Still worried about work!

[golcarlilly]

Hi all,

Just me, stressing as usual!! I had a word with my boss this morning to tell him I have to have another scan tomorrow and will be late in, I thought best to forewarn him that I may have to have some more time off as I am expecting them to tell me I need an ERPC, he was ok about it, even sympathetic and said I need to make sure I am emotionally sorted too but then he asked me what I was planning going forward and how did I feel which I took to mean was I going to try again! I just said ' oh I just feel numb at the moment' and sort of brushed it off! I am panicking now as he obviously is thinking ahead and wondering what I will do, I mean what if this happens again, he is not going to look too kindly on me taking more time off when I have to all intents caused the absence myself! I think he is prob annoyed that I will obviously (well hopefully) be having maternity leave at sometime too!

God I am sooooo stressed out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Sambatiki]

Hey hun

He's no right questioning you over it at the moment. Companies have to make allowances for these things. Try not to worry about him at the moment. You have to concentrate on yourself and getting yourself better both phyiscally and mentally. I hope it all works out for you.

Its my first day back in today after MC 2 weeks ago saturday. I had been worring about coming back but its been fine luckily I have a v v understanding female boss who has 2 children.

Thinking of you



Kerry

 

[Happyabi]

Hey
Yeah they dont have a right to ask, but I guess he may have just been a typical man and not knowing what to say!

Its been a bit the same for me, but my boss is a lady and cant actually have children so its of a sore subject anyway... its hard to kow what to say isnt it?

Hope work wasnt too bad for you though

Abi x