Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

[Mosnippy]

thursday peeps!!!!!! nearly friday the 13th!!! better be a blady lucky day for me haha (scan of course tommorrow)
argh had a horrible dream about scan, just madness!
Irmastar how did you scan go?

i am cross with my mom, i was checking bubs heartbeat yesterday after dosing myslf with paracetomal , and been sneezing coughing and throwing up a storm since last week, thought just check, and there is was just gallopping along nicely..and sounded so loud, i recorded it (ok again) so i sent to my mom. when speaking to her last night , she said when i sent it to her, she said to her team in the office, my daughter has sent me.. ANOTHER heartbeat...

welllll sorrrryyyy for trying to share my little joy with my mom!!! never do that again..i was so pissed off!!!

just my little rant lol

 

[kittylady]

Wow that was cold

Good luck for tomorrow, my mum and I seem to have good luck on Friday the 13th or maybe its just a positive mental attitude thing we've got going hope you have good luck too

Morning sickness is back this morning, threw up loads, (sorry if TMI) didn't feel right since I got up though, I didn't want much to eat (had an actimel and a kit kat) I think my body knew already.

Hope your all ok this morning, how was you scan irmastar, our thoughts are with you

 

[Mosnippy]

thankkssss, i hope so!
still you have this fear lying deep down in the pit of your stomach! already told OH i am going to be a blubbering mess and to have lots of tissues! lol even if everything is fine I will be crying loads lol

atleast its my Friday today, I booked day off tommorrow, so did OH so after scan we going for a nice big breakfast, then we going window shopping at baby stuff (his idea :O shocking i know) then plan how i am going to post it on facebook haha so nervous about that lol

soooooo cant be bothered to work.

 

[kmbabycrazy]

^^ It's nice when OH shocks you with being well into the whole baby thing and not just typical man about it isn't it lol. My OH said something that shocked me the other day. He'd always seemed quite panicky about having a baby even though he's happy and loves the idea he's going to be a daddy but he's never really been around babies so he always joked that it would be mine until it was 3 and then he'd take over lol. But the other day we were at a friends and they have a one year old who has an ear infection and she was screaming and he was joking about how he wouldn't have to deal with the crying and they thought he was being serious so they started trying to tell him being a parent is ace and the crying doesn't bother you when it's your child (blatant lie but still lol...they should've said doesn't bother you as much lol) etc etc and then he came out with "oh I know, this is all just jokes I know when she (he's that convinced it's a girl) gets here I will pick her up and never want to put her down. SHe'll still be 18 in one of them baby carriers and I'll be like 'don't you touch her she's mine' " Of course I was laughing on the outside but my heard just melted on the inside. Now I can't wait to see him holding our baby with that besotted look I just now he'll get in his eyes. I'm secretly sure he'll cry when it's born but he's Scottish so he might just put on the hard man front and cry when i go for my shower lol

 

[Mosnippy]

awwww that made me all welll up!!

i am a sucker for a man and a baby, i love watching OH with babies, he is really good, i can watch him for hours, i guess he has had practice, even now with his girls just melts my heart watching them give there dad cuddles and loves.

arghhh im going to cry now haha

 

[stardust599]

Good luck at the scan Mosnippy - mines next Weds. Everything will be perfect
Aww that's a shame about your Mum, I was obsessed with it in my last PG and my Mum and sis were always laughing at me.

Did we all watch One Born Every Min last night? The water birth was amazing - that's what I want, I cried at it. The shoulder distocia one was really scary though, I felt so sorry for that woman in all that pain, I think it was the fear making it worse for her! And the other girl did great too for that big baby. I had a dream about birth after watching it where I had a really easy, peaceful birth (it was horrendous last time) but my baby came out so small - like a barbie doll :-S Weird.

I can't lie on my tummy now so I really can't sleep, getting like 2-3 hours a night!

