sooo mad. i cant take this.

[18singlemom2b]

my ex is honestly driving me nuts. it's so hard not to talk to him, i have such a connection with him because i'm carrying his child and we were living together practically for the 7 months we were together. i'm so mad with all the lies he's told me and ways he's deceived me. he told me he wanted me to get pregnant, i thought this was a joint effort on both of our part and thought that he would be the one i'd be able to share all my hopes, dreams, and fears with at this point. i'm so frusterated with having to worry about so many things on my own, im always worried there could be something wrong with my pregnancy..there's all this stress and i wish he was there to make me feel better about everything. he's back together with the woman he was with before me, but he still comes around now and then and tries to pull on my heart strings and make me want him all over again. their living together and she has no idea i'm pregnant with his kid. i don't know whether i should tell her or not..i just hate the idea of all that i'm going through and he's just loving his life and taking it easy and i have all this going on...


UGHHH

 

[Gemstar785]

what an idiot! I know how you feel about the kind of not giving a sh*t bit my partner doesn't seem to care much atm! I also feel like i'm doing it alone... Went for my first scan today... Alone . I think you should just scrap him from the record, it's not fair and let him know he can't pick you up and drop you when he feels like it. Men get like this, want a baby and then run as soon as it happens, I don't think their brains think it through further then the having sex part of it. Also I personally think if you are going to tell her you should wait a couple of weeks until you have calmed down a bit and make a rational decision and remember that it's not her fault that he is being a *******, (which is hard to do) but she will have to find out at some point. Don't let yourself be walked over by him, you both deserve better!!! xxx

 

[18singlemom2b]

thanks hun i just dont get how they dont worry about and think about all the things we do..i feel so blessed to be pregnant but so nervous about everything at the same time and dont get how this has no effect on him what so ever. ive had to go to both my ultrasounds alone and my dr appointment and midwife appointment...and like he doesnt give a shit about anything. hes mad i wont help him out with his business right now. thats all he cares about. im having his kid and thats all he cares about!!!

 

[charlotte-xo]

oo dear so sorry your oh is bing such a muppet!!...boys some just never grow up. If i were you id arrange to meet him dont let him pull on your heart strings and tell him everything youve just said. Give him an ultimatum iether he starts bucking his ideas up and supports the baby and YOU...or leaves you alone pays maintenance and see the baby every other weekend. its not fair on you to constantly not know were you and bubs stands...i know its hard but sometimes its better to be alone than with someone who treats you like that...
i hope everything works out for you and just remember if your ever worried about anything no matter how small talk to anyone on here weve all been through it the first trimester is sooo hard i can remember debating whether or not i could eat frosties lol....

BnB's always here =)


xxxx

 

[baby.moo]

I would tell her and get it over with so you have that off your mind instead of wondering all the time "Should I?". Hes the father either way so he needs to step up and be a man.. he really shouldn't even be thinking about having another relationship especially trying to start one over with secrets.. what a dumbass.. id seriously hurt my OH if he did that to me

 

[Brionybaby]

I know exactly how you're feeling hun, i've been through so much trouble with FOB so im here if u need a chat or anything

 

[Newmummy_tobe]

im gooing thru the same thing so no exactly how u feel x

 

[BrEeZeY]

i agree with baby.moo i would tell her nd get it over with! and i would tell him he has choices get his game together and be a dad or walk away and leave u alone....if he keeps playin with u like that ur going to go thru ur whole pregnancy stressed and never enjoy it! (i went thru this with FOB and never enjoyed my pregnancy till i met OH) i def encourage u to tell him to make up his mind, i wish i had been more firm.... i hope it gets better hun!

if u ever need to tlk u can pm or add me on fb or txt me!