and thought it may actually delay O (don't know where I got that from!) so for the first cycle I took the B vit complex the day after O oh well, I'll just continue taking it every day - its the Boots own brand and it says it has 100% of the RDA for each of the vits inc folic acid.

Incidentally, I am on CD25 today and would be expecting today but no-show so far. I did feel like the B vit complex was helping with PMT symptoms until today and now my BB's are hurting a bit more.