WelshGirl
Mummy at last!!
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Hi......I posted this in Postnatal too, but thought I'd put it here too as I'm really getting desperate for some advice....
During the day, Olivia is generally really good.......she'll feed every 3 - 4 hours, and as she is still so small, we let her sleep when she needs to. When she's awake, we try to 'play' with her & talk to her & stuff.
But nights are awful.......she generally won't go down until midnight (ish), then will wake at around 3am for a feed.........the problem is getting her back down after this. Most nights, we're up for 3 hours with her, and she just cries & cries & cries. Sometimes we're up so long with her that we have to feed her twice. And then she will generally only go back off to sleep with one of us holding & cuddling her - is this a really bad habit to get into with her??
At the moment, I have my OH to help, but once he is back at work, all the night-time stuff will be down to me. For the last 2 nights, I have been in tears myself as I just don't know what to do with her............I wind her really well, I change her, I try to keep the room dark & not talk to her too much.........where am I going wrong?? I'm really dreading when OH goes back to work, as I know I'm going to struggle even more.
What am I doing wrong?? Does anyone have any advice?? Thanks.
xxx
During the day, Olivia is generally really good.......she'll feed every 3 - 4 hours, and as she is still so small, we let her sleep when she needs to. When she's awake, we try to 'play' with her & talk to her & stuff.
But nights are awful.......she generally won't go down until midnight (ish), then will wake at around 3am for a feed.........the problem is getting her back down after this. Most nights, we're up for 3 hours with her, and she just cries & cries & cries. Sometimes we're up so long with her that we have to feed her twice. And then she will generally only go back off to sleep with one of us holding & cuddling her - is this a really bad habit to get into with her??
At the moment, I have my OH to help, but once he is back at work, all the night-time stuff will be down to me. For the last 2 nights, I have been in tears myself as I just don't know what to do with her............I wind her really well, I change her, I try to keep the room dark & not talk to her too much.........where am I going wrong?? I'm really dreading when OH goes back to work, as I know I'm going to struggle even more.
What am I doing wrong?? Does anyone have any advice?? Thanks.
xxx