Hi everyone,
So i went to the doctors and chatted about my fertility with him as i had had some concerns, mainly in my head and from my previous marriage and not getting pregnant after 4/5 years of trying with my ex wife.
SO the doctor told me to do a sample in a cup and take it to the lab. I abstained for 3 days and did my business and got the results back. Count was 18Mil, Swimmers were a little slow and my morphology was 3%.
The doctor said the count and swimmers were ok but was very concerned about the morphology, i have since googled and found what this is and yeah its not good.
My OH did a ovulation blood test from the clinic and she has to do another one on friday, he is then going to refer us to the ivf clinic at the hospital to chat about our options.
Im devastated that its my fault that we cant get pregnant without lots of help, I was really upset on friday afternoon when i got the results of my test and him saying we probably wont get pregnant without any help.
I told my OH that if she didnt want to go through all the needles and things that are gonna happen cos it wasnt her fault that that was ok cos its unfair on her.... After she slapped me, she told me that im the only person she wants a baby with and will do anything for me, which made me smile very much.
I'm 4stone lighter than a year ago and have a healthy diet (Some NZ pies may be in this diet...) Anyway im taking menevit tablets to help myself along, quit the booze mid June and dont smoke.
Has anyone gone through anything like this or had a friend?
Thanks in advance
So i went to the doctors and chatted about my fertility with him as i had had some concerns, mainly in my head and from my previous marriage and not getting pregnant after 4/5 years of trying with my ex wife.
SO the doctor told me to do a sample in a cup and take it to the lab. I abstained for 3 days and did my business and got the results back. Count was 18Mil, Swimmers were a little slow and my morphology was 3%.
The doctor said the count and swimmers were ok but was very concerned about the morphology, i have since googled and found what this is and yeah its not good.
My OH did a ovulation blood test from the clinic and she has to do another one on friday, he is then going to refer us to the ivf clinic at the hospital to chat about our options.
Im devastated that its my fault that we cant get pregnant without lots of help, I was really upset on friday afternoon when i got the results of my test and him saying we probably wont get pregnant without any help.
I told my OH that if she didnt want to go through all the needles and things that are gonna happen cos it wasnt her fault that that was ok cos its unfair on her.... After she slapped me, she told me that im the only person she wants a baby with and will do anything for me, which made me smile very much.
I'm 4stone lighter than a year ago and have a healthy diet (Some NZ pies may be in this diet...) Anyway im taking menevit tablets to help myself along, quit the booze mid June and dont smoke.
Has anyone gone through anything like this or had a friend?
Thanks in advance