Starting SMEP Again join in guys SMEP TTC#1 June/July(2BFPs)/Aug thread

[Jannah K]

Hsg was painful for me...my tubes were open though...it is just painful when they inject saline...I hope yours is not too painful...
It was Ramadan back in July...sunrise to sunset we were fasting....and since doc confirmed I didn't o that month I continued with fasting...but had no period entire Ramadan and thereafter....I thought my hormones messed up due to fasting...I went to fertility center and they ordered tests..I didn't get them done back than as I was going to canada...I came back and next day I went for testing...they got the results yday and I left them msg to give me provera prescription but than nurse called and gave me the news....I rem just crying on the phone as I was so worried about paying out of pocket for the fertility stuff plus I started looking of jobs so I can pay for it...
We plan and plan but God has planned everything for us already....we just need to wait for His miracles

 

[Pearly86]

oh wow thats awesome!! Happy Ramadan! Oh yeah I knew about that and I forgot and see god answered your prayers..so even though ur doc confirmed that month u dint Ovulate u got pregnant is it??
woww this sounds like so amazing bless u my dear!!

 

[Jannah K]

Exactly
Doc said I didn't o..I was referred to fertility dr for further management,,,,oh & I started arguing too much too as it was going to be all outta pocket...so yeah...
Yes God answered my prayers and He will answer yours too...

 

[Jannah K]

June 14 was my last period...june16hsg day2 of period...no periods since than...

 

[Pearly86]

Awesome!!!

 

[maggz]

fx for you pearly xxx

 

[jumpingo]

Wow congrats Jannahk wish u a very H&H 9 mo
Furure baby good to knw everything is fine hope u also don't have to ho for all the procedure and u get ur BFp soon

Jumpingo he u doin Hun??
Maggz miss u here ��

i'm good. no news. just sitting over here at CD9
i have had 2 days of decent sleep (solid from 10pm until about 3/4am) so that helps my chart

i woke up last night at 3:10 so i took my temp then, so yes, another open circle for me but i'll take it over waking up multiple times in a night.

but then my mornings are so useless. i hardly wake anymore when my husband gets up for work anymore, but he usually comes in to kiss me goodbye between 6 and 7 and then i doze in and out of sleep from 6-10. i feel super lazy. i am trying to make up for it by keeping the house clean, laundry done, dinner ready and cleanup afterward. i sort of feel like it doesn't really justify my lack of a job and that i should be making money, but i guess it's what it is for now...

no done with AF now today is cd 6 so all gone!
no doing anything fancy this cycle...just normal sex and lets c and enjoy!! its my bday and we are going to vegas so m so excited!!
if this cycle isnt the one m going for hsg next cycle hows ur pregnancy going on hun?

happy birthday!!

 

[maggz]

oh my gosh I totally didn't see that part! Happy birthday pearly ;*

 

[Pearly86]

thankyou both jumpingo and Maggz

Jumpingo I am also at home these days looking for job, and making sure I take care of home and hubby well which I feel so good about but I really want to start a job soon so that the years dont go by just like that and I keep adding void to my resume that m not doing job from so and so ..that way my no. of experience is getting low and in terms of technical job it matters a lot!!
well no jjob no baby yet lol...when m I getting both

on the temping part why are u having such odd sleeping time???if u dont have a good sleeping pattern than ur temping will never be correct hun!
are u doing anything other than that to knw ur ovulation ? like opks?

maggz so glad ur still here with us..

 

[jumpingo]

on the temping part why are u having such odd sleeping time???if u dont have a good sleeping pattern than ur temping will never be correct hun!
are u doing anything other than that to knw ur ovulation ? like opks?

there's a whole thread over here (https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/ttc-groups/2204607-any-bad-sleepers-temp.html) about it, but in a nutshell, i never sleep fully through the night.

when i first started temping, i was, fairly consistently, waking up around 3 or 4am and then falling in and out of sleep when my husband gets up, which is anytime between 5:15 and 7:00. it seemed counterproductive to purposefully wake myself up at 4am just to temp, but 4-5 nights a week i wake up without an alarm at that time anyway, so that's the time i picked to temp.

i temp between 3:30-4:30 every day (my alarm wakes me up at 4:05, if i haven't already woken up on my own). if i wait until 6am to take my temp, i will have already been up (probably to the bathroom by then too) and tossing and turning and would have to check "sleep deprived" every single day and my numbers would definitely be screwy. so i just temp earlier than most, to increase my chances of having slept 3 solid hours before temping AND around the same time every day.

i wouldn't recommend it to everyone, but it's worked so far for me. last month was my first month temping, so FF is still trying to gather data and figure out my LP, average cycle length, etc. and i've never paid attention to fertility signs before now, so it's a work in progress, but my chart still shows a pretty obvious pattern with low pre-O temps, a temp spike for and following O and then a decrease at the end of my LP, and AF the next day. of course there are the occasional "what the...?!" temps but overall nothing that doesn't sort itself out over a couple days and looking at the overall pattern. so i think it'll be okay now if we could just get a baby

 

[FutureBabyG]

June 14 was my last period...june16hsg day2 of period...no periods since than...

