Stupid stuff OH says

[Nina83]

Sounds like it should be the title of a book right?

This morning DH poked me in the stomach (usually when he does that I give a little Pillsbury doughboy giggle) and I told him that if he poked harder I'll explode.
He answered "it looks like that".
He didn't get the giggle. He got the look.

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[Mummy to be x]

men don't think before they speak, or if they do they don't quite understand that sometimes they can be a little offensive.

 

[Tyred]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

I could of written that myself!

 

[ajlj1126]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

I hate this! DH has a very physically demanding job and when I say I'm tired he's says "Why? You just sit at a desk all day." He forgets that I have an 11 month old DD and a 6 yr old SD to chase around/care for WHILE I'm working!! He says it JUST to annoy me, he doesn't really feel that way!

 

[Monzter79]

I just get a lot of non-committal "I'm going to TRY to work on..." There is no try to work on. You are doing, or you are not doing. I told him how I felt... he's trying to work on it. LOL

 

[PrincessMommy]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

I could of written that myself!

Same here ladies!!! Good lord men, you certainly don't have a human being growing in your stomach! I am growing a baby, taking care of a 6 month old baby and working. Don't tell me you know how I feel!!!!!

 

[Nina83]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

I know how you feel. Bleh. But when he's sick and I tell him I was sick just last week so I can understand and sympathize (when I was even sicker than he was) I get that- "no, you won't understand how I feel, I feel like I'm going to die"
It's like whenever I feel something he can as well, but his feeling are so individual I could never ever understand.

 

[Rose1978]

On my birthday when we were having dinner mine said to me did he want me to let me know if he thought I had post natal depression? I know it's a serious topic and probably needs addressing at some point but it was my birthday, why would I suddenly want to discuss the possibilities and likelihood of that? I think he thought he was being supportive but I didn't really see it like that! And apparently my nipples are the size of saucers! Great, thanks for that information!

 

[Ashersmomma]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

My DH does this too!! He will just complain about his back hurting or that he is so tired and he just gets the look. If I say anything about myself hurting or being tired, he says, "I don't know why you are when you don't do much all day." Why?! Because I'm chasing after a 22 month old and growing a tiny human in my belly, that's why. I just want to smack him upside the head sometimes......and I usually do

 

[DolceBella]

On Friday when I was sore from an ultrasound tech pushing too hard on me, DH came home from work, crashed on the couch in front of the tv, and then started snoring! When I poked him to suggest that he make the girls dinner since I was told to rest for the night, he said "I had a rough day, I'm so tired." I was tempted to shove him right off the couch!

 

[emeeorevan]

Mine doesn't say much that's stupid and is generally extremely supportive but there is one thing he says a lot that drives me up the wall... he says: "I know how you feel" or "I am too".

I say "I'm so tired" and he says "I am too/I know how you feel". It drives me up the wall because as tired as he may be from work, he's not tired from making a whole person.. as well as going about daily activities.

OMG!! I get this all the time! I say "I'm so tired" or "gosh my back is so sore" his response Is "yeah mine/me too" ugh! We work the same hours! He can leave his work at work but I usually have to bring mine home with me(papers to grade, lessons to write,ECT.) And I have to do laundry, get the boys ready for bed. We do take turns cooking but other than that from 5-9pm all he does is workout or watch football!!
oh and HE gets to sit at a desk while I have to stand all day and try my best to teach 20 6&7year olds how to sit, listen, and learn (talk about exhausting and repetitive!! But I wouldn't trade it for anything!)

 

[bizzibii]

My one told me I am very heavy the other day when . I guess he forgot I am 26w pregnant with twins