Support........

[AbbynChloe]

When Chloe was really little (approx 7 weeks) I ended up in a hostel shelter (long horrible story that eventually worked itself out for the best)

I have kept in touch with most of the women I was there for - 1 has turned into my best friend.

Tonight I was thinking how much I missed it (not the circumstances!!) but we were in these self contained flats in a big house. we used to go over to each others place, help out with the kids, have dinner together.

I miss that family feeling.........

 

[emalou90]

oh honey that must have been lovely to be able to count on a few people and help each other out!
im sure you'll have that again?
why dont you meet up with someof them again?

x

 

[AbbynChloe]

It's cool, was feeling sentimental!!

have treated (well really cant afford) a chinese dinner and snuggling with Chloe reading books

Today - life is good!

How are you doing hun?? xxxxxxxxx

 

[emalou90]

aw thats so cute! can imagine you two, sweet and sour chicken and a book
we're good thanks, amelia got bought a little 'cosy coupe' car in pink this weekend from her grandma which she absolutely loves!

we dont have a paddling pool either so i filled up a storage box and she was happy playing in that


https://i56.tinypic.com/2w20dw8.jpg

 

[AbbynChloe]

Amelia looks awesome - I wish I had thought of that!!

Sweet n Sour chicken is my abosolute fave - Chloe only tried the veg spring rolls and hated it :-S but was a lovely evening otherwise.

I'm soooo jealous you'll be ttc soon - i've always wanted that sort of age gap between chloe and my net 1 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[emalou90]

Thanks! she was loving it! looks like we'll be getting it out again today aswell, her step great nanny (OH's nan) has bought her a paddling pool from france which is being delivered tuesday, i cant wait!

mine too! at least chloe tried some start her on the right tracks, getting a taste for a lush chinese now and again! (its my fave food EVER!)

Im so lucky really as my OH wants children soon(ish) and it coincides with my overall plan of me wanting children with close(ish) age gaps!

counting down the days after christmas



oh just recently ive been down my family hasnt spoken to me in over a week (sounds silly as its not long for some people but for me its not nice) i really feel alone as much as i have OH i still need my family... yet ive made a point of not contacting them to see if they make as much effort as me, all i can say is.. CLEARLY NOT!

long story short, they think the sun shines from FOB backside..


- essay, apology's!

 

[AbbynChloe]

Lol - yeah it always surprises me why people can't see FOB the way I do. grrrrrrrrrrr

Chinese and Vodka is the only way to celebrate a Sat night mmmmmm

i'm sorry about your family havn't spoken to you. Mine only contact me when they need money (like where the hell am I gonna get that from) so just wait for them to call... been over a month and waiting...... you can't pick your family xxxxx

 

[emalou90]

i think we'd get on Abby!


I hope your family want to support you a bit more as well.. seems a shame people just dont want too (or make the effort too)

i certainly couldnt do it to amelia! especially if she was in the sam situ as me

 

[AbbynChloe]

Thats exactly what I think. there will be very little Chloe could do that would make me abandon her?? I don't get some people!

Lol - i'll bring the vodka you order the Chinese!!

Well I have moved on to Ben & Jerry's now!! Chloe's daddy drives me up the wall and then some - argh!! 18 more years!! seriously??!!??

 

[emalou90]

18 years.. its like torture. oh well, hopefully it'll get easier.


omg Abby, read this..
https://www.babyandbump.com/two-week-wait/663406-oi-all-you-poas-ladies.html

 

[AbbynChloe]

looool well???? are you?????

 

[emalou90]

Haha! 3 tests later, false alarm!!

 

[AbbynChloe]

And are you happy/sad about that???

I am seriously in two minds about giving up my job - I really really don't want to but if Chloe's dad continuing to be an ass grrrrrr

 

[emalou90]

well its not perfect timing but i would have been happy

at the end of the day you're going to make the right decision for you and chloe
if he continues to be a pain, you're not really going to have a choice... i hope that if you do give your job up that it'll be the best decision you make xxx