Good to know it is possible to get pregnant this cycle after the hsg. I was worried it might mess with my lining. Thank you for giving me hope this cycle.

 

[jumpingo]

June 14 was my last period...june16hsg day2 of period...no periods since than...

Good to know it is possible to get pregnant this cycle after the hsg. I was worried it might mess with my lining. Thank you for giving me hope this cycle.

futurebaby, your chart looks great!!

 

[FutureBabyG]

June 14 was my last period...june16hsg day2 of period...no periods since than...

Good to know it is possible to get pregnant this cycle after the hsg. I was worried it might mess with my lining. Thank you for giving me hope this cycle.

futurebaby, your chart looks great!!

Thank you I hope it says looking good. My brother just informed us he moved his wedding up to august 2015 so now I really want this bfp so I am not prego at the wedding.

 

[jumpingo]

Thank you I hope it says looking good. My brother just informed us he moved his wedding up to august 2015 so now I really want this bfp so I am not prego at the wedding.

oh wow, my brother is getting married next year too! first weekend in september 2015, but it hadn't even crossed my mind being pregnant for it!

actually, since we live in japan and the wedding will be in minnesota, might be something we should consider...

get preg in aug → due in may → baby would 3 months by the wedding
get preg in sep → due in june → baby would 2 months
get preg in oct → due in july → baby would 1 month

uh oh...looks like if i don't get pregnant in the next 3 months, might have to take a month or two off? otherwise i risk being too pregnant to travel or the baby being too little to travel??

 

[Pearly86]

so sweet u guys are calculating the expected dates I do this sometimes too

Future ur chart looks good hun!.i was just going thru ur chart for the previous months as well..do u get positive in lp as well? or those positive u marked against test are positive pregnancy test?? isnt that one for hpt??

hhow was ur tests hsg and everything?

 

[Pearly86]

Jumpingo sweets I think if u can do opk as well along with temping if temping is something which ur not getting a proper chart due to ur sleep pattern so that way ull have another help to knw when u ovulating and u can time ur bd well..hows ur cycle going on btw?

 

[FutureBabyG]

so sweet u guys are calculating the expected dates I do this sometimes too

Future ur chart looks good hun!.i was just going thru ur chart for the previous months as well..do u get positive in lp as well? or those positive u marked against test are positive pregnancy test?? isnt that one for hpt??

hhow was ur tests hsg and everything?

Hsg went great everything was open she said the dye just did some deep cleaning and get trying because I am most fertile now. Just and I mean just spoke with MD in regards to hd sperm count and it's amazing 325 mil however motility is only 25% and they would like to see it above 40%. Basically she said we definitely can get prego on our own we would just have to wait for the right seman to fertilize and direct the egg. I don't want to wait anymore so we will do iui next month if this cycle is a bust. I have high hope for 5 his cycle but you never know.

So next cycle we will wash and do iui with the best of the best. I have had many cycles with bfp on hits but she thinks they are with the sperm that have poor navigation and they aren't implanting in time before my lining starts sloughing. We will talk tonight to see if I want to do some clomid to increase our chances of a strong egg or not. Can't wait to give dh options and have a solid plan.

 

[Pearly86]

so that means u ve been getting pregnant and it turns into early m/c ?? as in before implantation itself the witch shows..but uve got good lp too?


but.reading ur whole post u sound like a v strong person really hats off to u hun, I mean accepting so many facts and going ahead with whatever the options be m impressed!!!

wish u great luck hun and I so wish u achieve ur pregnancy soon!!

 

[FutureBabyG]

so that means u ve been getting pregnant and it turns into early m/c ?? as in before implantation itself the witch shows..but uve got good lp too?


but.reading ur whole post u sound like a v strong person really hats off to u hun, I mean accepting so many facts and going ahead with whatever the options be m impressed!!!

wish u great luck hun and I so wish u achieve ur pregnancy soon!!

MD believes we are getting a fertilized egg but it's so freshly fertilized that when it implants it doesn't have enough time to really dig in so the lining starts to slough then the witch shows

 

[FutureBabyG]

So very happy because our MD is giving us the facts and options and letting us decide what we want to do. We can do this journey as fast or slow as we would like.