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spotting again :(

doddy0402

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I am so scared that I am losing this one too!
I have started spotting this evening and I am so worried. I tried so hard not to get my hopes up for this pregnancy because I didn't want to be hurt so badly again, but now it looks like it happening, and I am so gutted!
I even haven't told the doctor or the midwife that I am pregnant this time, because the day I rang the docs last time, was the day I started to miscarry and so for some stupid superstitious reason, I wanted to wait to get passed 7.4weeks before I told ANYONE!
I odnt know what to do now. do I need to be referred to an EPU by a doctor or can I just turn up? Do they open on a weekend?
I should have found all this out in september, but my doctors are useless, and sent me to a normal ultrasound place in a normal hospital, to confirm the mc but then when I got there they said they weren't ment to do it there because they weren't trained like sonographers in EPU! They only did it because I cried so hard when they tried to send me away.
sorry that this is so long, and I doubt it makes any sense but I just needed to vent a bit.
 
Aw I'm so sorry your spotting but try not to panic it doesn't mean your having a miscarriage, try to stay positive hun. No you dont need a referral to go the EPU and as I know they are only open in the week, if you are really worried then you could go to a and e and I'm sure they will try to help you.

Hun please try not to worry, have a bath, cosy up in bed and have an early night and fingers crossed tomorrow will be a better day with no spotting. Thinking of you.xx
 
If it's any consolation, I spotted with my last 2 and it turned out to be nothing; hubby just had to be a bit more gentle DTD :haha:

For your own peace of mind, I would call and get checked out, even if you have to go to an ER.

Keeping you in my thoughts today :hugs:
 
ive spotted twice now hun, doesnt mean its over for you, fingers crossed hang in there! xx
 
sorry to read this. Hope everything turns out okay for you.

Alex
 
I've bled, spotted and had brown discharge from week 5 hun, I'm now 24+, please try not to worry - I know that is so much easier said than done. If I were you I would head up to A&E, if only for peace of mind, there are usually Gynae's on duty, they could do an internal to check your cervix is closed and the registrars can often do a scan although not thorough it can at least reassure. (can you tell I've had a lot of visits up there this preg?)

Thinking of you hun and keeping everything crossed for you, it doesn't mean it's over Honey, think positive now :hugs:
 

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