Someone keep me from going crazy!

[DancingSheba]

I cannot help but worry about this pregnancy. I dont have a scan until the 20th and i'll be 7 weeks. I just keep thinking back to the last time when i had a scan at 10 weeks and they told me the baby died at 6 weeks. I had no idea and it was so heartbreaking. Now every symptom or lack of symptom has me thinking the worst. I did have a scan this past wed and they saw the gest sac and the beginnings of a fetal pole but i just keep worrying. I really havent had any morning sickness and the only symptoms i have is mildly tender breasts, fatigue and definately mood swings. Someone tell me its all going to be ok because i know stressing isnt good for baby either!

 

[threemakefive]

I cannot help but worry about this pregnancy. I dont have a scan until the 20th and i'll be 7 weeks. I just keep thinking back to the last time when i had a scan at 10 weeks and they told me the baby died at 6 weeks. I had no idea and it was so heartbreaking. Now every symptom or lack of symptom has me thinking the worst. I did have a scan this past wed and they saw the gest sac and the beginnings of a fetal pole but i just keep worrying. I really havent had any morning sickness and the only symptoms i have is mildly tender breasts, fatigue and definately mood swings. Someone tell me its all going to be ok because i know stressing isnt good for baby either!

Try not to worry, I figured out through my loss worrying didn''t fix the issue, I just decided to enjoy it while I could and thats all you can do, keep your faith, I bet you will be blessed with a perfect baby Oh and I must say in your signature thing, I love your quote "you weren't planned, but I never planned on losing you"---that is perfect Good luck and keep your head up!!

 

[DancingSheba]

thank you! I needed some encouragement. yes my quote is exactly how i feel about the entire mc being that it was an unplanned pregnancy. i just keep praying and trying to focus on other things to make the weeks go by quickly

 

[shirlls]

Sorry to hear about your loss I wish I could wave a magic wand and fast forward time to a stage when we can relax a bit more, but unfortunately I can't. I really wish I could as I am driving myself crazy here, I am pregnant after 2 mcs and 8 weeks pregnant and I am a nervous wreck!

Try to keep yourself busy and time should go in a bit quicker. Whether we worry or not, what is going to happen is going to happen. It is an emotional time but will be worth it in the end. There is no reason to say this pregnancy won't work out.

Good luck! Take care xxxx

 

[sunny74]

I cannot help but worry about this pregnancy. I dont have a scan until the 20th and i'll be 7 weeks. I just keep thinking back to the last time when i had a scan at 10 weeks and they told me the baby died at 6 weeks. I had no idea and it was so heartbreaking. Now every symptom or lack of symptom has me thinking the worst. I did have a scan this past wed and they saw the gest sac and the beginnings of a fetal pole but i just keep worrying. I really havent had any morning sickness and the only symptoms i have is mildly tender breasts, fatigue and definately mood swings. Someone tell me its all going to be ok because i know stressing isnt good for baby either!

Its going to be ok, you have had a scan and everything is progressing as it should. I havent had any ms either, i never had with any of the 3 mmc. maybe we are the lucky ones who arent going to get any ms
Try to chill and keep busy

 

[dizfan123]

Oh bless you, know exactly how you feel. I am 4/5 weeks pregnant (I think!!) and had a MMC in sept. I had a scan at 13 weeks, after the magical 12 weeks, and was told the baby had died a few days before. My doctor isn't very understanding and I don't have a date for my 1st scan yet, fingers crossed it's soon as I am going mad. I definately have mmod swings, slight nausea but no sore boobies !! I am sure we will both be fine, we just need a Positive Mental Attitude!!! This will happen for us this time
Best wishes and keeping everything crossed for you x x x x

 

[DancingSheba]

Oh bless you, know exactly how you feel. I am 4/5 weeks pregnant (I think!!) and had a MMC in sept. I had a scan at 13 weeks, after the magical 12 weeks, and was told the baby had died a few days before. My doctor isn't very understanding and I don't have a date for my 1st scan yet, fingers crossed it's soon as I am going mad. I definately have mmod swings, slight nausea but no sore boobies !! I am sure we will both be fine, we just need a Positive Mental Attitude!!! This will happen for us this time
Best wishes and keeping everything crossed for you x x x x

i know you are feeling the same way i am! still no ms yet but my sensitvity to smells has started. I just keep trying to think abou other things until i go in for my next scan. Its so different for us that have had a mc before. Its hard to be excited until you know everything is ok. We have to stay positive, although with my mood swings its hard lol. My coworkers are already suspecting i'm sure, or they just think i have gone insane. I just had blood drawn on friday (6 vials!) for HCG, progesterone, rubella, hep, etc. and hopefully they will tell me my numbers look good