Stressed

[Coucou]

Hi. Im gonna try to explain my problem with proper english, dont judge, i am french. So im 5 weeks pregnant, i have been with my bf for 2 years. This will prolly shock all of you but I have been working as an escort for a long time, i stopped now that im pregnant.

I am not a drug addict nor an alcoholic or some kind of freak coming out of the street, i hate it all, but i do love the money.

I use condoms with all my clients, and my problem here is that im constantly worried about if my bf is really the father, i dont use condoms with my bf, we wanted this baby, but even though i used condoms with my clients, i feel like theres a chance he isnt the father.

Im constantly looking at my calendar trying to remember if we had sex on the week i was ovulating so i can calm down and convince myself theres no chance he could not be the father... condoms protects 98% i guess. Im scared what do you think ?

 

[hardd2011]

That is hard but I would think the boyfriend is more than likely the father. As long as the condoms have not broke or slipped off and they didn't not expire I think you are safe.

 

[HopefulEm]

I agree with PP. I think odds are your boyfriend is the father. It's a tough situation though. I don't know what they cost, but perhaps see about getting a paternity test done after LO is born just to clear your worries?

 

[OnyxSnowfall]

Ahh. The odds are that your BF is probably the father --- but some type of paternity test would probably make you feel more secure in that answer. I'd be stressed over that too :/.

 

[2have4kids]

Do you have any other reason to worry, I mean can you remember one breaking? Even if your worst nightmare came true, in situations where a partner was actually cheating sometimes the couple get over the incident and the dad is prepared to be a dad, regardless of who's sperm made the baby. I think you have nothing to worry about and I wish you a h&h 9 months.

 

[Coco Tutu]

I agree with the previous poster. If your partner is not stressed/worried about it, then maybe you should also try and relax. If he wants to be with you, chances are that he will love your baby no matter if he is the father or not. Unless he does not know your profession, in which case things do get tricky and a paternity test is the best solution. Best of luck and I wish you a happy pregnancy