Suffered A Miscarriage Back In August

[emmad339]

Hi all,

It's been such a long time since I visited this website but for some reason I have finally found the courage to come back this evening and see how everyone is doing. The last time I posted a message on this site was back at the very end of July, when I had been for an early scan. Things didn't look too good and I'm sad to say that I did in fact suffer a miscarriage

Is it normal to need this amount of time before you can actually start to talk about it because up until now I've just tried to put the whole experience to the back of my mind and pretend it never happened?

 

[JASMAK]

Hi, I would think that it is normal. Everyone deals with it defferently. With my first two, it took me almost a year to deal with it...pretty much after I was forced to deal with it. I am so glad I did. It really does help to cry, get angry and talk about it.

 

[Chris77]

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't answer your question as I've never been pregnant, but I am sure what you are feeling is normal and there are plenty of ladies here who can help you.

 

[Barneyboo]

So sorry for your loss, I have had 2 m/c and completely understand where you are coming from all the girls on here are amazing and apart from my best friend have got me through it x x x x

 

[SJK]

Hi all,

It's been such a long time since I visited this website but for some reason I have finally found the courage to come back this evening and see how everyone is doing. The last time I posted a message on this site was back at the very end of July, when I had been for an early scan. Things didn't look too good and I'm sad to say that I did in fact suffer a miscarriage

Is it normal to need this amount of time before you can actually start to talk about it because up until now I've just tried to put the whole experience to the back of my mind and pretend it never happened?

sorry for your loss, I had a mmc in aug as well xxx

 

[dizzy65]

sorry for ur losss i suffered a misscarriage back in the end of july i no how u feel

 

[emie]

So sorry for your lossthe ladies here are a great support x

 

[misstrouble]

I am sorry for you loss. I lost my angel 8 weeks ago and I find talking to the ladies on here helps me but every one grieves in different ways. There is no right or wrong way and no 'normal' way to deal with such a loss and you need to do what is right for you.

 

[moomoo]

we lost our baby 6 weeks ago, and im finding it harder than ever, it just goes to show that no two people greive in the same way. Hope you are ok?

 

[Lazy Leo]

you take as much time as you need hun. I was the opposite I told people, even those who didn't know we were ttc as iy avoided awkwrdness for me. But I was amazed by how many tears I cried. I didn't think it was poosible to shed that amount of tears. We all cope in our ways, and if time is / was what you need then that's fine. Take as much as you need x

 

[Sash13]

Everyone deals with the pain of miscarriage differently ... I always knew this but didn't really understand until I went through my own. I have found that talking to others has been tremendously helpful - I just choose who I speak to very carefully. A few people have even told me their own miscarriage stories, and I had no idea that they had even gone through it.

Hang in there. Time will make it easier but you are allowed to grieve in whatever way and for however long that you need.

 

[cleckner04]

In my opinion we all have to grieve about it eventually. Some women hold it in for a while though in my experience with friends and such. I miscarried in August as well and I have pretty much talked about it nonstop since. It helps me to talk alot though. At least the crying has finally stopped mostly. Good luck hun. If you ever feel the need to rant away your pain, this is a great place for it.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

 

[eclipse]

I had my miscarriage in November 2005 and there are still some days that I have a tough time with it. Even if you have a baby afterwards, you will always think about it, I know I do. I think you just need to take as much time as you need, only you can decide when you are ready to ttc again, and heal. There is no time limit, no specific period. I hope you feel better soon. We are all here if you need to talk, rage, cry, whatever.

 

[Alexas Mommy]

I am so sorry for your loss.