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I am terrified to tell her we are having another baby.. So many other people already know, DH's mom said it is a blessing, my sister knows, my niece knows, so many people know but I am so afraid to tell her.
I'm 28, we're married, we pay our own bills, I stay home with the kids...money isn't overflowing but we're doing fine. We live with my mom because she is alone otherwise and it saves money, but we could afford our own place.
Anyway, i guess what I'm saying is there shouldn't really be any reason that she shouldn't be happy for us, other than the fact that ds2 is a very difficult baby and she knows that because she sees him daily and helps fairly often, not excessively.. but dh has joked with her about having more, we want a big family, and she acts like its the end of the world... "ohh no! Not for a long time at least!!"
We could have waited until ds2 got easier, but I had this undying need to have another baby, like it was what we needed to balance our family, and he got on board and here we are. I cried every day about having another, I just felt like it would bring us all together so perfectly, and I still feel that way.
I wanted to wait until Grandparent's day, Sept 11th, to tell her. I wanted to get our scan done so I can give her a picture in a card, maybe cushion the blow...but I am so sick every day it's getting really hard to hide it, apparently when I'm sleeping in the morning and my husband is up she keeps asking if I'm okay, and we have just under a month to keep hiding it!
Does anybody have any other kind of suggestions for telling her in a nice and easygoing way that says we're happy so you should be too? Lol
Thanks!
I'm 28, we're married, we pay our own bills, I stay home with the kids...money isn't overflowing but we're doing fine. We live with my mom because she is alone otherwise and it saves money, but we could afford our own place.
Anyway, i guess what I'm saying is there shouldn't really be any reason that she shouldn't be happy for us, other than the fact that ds2 is a very difficult baby and she knows that because she sees him daily and helps fairly often, not excessively.. but dh has joked with her about having more, we want a big family, and she acts like its the end of the world... "ohh no! Not for a long time at least!!"
We could have waited until ds2 got easier, but I had this undying need to have another baby, like it was what we needed to balance our family, and he got on board and here we are. I cried every day about having another, I just felt like it would bring us all together so perfectly, and I still feel that way.
I wanted to wait until Grandparent's day, Sept 11th, to tell her. I wanted to get our scan done so I can give her a picture in a card, maybe cushion the blow...but I am so sick every day it's getting really hard to hide it, apparently when I'm sleeping in the morning and my husband is up she keeps asking if I'm okay, and we have just under a month to keep hiding it!
Does anybody have any other kind of suggestions for telling her in a nice and easygoing way that says we're happy so you should be too? Lol
Thanks!