So Upset!

[tracybirduk]

I am so upset, and hope you guys would understand!
My OH has been trying to go back to work after a long time off after depression, and this happened to be at the same time as my fertile phase! He was so stressed that BD was the last thing on his mind and allthough I did encourage, he couldn't ! *cough*

So this cycle is unlikely and I am two months post ovarian drilling and know that the first few months are the best time. In the end he hasnt managed to get back to work and has been signed off again, i am such a selfish pig to be thinking about this when hes going through hell, but part of me cant help it.

I have cried about six or seven days today!

Anyone know when life gets easy?? LOL

Thank you for listening xxxx

 

[JASMAK]

You said that he was depressed. Is he taking any meds for that. Some can cause problems with uh-hem...you know. Perhaps he should speak to his DR about it, if it continues. I am sure once or twice isn't much to worry about, except that you are TTC of course.

 

[miel]

You said that he was depressed. Is he taking any meds for that. Some can cause problems with uh-hem...you know. Perhaps he should speak to his DR about it, if it continues. I am sure once or twice isn't much to worry about, except that you are TTC of course.

Good advice here ....

 

[rachelle1975]

Sorry hun
Yeah the meds can cause probs with libido.
Have a chat to the GP and see if taking Maca or Zinc would be okay with his meds as these can both improve libido.
DH was on meds that killed his urge to instigate but he's been on maca and i'm beating him with off with a stick... if you know what i mean

 

[tracybirduk]

Aww thanks guys! He is on tablets, but usually has no probs and has been on them for a long time.. I think it was stress more than anything bless him!
Just blooming frustrating, in more ways than one LOL LOL!!!

(saying that, i have just brushed against my uhum boob and they are like rocks!!! Now convincing myself its a 'symptom'..what am i like!)

 

[HAYS]

aw chick i totally understand,although you sympathise with DH its still frustrating to think you could be missing out
xxxx