We are Scottish too, my OH definately puts on the hard man act I have only ever seen him cry once in 4 years - which was about a week after LO was born and we both had really bad baby blues, weren't coping and weren't getting sleep. Apparently he was sobbing at the birth but I was so out of it on morphine I can't remember a thing! He is a right softie with LO though and very hands on and loving - he baths with her etc. but wouldn't tell his mates that

kitty poor you with MS back My sickness is gone and I have much more energy too

xxx

 

[kittylady]

Thanks ladies

I did watch it last night, I've always wanted a water birth and I also hate the idea of an epi. I really want to go into the zone like that lady obviouslly did. I certainly am trying not to have any fear going into the birth because it can just make it worse.

Its odd really, my mother totally supports my no epi decision but my MIL thinks I'll change my mind. Yet with regards to cloth nappies / real nappies my MIL totally supports my decision but my mother recons I'll get fed up and want disposables. Strange world.

I'm going for a walk down the local high street in an hour with hubby after he gets off work to see if the walk will make me feel better.

My mother thinks my baby is a girl and my MIL wants a grandaughter so natually it'll be a boy (at least hubby will be happy )

 

[Mosnippy]

aww hopefullu fresh air will help you!

i felt like a bit of a waddle actually lol haha but thought i will be doing that tommorrow so will just chill.

weird how Moms and MIL differ! i been quizzed about all sorts already, like if i will have the baby christened etc i was like havent even thought about that, can i just get to 12 weeks first!!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

aww hopefullu fresh air will help you!

i felt like a bit of a waddle actually lol haha but thought i will be doing that tommorrow so will just chill.

weird how Moms and MIL differ! i been quizzed about all sorts already, like if i will have the baby christened etc i was like havent even thought about that, can i just get to 12 weeks first!!

Haha. My "MIL" is a bit up herself and tries to act like she's all proper and posh. I like her but I hate that about her!! I think she's disappointed that we won't be having the baby christened (i'm not christened and neither is OH because she wasn't snobby- bit harsh I know- when he was born) she also told me we have to have a girl because she doesn't like the boys name and keeps telling us things we do and the way we want to raise the baby is common and it's kind of doing my head in. She's like "oh don't do it that way it's common" and "you should do this it's much better". I feel like smacking her but if I do she'll call me common even more lol. I don't care if she does think i'm common I think i'm a bit common. But I like it. I'm not scum or chavvy I just had a bit of a rough childhood and grew up a bit gobby because of it lol. I don't care for the "finer things" i'd be very happy raising my child on only getting toys at christmas and birthdays and going on holidays to english caravan parks. Although we didn't have much growing up I loved it and it made me appreciate what I did get!!! So she can stuff her spoiling the child and the you need to save money and do this so you can give them nice things and send them to posh schools.

My mum is very much on my side...obviously. She raised her kids that way and we all turned out fine.

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I realise that was a bit "ranty".

Sorry lol

 

[Newlywed2011]

Well, I noticed everyone has been posting ultrasound pics lately and for some reason mine won't post so that I can share with you guys. I'll keep trying. Our ultrasound was taken when I was 6 weeks 4 days so it wasn't very baby-like but still the most amazing picture I've seen thus far. I'm 11 weeks 2 days now and we recently went in again but this time it was just for a doppler, no ultrasound. We were able to hear the baby's heartbeat and it truly was the most amazing sound. We were a little nervous at first, because it took the dr a while to find it but I had faith that he would. He's very convinced that I'm having a very healthy pregnancy so far which makes me feel so much better. We go back in 4 weeks for another doppler, then again in another 4 weeks for an ultrasound. By then I'll be about 19 weeks and we'll be able to find out the sex of the baby. Good Luck to everyone who will be having their scans coming up!

 

[Mosnippy]

haha KM i sooo agree with you!!

i wasnt a spoilt brat, (well growing up in south africa not many are) i couldnt have everything my little heart desired, my mom made my clothes, it was cheaper, i had hand me downs from cousins etc. was smacked if i was naughtly (this happened a lot haha ) I think i turned out great, i dont like this spoiling kids nonsense either, my OH has the same opinions, but one of his exes OMG spoils the two oldest tooo much and does my head in, she has to buy the biggest and bested things for them. and he flips cause he cant (and wont ) do the same in return.

i cant remember if there was a point lol

oh i wont be christening either I am not a religious person.. but MIL had something to say about that!

argh just busy bodies with nothing better to do haha

argh so glad this day is over, but sooo nervous for tommorrow lol such a wimp i am!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

My son's dad's family spoil him and it does my head in. Every 3 or 4 weeks he comes home with a new jacket/top or pair of shoes telling me he's been here there and everywhere. Seriously how many pairs of shoes do they think a 4 year old need??? It's crazy. He's got so many clothes now there's no room for them. I don't know why they send them all back to mine instead of keeping them at theirs in case he has an accident (unlikely but possible) or gets dirty playing on the park?

