Still struggling

[Stacey_89]

Im still finding it very hard to believe that i wont miscarry again !

All i keep thinking is, This is ME, its happend before ofcourse it will happen again thats just my luck !!!!


Im finding it very hard to picture myself with this baby in 7 months
I just have such a horrible feeling that it will happen again.

OH is getting annoyed at me for thinking it, he said that his mum thinks this time will be good, cuz i look different this time, morning sickness has hit me more hard this time and i look "rough" and im exhausted which is all good signs my body is taking to the pregnancy.


but i just crnt believe it ! And i feel evil for thinking this
Im so terrified of having another MC!!

I hope the next month flys by!!!

 

[carrieanne]

sweetie it will happen it is hard after mc it make you paranoid and slightly crazy odds are you will have a perfectly healthy pregnancy xxx

 

[Hoolie]

I was the same and still am to a degree. The first few months were the worst but now there are times when I believe I will hold this baby.

I'm 23 weeks now and it does get a bit easir once you feel the baby kicking. It somehow seems more real and within your grasp.

I think it's natural to feel so anxious after losing one. It is such a terrible thing to go through, it'd be hard not to be scarred by it.

I didn't believe I'd still be pregnant after the first few months but I'm still here. Hope it's the same for you.

Alex

 

[Mrs Doddy]

me too sweetie, I am dreading my 12 week scan next week and am not coping with anything atm, at work im snappy and can't deal with doing too many things as my mind is already consumed with thoughts about the scan/baby, im so scared and have 10days in which I think im going to go mad. Even then im going to be worried what if

if I find a way to cope I will let you know !!!

 

[nickynoonoo]

Hi Stacey and everyone else

I know what you are going through, I truly do, and all I can do is empathise. I am just 4.5 weeks after 3 MC's last year, don't know how I will get through each day, I just keep trying to tell myself there is nothing I can do to change the outcome, the RMC say all my tests are clear, so all I can do is sit tight. Hour after hour after HOUR!!!!!! Oh my life, this is tooooooooooooooooo hard.

Thank goodness there are people on here to talk to

 

[Mrs Doddy]

Hi Stacey and everyone else

I know what you are going through, I truly do, and all I can do is empathise. I am just 4.5 weeks after 3 MC's last year, don't know how I will get through each day, I just keep trying to tell myself there is nothing I can do to change the outcome, the RMC say all my tests are clear, so all I can do is sit tight. Hour after hour after HOUR!!!!!! Oh my life, this is tooooooooooooooooo hard.

Thank goodness there are people on here to talk to

hour by hour is definately how I am taking it, this complete torture

 

[lauralora]

take a look at my ticker .....

and i am STILL convinced ill lose the baby somehow, its such a horrible feeling big hugs to you if you want to pm me feel free