still bleeding............still scared........

[UptonGirl]

well after my bright recd bleeding last week, hospital said all was ok and probably just implantation bleeding as when i had my scan it had turned brown, this was last wednesday! its now monday and ive still got brown spotting with occasional clots. im sooo worried - i thought it was all over last week and i could relax a bit more but i rang hos this am to check it was ok and they want me in tomorrow for another scan!!!!!!!!!OMG! Im soo scared....i have always been petrified of never being able to have children and never really actually thought about all the emotional trauma of miscarriage etc and all this worrying is no good for anyone.......there are so many stories on here of bad things happeneing and its really frightening. i try and be positive but its soo difficult - its human nature to be worried and scared, especially when its something as special and precious as your baby! xx

 

[10051024]

Try to be positive. Someone told me once... worrying is like rocking on a rocking chair.... its something to do but doesn't get you anywhere... keep that in mind. Im sure everything will turn out ok for you xx

 

[Wobbles]

How far along are you hun?

I had bleeding for a handful of weeks in first tri with no explanation to this day. Is there much? Do you need to wear a panty liner or towel?

I had an ultrasound at 7 weeks and all was ok days later I was panicing again so i rang and they brought me back at 8 weeks although they don't offer ultrasounds freely she wanted to put my mind at ease again then I just went on to having my normal scans (12 & 20 weeks).

Its that bleeding can mean nothing or something ... and its hard when you find for some its nothing yet others experience the heartache.

Good luck tomorrow x

 

[UptonGirl]

thanks guys - i will never forget that rocking chair quote - brilliant.
wobbles im about 6/7 weeks pregnant and the bleeding is occasional, brown, clots occasionally - need a panty liner! guess i just have to keep positive. its just we went throuhg hell last week and i thought everything was ok......i only rang the hospital this am cos i was worried it hadnt stopped but they wanted me in to make sure - fingers crossed,guess i just have to be positive! xx

 

[Linzi]

Ive got my fingers crossed for you, but hopefully everything should be ok.

Remember - theres far more happy stories than sad ones around, so try and concentrate on those too.

I went through exactly the same as you last week, and I wouldnt wish it on anyone. Just try and keep relaxed and calm. Im sure everything will be fine.

xxx

 

[cheryl]

I have my fingers crossed for you hun
I hope the scan goes well
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[UptonGirl]

thanks cheryl - i know you know what it feels like - its horrible isnt it......i really thought last week i got lucky and was ok........my god...its sooo emotionally hard to deal with all this pregnancy and miscarriage stuff!!!!! us women arent made of flippin steel!!!!!! grrr..........will elt you know how i get on......hope ur doing ok hun althoug im sure its difficult........i cant believe how many people go throuhg this.........not nice.......anyway, take care.....
x

 

[PitBullMommy]

I'll be thinking of ya. I hope everything turns out well again

 

[Jenny]

I hope everythings ok. Keep us updated hon, your in our thoughts.

 

[shamrockgirl4]

thinking of u hope all goes well

 

[poppy]

I hope things go well tomorrow - thinking of you.

 

[chelle]

I have been going through the same thing as you for the past week. Very traumatic. . .I know! Plus, today I got my second hcg test back and the numbers didn't double. . . but, my doctor isn't concerned at all !! So, I'm trying to calm myself down too ;o) We're in this one together ;o) Good luck!
-Chelle

 

[cheryl]

Let us know how you get on with your scan
Luv Cheryl xxx