The one thing they will not spoil him with...a proper hair cut. DS is adamant he wants long hair like his daddy (don't worry not too long just like "rocker" long) so I let him grow it and trim it when he needs to except his stupid nana keeps cutting his fringe rather than brushing it out of the way like I do. So instead of looking like the cool little skater boy he wants to look like he looks like a 70s flower child because she gives him a straight cut fringe. She has absolutely no experience hairdressing and despite the fact I keep telling her not to do it she does it anyway. I might threaten her with the fact that without my permission it's child abuse to cut his hair lol (it is but i think that's slightly crazy). It upsets me because i'm going to have to take him to get his hair cut at the hairdressers (a trim I can do...full hair cut not in a million years) and they'll cut it all off and he'll be heartbroken. Silly bitch does my head in!!!

 

[Mosnippy]

arghh that would do my head in! specially when you say dont cut it! i would diff put her in her place,

i am not allowed to touch the two little ones hair other then brush and tie up etc, no styling or anything, i was taken over the coals when i put hair serum in them one weekend! its not like i dyed it purple!!!

just had a mushy moment, my big boss, (my managers , manager lol ) just sent me a message to say good luck for tommorrow and to enjoy and give her update! i was so impressed she remembered , and she has been messaging me to check how my cold is!

anything from my manager....nothing! arghhhh he does my head in, thank goodness getting a new one lol

 

[irmastar]

Sorry I didn't post yesterday after my scan but I got a horrible headache ughhh...but my scan went great, the tech had to take more time taking meqasurements because bubba was jumping up and down, one time he even said at loud"gowsh she's moving a lot" in an ugly tone lol but I couldn't care less, OH was just amazed at how well formed the baby already is I can't post pictures as I am on my phone as soon as my computer gets fixed I'll upload them.

 

[irmastar]

I think I managed to upload the pictures from my phone

 

[kmbabycrazy]

They're lovely scan pics irmastar.

Mosnippy- good luck with your scan today. I'm sure the date it falls on won't have any impact.

Feel so much better this morning. Of course I still threw up but the sickness faded soon after. Going to the council today trying to get some help with housing so we can get a new place soon. Fingers crossed. Good thing is my sister works for the Local Housing Authority so I know which strings to pull to get help lol.

So jealous of everyone getting their scans. 2 weeks and 3 days until I get mine. Doesn't sound long. Feels like forever. Especially considering I'm 13 weeks tomorrow. Hate having to wait. But at least my baby will look very much like a baby when I have my scan and they won't have to press as hard to find it. My uterus is well above my pubic bone and my bump is well on it's way. It's no longer bloat but hard and still there no matter how much I breathe in...YAY!!!

 

[misse04]

Nice scan pics
I really need to win the lottery and get a cleaner, 6 month old does not let me leave her for 2 seconds and house work is behind, driving me nuts!
It was my best friends babies funeral yesterday, as sad as it was, was such a lovely send off for her

 

[kmbabycrazy]

^^ How sad. I imagine it must feel kind of awkward being at something like that when you're pregnant yourself. But I'm sure it was a lovely send off. And i'm afraid i'm winning the lottery this weekend so you may just have to wait a while haha.

 

[misse04]

Hmm well it was ok, like she's my best friend and her baby was 23 weeks so were at such different stages she hasn't really seen it like havinig a problem with me being pregnant, she still asks how its all going too and her OH, they've been brilliant, it was heartbreaking seeing her so upset though.

Maybe we will be sharing the winnings.... note to self 'must actually do the lottery to win it'.