Struggling but smiling :)

[adunny]

Hi everyone! I am VERY new here, trying to learn the lingo .. Please hang with me!

My DH & I have been TTC for a little over 4 years. I have PCOS & had irregular periods for 2+ years. I ended up losing a significant amount of weight and have been regular for almost 2 years. My GYN preformed a HSG in September and said all tubes were clear and fine. We did a SA on my DH, and found out he has normal counts but below normal motility & normalcy, (30%-40%). All being said I have an appointment tomorrow to be put on clomid. I am nervous and excited all at the same time.

A big issue for me right now is that my husband is very hard to talk to about our issues. I know he supports me but I swear he has the worst complex (especially about his counts.) I have gotten used to being "blamed" for our infertility, but he hates that he isn't helping our case. Anyone else have this problem? I am hoping the clomid will help and we wont have to worry about getting him into seeing someone!

I look forward to hearing from you all

 

[missy123]

Im on clomid too really hope it works for you x

 

[phrumkidost]

Sounds like typical male behaviour to me! I know they say we are sensitive, but in my experience their egos are much frailer than ours. (with all due respect to the wonderful men - my hubby included - out there).

Anyway, I mainly just wanted to say hi and welcome to you!

 

[adunny]

Im on clomid too really hope it works for you x

Thank you so much! I hope the same for you How long have you been on it if you don't mind me asking?

 

[adunny]

Sounds like typical male behaviour to me! I know they say we are sensitive, but in my experience their egos are much frailer than ours. (with all due respect to the wonderful men - my hubby included - out there).

Anyway, I mainly just wanted to say hi and welcome to you!

LOL, I agree. I never thought I would be trying to mend both our egos but I am willing to do it because I need his support too. Thank you so much for your reply

 

[missy123]

Im on clomid too really hope it works for you x

Thank you so much! I hope the same for you How long have you been on it if you don't mind me asking?

I tried it for 3 months last year and it did not work..im on my first cycle out of 6

 

[adunny]

Good luck to you missy123!! Tons of babydust