victoria1987
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My DH and I just found out that we are having a little boy and we are over the moon! We were both hoping for a boy for our first one and got our wish, but the issue of names has been a difficult one.
My DH has a family tradition that first born sons are named Gerald, my DH is the 3rd Gerald and absolutely insists that our son be the 4th. I do not like this name, but understand how important it is to him so I agreed but with a condition that when the baby is a child he goes by a middle name rather than Gerald as there are still two living Geralds and it is just too confusing. He agreed but it must be a family name as well since this is a first born son and it follows tradition.
So we have settled on naming him after my father, David (as the middle name) with the official first name Gerald that he can use in adulthood if he chooses.
I am OK with the name David, it is no where near a name I would have chosen myself but I get that it is really important to DH and his family to keep with tradition. I just feel sad because there are so many names I love for a boy yet I have to settle on one that I have to learn to like. I will have to learn to like the name though since I won't take this tradition away from my DH, I have agreed to the name so I will stick to my word. Just wondering, any tips to help myself learn to like the name David?
My DH has a family tradition that first born sons are named Gerald, my DH is the 3rd Gerald and absolutely insists that our son be the 4th. I do not like this name, but understand how important it is to him so I agreed but with a condition that when the baby is a child he goes by a middle name rather than Gerald as there are still two living Geralds and it is just too confusing. He agreed but it must be a family name as well since this is a first born son and it follows tradition.
So we have settled on naming him after my father, David (as the middle name) with the official first name Gerald that he can use in adulthood if he chooses.
I am OK with the name David, it is no where near a name I would have chosen myself but I get that it is really important to DH and his family to keep with tradition. I just feel sad because there are so many names I love for a boy yet I have to settle on one that I have to learn to like. I will have to learn to like the name though since I won't take this tradition away from my DH, I have agreed to the name so I will stick to my word. Just wondering, any tips to help myself learn to like the name David?