pamg
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I'm feeling so undecided about having a 2nd. I had a really tough labour ending with a c-section with my daughter which has really scared me from having another & for years I have said I wasn't gna have another,although I have kept everything (buggy,cot,clothes etc) just incase!
Last summer I started feeling really broody & felt like I really wanted to have another but we had a long haul holiday booked so we planned on starting after that but the closer I got to when we are gna start trying I started to change my mind, I think I'm still feeling really scared about giving birth also & after my holiday which was to visit my brother in Miami I want to start saving to go there again & not sure we would have the same opportunities to do that having another & also with my daughter getting more & more independent now everything is easier!
I know she would like a brother or sister but doesn't seem bothered though,I guess being an only child for so long she's used to it.
My mums put me off also having another saying she thinks the age gap will be too big!
Just wondered if anyone else is in this position? Sometimes I just feel happy deciding not to then I just feel like I really want another!!
I feel if we don't try this year than the age gap is just gna get too big..
Last summer I started feeling really broody & felt like I really wanted to have another but we had a long haul holiday booked so we planned on starting after that but the closer I got to when we are gna start trying I started to change my mind, I think I'm still feeling really scared about giving birth also & after my holiday which was to visit my brother in Miami I want to start saving to go there again & not sure we would have the same opportunities to do that having another & also with my daughter getting more & more independent now everything is easier!
I know she would like a brother or sister but doesn't seem bothered though,I guess being an only child for so long she's used to it.
My mums put me off also having another saying she thinks the age gap will be too big!
Just wondered if anyone else is in this position? Sometimes I just feel happy deciding not to then I just feel like I really want another!!
I feel if we don't try this year than the age gap is just gna get too big..