SO Stressed! Major Rant.. :(

kaylamariee

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Hey ladies, this may be long..
So my OH has been on house arrest since valentines day and he's going to be done May 14th (charges were from waaay before, he's not a huge criminal or anything)
He's been SO grumpy lately, we get in fights over little things and I get so emotional but just go in our room cause I don't want him to see me breakdown..
He gets upset over little things.
I try to do everything to make him happy, clean the whole apartment, cook dinner etc.. This is when I get back from school and have to work and my back is KILLING me and everything hurts..
I feel like I hardly get any attention, and I feel like I'm frustrating him or something..
On top of that I just got over a bad episode of anxiety where I didn't want to get out of bed, shower, or eat (obviously I did, but I forced myself), I'm just starting to feel better because doctor prescribed me medication that is safe for pregnancy..
I just wish I had someone there for me more emotionally :(
We hardly cuddle, I just want someone to hug me or tell me everything will be okay.
I don't know how to talk to him !
We don't even DTD anymore, he told me in the beginning that after a point it would stop because he's uncomfortable.. I legit thinks he thinks he's gonna hurt the baby or something? But I feel like a whale, and he hardly touches me which makes me feel 10000x worse about myself!
Everytime I ask why is he mad? He says 'I'm mad because you always accuse me of being mad'
Wtf ! No I don't.. I keep my thoughts to myself cause I don't want you to get pissed !
I know he would never hit me or anything, I just feel lonely and don't know what to do.
I feel like breaking down any minute, I'm just so sad !
It may just be hormones, but I don't know..
Any advice ladies?
Needed to vent x
 
It is definitely the hormones but he should knows it comes with the territory. I would talk to him like have a serious sit down adult talk and tell him your feelings because its not fair to you that your treated this way and that your stressing and always so upset because he cant being on house arrest. you dont have to be rude about it just let him know how you feel, explain to him that your anxiety is really bad right now and that your pregnancy hormones are everywhere and you really need support because without it, it makes everything 1000 times worse.

If he doesnt want to listen to what you have to say thats when me personally(i dont know what your situation exactly is, or how your used to discussing things) i throw altamatums, like if you dont stop being in such a bad mood and being their for me more emotionally and physically then im going to go stay with someone else.

but really you should just talk to him and see what happens, he might suprise you. it will get better dont stress <3:hugs:
 
I agree. You definately need to get it across to him how you feel n try to make him understand! It can be very hard on your relationship, but its something you both have to work on. Hopefully he can see where your commin from. Dont overwork yourself n stress tho thats not good for you or your baby hun
 

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