Starting TTC in September, Really Excited, But...

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My husband and I will start TTC in September. I'm really excited and look forward to beginning the new adventure toward motherhood. I stopped taking the pill in January for a lot of reasons, including the fear that my body would take awhile to go back to ovulating normally.

Instead we've been using FAM and I've been charting my temperatures and observing my cervical fluid. My first two cycles post-pill were 41 days and 46 days respectively, and I'm 100% certain they were annovulatory cycles. There were no temperature shifts and there was nothing in the way of fertile quality cervical fluid. I should mention that I did have gummy cervical fluid in both cycles and then the cycles ended two weeks after the gummy stuff.

My third cycle post-pill was 38 days, but I had a temperature shift and actual egg-white fertile quality cervical fluid right around day 25. Now, the fourth cycle that just ended yesterday was a tricky one.

First off, I started off with a colposcopy in the first week of the cycle right after my menses ended, found out I had moderate to severe dysplasia, and then had LEEP at the end of the second week of the cycle. So I've been worrying like crazy about all of that. But in the third week of the cycle on the evening of day 22 and in the morning of day 23, I had very obvious fertile cervical fluid. My breasts even felt slightly sensitive at that time. However, there was no obvious temperature shift at all other than my temperature not dipping back below 97-degrees for almost the rest of the cycle, although to be fair, I was a bit lax in charting my temps because we weren't having sex at all while I was healing from the colposcopy and then from the LEEP. Then I started my new cycle at midnight on the dot this morning, just as I was expecting would happen, making the previous cycle 36 days long.

If you've read this whole thing and stuck with me - since I know I can be long-winded and this is no exception - I want to extend my gratitude. My main concern is that I might not have really ovulated this past cycle even though I had the fertile quality cervical fluid and my questionable luteal phase did last about two weeks. If I didn't ovulate, would my assumed luteal phase really have worked so much like clockwork? I'm going to purchase an OPK for this next cycle just to make sure I'm ovulating, but I'm nervous that I'll find out that I haven't really been ovulating at all.
 
I did take the time to read your post but I'm sorry I canny help.
Mostt of it went over my head. I have only just finished my last pack of pills so as of yet, all that stuff means little to me. I really just wanted to say that I hope u get some useful replies and to wish you all the best.
 
Some girls on here say an anovulatory cycle here or there (up to one a year) isn't abnormal.
 
1-2 anovulatory cycles a year are normal

yes i suggest get OPKs and then find when period starts - that will determine your luteal phase, remember that never changes - only O shifts due to stresses and weight gain or loss etc

10-16 days is normal for luteal phase. i did OPKs last month for 1st time and found my luteal phase is 14 days...so thats great. and i do O so its a relief...now i can determine my O and chill for 14 days...if im late then likely am pregnant - so can relax and stop symptom spotting...its a headache doing all that
 
My biggest concern is that I'm 5'1" and only 96lbs. No matter what I do I can't seem to gain weight and I worry that my BMI is less than ideal for ovulation. But being "underweight" doesn't seem to impact me in any other way. It doesn't make me feel tired or feel like I'm lacking in energy at all. And from my last cycle, I know that I'm capable of ovulating, but now I'm worried that I'm going to find out that I actually rarely ovulate or something. I hadn't had natural cycles for a little over four years before I quit taking the Pill. I am glad that ewcm seems to have returned quickly enough, though, and my cycles have been ending 13 or 14 days after I've noticed ewcm, even with this past one. I just look forward to the part of this new cycle when I can whip out the OPK and find out what's going on. The suspense is killing me, especially since I've always been convinced my low weight will cause fertility problems (even though my doctor says otherwise).
 

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