Suspected MC

[mazza2003]

Hi
I got my first ever BFP this morning. I had been spotting for a few days, however the bleeding got heavier and less than two hours after getting a BFP I was in A&E. It doesnt look good and I will be scanned at 8.30am tomorrow.

I will try not to get upset as I would only be six weeks, but what tips would you have for looking forward
When can I try again? Is there anything I could take to improve my chances next month?

 

[Jessa]

Hi mazza. I'm so sorry to hear that about what is likely a miscarriage. It's okay to be upset. "Only being six weeks" is not a qualifier for whether or not you should be sad and disappointed. Allow yourself to feel those things to help you heal. You'll deal with this loss in your own way and when you're ready to try again, go for it. Hang in there.

 

[Naya69]

iam so sorry to hear that try and keep your chin up tho i bled three times one at 6 weeks i cant really offer you any advice but iam sending you a big hug xxx

 

[Las78]

Sorry to hear that Mazza, a friend of mine bled from 6 weeks and went on to have a healthy little boy eventhough she was convinced she was miscarrying. I'm not trying to give you false hope hun just that there may just be some hope. I really hope the scan tommorrow brings you good news however if it doesn't like Jessa said, allow yourself to feel, it's still your baby no matter how far you are gone hun.

As for trying again I think there are so may differing opinions, some say wait a cycle, others say wait 3, personally I am waiting for m/c bleeding to stop and hoping for the best, if nothing after 2 cycles I will be proper ttc'ing.

Let us know how you get on hun, thinking of you x

 

[Shelby2007]

I too believe that you are still able to be upset... I was 9 weeks along.. it is a hard thing to go through.. it was also my first ever bfp.. good luck honey.

Im still taking my prenatals to hopefully help out when we start trying again. And the questions you asked are really good to ask your Dr tomorrow. Every dr is different.. mine told us to wait 3 months until we try again.. but I didnt have a natural miscarriage.. I had to take misoprostal to induce mine..

 

[mazza2003]

its not helped as my OH is at centre parcs with his kids from his previous marriage I dont feel that I can tell him or he will come home and I dont want him to do that to the kids.
I have a headache that is getting worse by the second.....

 

[MrsJD]

Oh hun,

What a nightmare for you!

Alot of people get bleeding and it turns out okay. You shouldn't need to go through this on your own but I understand what your are saying about him being away. It's a catch 22.

Good luck tomorrow and try and rest.



XXXXXXXXXXx

 

[Shelby2007]

Oh my. Get some much needed rest honey! And Im sorry.. I guess Im selfish.. but I could NOT have done this without my DH right by my side

 

[mazza2003]

Oh my. Get some much needed rest honey! And Im sorry.. I guess Im selfish.. but I could NOT have done this without my DH right by my side

Thats not selfish at all. I just think it would be selfish to ruin the kids holiday. They haven had a holiday for a couple of years.


Thanks to everyone for their kidn wishes. Will let you know how it goes...

 

[Shelby2007]

Mazza - you are too kind.. and I love that you put the kids before what you are going through.. you are soo strong.. PM if you feel like talking..

 

[Rebaby]

I'm sorry for what you're going through I hope the scan brings good news for you tomorrow, sending you big

 

[Barneyboo]

 

[Jessa]

I hope your scan was good news today. Thinking about you.

 

[Shelby2007]

Thinking of you today