Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

hey ladies...

yeah mines non exisiting...i would love to..but other half when he gets stressed just the last thing he thinks off... wish he would pester me lol...although i am starting to get so uncomfortable and sore now..not sure i can handle it haha so maybe count myself lucky!

not looking forward to travelling to london next week as i seen its meant to be glorious week, with temps up to 25.... i am going to look like the michellin man! only just got my feet to a normallish size :( ohhh the joys!!
 
I would like it if I was more comfy and less tired oh and he was here.
 
My night went okay, but came back and OHs sister was here and couldn't get rid of her til after midnight to go to my bed! Grrr. Then LO had me up at 5.40am - bloody ridiculous! LO is down for a nap so I am just about to crawl to bed.

How are my fellow preggers ladies sex lifes? I'm just avoiding it completely now, giving in on average every 2 weeks to keep OH happy. It makes my ahem, lady area, so sore for a day or two afterwards - feel like I'm going to split in half and need to sit on a cushion :blush: Plus it's so yucky down there - too much discharge and it's all swollen and horrible. Sorry way TMI. I wish OH would stop pestering me, I bet he wouldn't want sex if his bits felt like this!

Hahaha! To be honest, in this last trimestre, there hasn't been much 'action' because I feel exactly like you! Same symptoms. I do have this really hot dreams though sometimes but I can't be asked... Yesterday, I thought what the hell, took a shower and then went for it. OMG! It was painful! :blush: Not sure if it's because we haven't done it in ages or because something has changed down there... lol How am I meant to have a baby coming out from there if it's too painful already? :dohh:
 
Massive blood flow down there to feed baby! it disappears the closer you get. My cousin rather grossly told me that orgasming increases the blood flow so helps baby get more food. She's had 5 very large babies lol
 
with my sex drive with my DS it was through the roof but this time its non-existent. We have only DTD 6 times so far as even when I wanted to worried cos of the miscarriage previously, silly I know plus I have practically had thrush constantly with cystitis yuck yuck xx
 
I've decided I'm going to have to in the next week its been nearly a month lol
 
Well girls I'm nackered!!!

This morning I took Toby to his dad's dropping my key in at work and taking him to the park on the way. He's really clingy at the moment and when we got to his dad's I spent an hour trying to convince him to stay there and he was determined he was coming home with me. I tried bribing him with everything, asking him nicely, explaining that his dad wanted to see him, he was having none of it. In the end I just had to leave and I cried all the way down the street because his dad had to hold him back to stop him running out the door and he screamed the most awful scream when I shut the door. I've never heard him do that and it was just awful, I felt so bad!!! Then I walked home, cleaned the bathroom and toilet, washed the pots and cleaned the kitchen, brushed the kitchen floor, tidied the living room, brushed the carpets (don't have a vacuum cleaner here yet), folded and put away dry washing, hung out wet washing and put another load on. Then I relaxed to eat my lunch and watch a dvd then I hung out the other load of washing, and put another load on, got all the dirty washing from upstairs and put some of Lily's things away, then the man came to install the telephone line (don't have to use my phone for the internet anymore YAY) and the handyman came straight after from the landlord to see about fitting a shower curtain rail. Then I made tea and cleaned the kitchen whilst I was at it, had a shower and am finally chilling.

Exhausted is not the word. Having a nice cup of raspberry leaf tea and wondering whether DS is okay, I haven't rang my ex before now as I thought that if he knows I'm on the phone he might get upset and start wanting to come home as because the ex didn't ring or text I'm guessing he settled, found it really hard to resist though but gonna send him a text now just to check he was okay after I left. I hate that he's going through this but he's gone through so many things changing these past few months I think he just wants something to stay the same. He just wants to stay in one place with nothing changing for a little while. Poor boy. It really upsets me that he's so down about it, he used to love going to his grandparents and his dad's but now when I try to take him somewhere I'm not staying he just gets so upset and it's heartbreaking.
 
Aw that would break my heart :(

So back in London for team conference an found out they doing a surprise baby shower , bless them! Don't want fuss! Feel a bit awkward lol as I don't know most of them very well working in a virtual environment an I'm probably gonna cry that they thought of me to do that an don't want to do that in front of every one lol
 
Ahh busy day KM Ive got lazy with the house at the moment due to clingy child that doesnt let me do anything lol.

Enjoy babyshower :)

Were going down to a lake by the seafront today with lots of mums and babies, need to start getting ready as Ive got loads to do this morning. Stupid OH with his big elephant feet and stupid loud cough and slamming doors at stupid oclock on his way to work woke Connie up at 5.50 so shes in a bit of a bad mood. I could tell she was in a nice sleep too because she screamed straight away. He got a very angry text from me this morning and hasnt replied lol
 
I woke up when OH went to work at 6 o clock, and I don't even have Toby, wasn't happy. Couldn't get back to sleep and am so tired. Plus I definitely think I pushed myself too far yesterday. Am feeling really poorly today. FUll of a cold, banging headache and ache everywhere :(. Wish I could sit in my PJs and do nothing but I have things to do. But they are at least waiting until after lunch!
 
laundry out, 9 am lie in now need to shower, shave legs and die from man flu!
 
Hiya

Went to my show, really enjoyed it as I had a really crappy week this week. Still spent too much and now the rest of this month is tight :wacko:

Got some cloth nappies as I want to use these and not disposables, got the car seat - a britax SHR II in cowmooflage :) I just liked the fabric lol :)

A few baby clothes - etc

So apart from furnature I've got all of the big things (including a moses basket) feeling a bit more ready though I'm knackered from working and need to get some things done around the house :(
 
Ooh I've seen some cloth nappies some ones selling 2nd hand I fancy trying them but abit nervy of the washing.

I have spoken to MW at last about these pains suggestion is I am have an irritable uterus.
 
it's a bit the same as an irritable bowel it contracts pointlessly of it's own accord it's just sinking in I really am stuck at home or driving small distances. I can't shop, walk or spend any real time on my feet as it makes it worse. a week tomorrow I see the consultant and it seems soo far away
 
Lily has hiccups and I can feel it on my cervix, so weird...they seem to be lasting for ages too...really don't like it x
 
Aww I forgot about hiccups, Connie had them all the time and she still had them all the time when she came out too!
 

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