JoHio
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On one hand, I’d love to have another baby. Would just love one. It would be the 5th. On the other hand, I just turned 41, my youngest is starting school this September and I have a job which affords us the comfortable life we want and I’d have more time for my art if we had no more children.
But there’s this feeling that I’m not done yet. There’s also a feeling that my pelvic floor has hung on so far but might not make a 5th. Also, while my love is infinite my time is not and the children I do have need as much of my attention as I can give.
Anyone else have these debates with themselves? We’ve been not trying, not preventing for almost two years and nothing has happened so I feel like at some point I should just commit either way since I don’t want to be much older having a 5th child. If it was a first or second or even third, maybe. But 5th?
Probably not.
But there’s this feeling that I’m not done yet. There’s also a feeling that my pelvic floor has hung on so far but might not make a 5th. Also, while my love is infinite my time is not and the children I do have need as much of my attention as I can give.
Anyone else have these debates with themselves? We’ve been not trying, not preventing for almost two years and nothing has happened so I feel like at some point I should just commit either way since I don’t want to be much older having a 5th child. If it was a first or second or even third, maybe. But 5th?
Probably not.