telling ex (DS father)

[mummydove]

I have a three years old DS who i had with my ex husband (he left when my DS was 12 weeks old) so have been seperated from him for nearly 3 years and divorced for 2. He sees DS twice a week. To cut a long story short he has never made things easy constantly threatning me with court, solistors letters and all sorts, even though i have always made an effort to accomodate him and keep him in DS life.

Over the past 6 months everthing has been much nicer, the change over goes well and we have not had any talk of solistors for ages. I really dont want this to change because it is much better for DS but i am about to tell him that i am pregnant (with my partner of 2 years) baby and although this should not effect anything, he always causes problems when something happens that is nice for me. Even though he has moved on.

I am not sure how to tell and how to make him not start with the unreasonable behaviour again

 

[welshmummy2be]

my sister was in simular situation not so long back...she simply told him when he was picking the kids up to go out, the kids filled him in with the rest of the news as they were so excited (one is 7 the other is 4) it is hard for my sister tho as the children want him to meet their new baby and its not what either my sister or ex wants. i know you'll find the right way but if i was you id leave it until you where showing more because in reality he doesnt need to know a thing. x x good luck x x x