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Hi ladies, just looking for some advice. Quick background: My son's father and I have been split since Ollie was 16 months old. His contact with his Dad meant to be twice weekly visits however this has been sporadic over the past 7 months or so with his Dad cancelling and only seeing Ollie once a week more often than I'm happy with (lawyers are getting involved to resolve this as ex is simply not listening to me at all ). Ollies step mum hates me and Ollie frequently tells me that she tells him how much he hates me and his step dad.
Ollies step dad and I have been together for 2.5 years and Ollie can't remember him not raising him. His little sister was born 8 months ago and he ADORES her. He's had some issues with behaviour (OCD type and he's been assessed for likely ADHD and spectrum stuff).
My issue is this: over the past 4 months or so Ollies behaviour has been worse. He's insolent, cheeky and becoming violent when angry. We know this is often typical 4 year old behaviour and his other issues and we manage this effectively. HOWEVER his behaviour is MUCH worse when he returns from a day with his Dad: he's very cheeky, hyper, rude and will say he's going to hit me and his step dad though this is sometimes in jest. Is this typical for his age and being a split family? I don't know anyone else in this situation!
Thanks for reading
Ollies step dad and I have been together for 2.5 years and Ollie can't remember him not raising him. His little sister was born 8 months ago and he ADORES her. He's had some issues with behaviour (OCD type and he's been assessed for likely ADHD and spectrum stuff).
My issue is this: over the past 4 months or so Ollies behaviour has been worse. He's insolent, cheeky and becoming violent when angry. We know this is often typical 4 year old behaviour and his other issues and we manage this effectively. HOWEVER his behaviour is MUCH worse when he returns from a day with his Dad: he's very cheeky, hyper, rude and will say he's going to hit me and his step dad though this is sometimes in jest. Is this typical for his age and being a split family? I don't know anyone else in this situation!
Thanks for reading