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oh god didnt think we had to see them til the babys 5.. all know is the midwife comes out like for 2 visits after the babys born?xx
 
Its different in some areas so i havent a clue.. but midwife doesnt see you really after youve had baby well mine wont be i dont think.. i change over to health visitor instead and she basically just comes after babys born to check everything is going okay and answer any questions you have :shrug: spose there just there to support you and everything.. you only have to see them to start with they just are there to support your child til there 5 years old but i dont think they say anything after first few weeks of baby being born or do anything.. im unsure though i havent even been told much about her :shrug: x
 
you prob wont get a letter through or anything till later on or you might not even get one some people dont till after babys born.. but if she wants to meet you before hand then itll prob be anytime after 30 weeks x
 
:\ ohh lmaoo.. how crapp haha il ask my mom wen i cant be bothered tomovee x
 
Lol i asked my mum and she just said i bet its all changed since i had you and your sister lol and i think it had cause my mum said she didnt see one till after baby was born :shrug: i should of asked midwife about her but she didnt seem to say much when i told her shes not came twice she just tuted and shuck her head lol x
 
Becyboo__x said:
Preggo your full term today :happydance:
Oh and my mw talked about my birth plan tuesday but it was really stupid she didnt even ask me what i wanted and what i didnt she just basically explained what will happen in labour and at the hospital and then explained all the different drugs i can have for pain relief :shrug: and then told me about my waters braking and what to do when it happens and then about inductions .. she asked me who my birth parter was going to be but that was about it i thought they would ask me loads more things
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I talked to my doctor yesterday about my birth plan. He gave me notes to carry with me at all times so when I go to the hospital they know everything already.
OMG:blush: I got tested for strep b yesterday....they have to swab your bum and your vag...TMI but the doctor asked my mom to stay in the room! and I was like omg. I know she going to see lots more at the birth it was just super awkward ...then my doctor started talking to me about my discharge! and my mom was like "gross" lmao.

one thing that pissed me off about my doctor is i was telling him I don't want forceps used at all, and he was like "no I'm really good with them blah blah" :growlmad:

also my choices for pain relief are.. morphine,epidural and some needle thing that can numb my whole downstairs, like at the dentist...just not my mouth.lol

sorry that was long.
 
Did you HAVE to have strep B? cause i got to chose and i opted not to cause it wasnt really a big deal to me or something lol there was a few tests i didnt have to have because midwife said im not a risk of stuff so i just didnt have them i only had the down symdrome one .. i havent had anything put up my bum or fluflu :haha: i would be so embarrest if i had to see a man in pregnancy lol :blush: im glad i see a women and shes really nice lol but i spose men can be nice but id just feel abit awkard lol

Well i said i definatly dont want epidural but that was because i dont like needles in my back iv got a pheobia sounds silly but i really dont like it lol im not a fan of the needle in your hand for the drip that freaks me out but i know you normally have to have that lol.. but i said i wanted gas and air and if i want something stronger then i wanted this new drug they inject into your theigh and that numbs bottom bit lol and they said its really good so i was like :thumbup: its abit pointless doing a birth plan cause i know itll just go how it goes if i want something stronger ill just say yea to things lol! Oh and i dont want foreceps either :nope: big NONO theyve got this other thing now called a ''kiwi'' its like a small sucktion thing she said that just helps baby out sounded scary lol i just hope baby comes out naturally and i dont need any of this stuff there saying! lol
 
Yea, I had to have it, I didn't get asked before I knew it my pants were off and I was being swabbed!:haha:
 
Lol .. i got to chose what i wanted and what i didnt everything i had to have was done by blood tests or urine samples :shrug: lol i never had to be swobbed!
 
Haha yeah they usually make you lye on one of the bed things and shut the curtain while doing it? lol iv only ever had something done swab wise when i went to hospital for a STI check .. (dont ask lol me and few friends went for it to be on the safe side) but when they did them swabs they hurt! im guna be a right wimp when it comes to baby coming out of me lol i think im most scared of tearing :huh:
 
no curtain, they just put a little blanket over me.lol


Everyone it is confirmed I'm moving out on the 15th
I might not have internet for a little bit ,but I'm not sure
 
Oh gosh :huh: i would of been abit funny with that :haha:

And woo :D! glad youve got a sorted date! .. i might not have the internet after monday either.. cause aol are being arses saying we cant pay month by month after the phone weve got to set up a 18month contract but we dont want to cause were moving soon and well be changing everything :shrug: Hope you get back on the internet before Quintin arrives! i hope we can sort something so i can get on or i wont be able to introduce my little one properley :(
 
well, I will only be living 10 min walk from my moms so I will be able to get on the internet.
also, I had this swing my friends gave me and it wasn't working so I had to order a part for it and it cost 17 dollars and I was worried that wouldn't fix it, well I got the thing in the mail today and it works!
The swing is like close to 300 dollars and I got it for free other then 17 dollars:thumbup: I love it!!
So far today is going really well
 

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Oh thats really nice! not seen one like that before i like it cause its got that thing where baby siits and puts feet through :D! glad it works aswell! :)
 
it does so much, lol its 6 speed, plays a heart beat sound, music, and you hook up your ipod to it:S lol
 
Thats good they usually cost quite alot ones that you can plug ipods and mp3s into i was looking at mamas and papas ones with that but i opted agenst cause of the money your lucky to get it off a friend for free :D! some babys dont like bouncers and swings aswell hope mine likes its bouncer or ill cry!
 
I know, If I didn't get it from a friend I would have never of bought it, it cost way too much, I bought a used basic swing for 20 dollars before I knew I was getting this one

I hope Quintin likes swings and bouncers . lol I have like 3 different swings:S I'm only take one to my place and leaving the two other at my moms tho. cause I have no idea where I would put that many .

any signs of labour becy? have you lost your mucus plug?
at the doctors when I got swabbed TMI he said I had lots of discharge and it could be my mucus plug or infection.:( so I hope its the 1st . I didn't notice anything tho:S
 
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