Do any of you have a MIL who dislikes you? How did she react to the news that you were pregnant?? My MIL has made no secret of the fact that she doesn't like my parenting skills although I suspect it is because hubby and I have different ideas to how she would want them raised.
Long story short, hubby's son came to live with us when he was 9 because his mother shacked up with a murderer as well as evidence of drug use/pornography around her kids (5 by different fathers), neglect, gang members frequenting the house etc etc - I know wtf - and decided to stop SS leaving the country when hubby got a job in Western Australia. During the court case bio-mum decided to have me investigated for child abuse - ?! - because SS didn't like how strict we were (of course, compared to his Mum's place! We had *gasp* rules!). MIL took hubby's ex partner's word as gospel, child services literally laughed at the allegations and said it was clear bio-mum was trying to create drama to win the court case (she didn't!) but that didn't change MIL's opinion of me.
SS is now 14 and happy as, well adjusted despite what has happened already in his short life. I'm very proud of him, hubby and our wee family and stoked to be adding another to it!
SOOOO... no doubt the MIL will not exactly be ecstatic at the thought of me having a child with her son (my hubby). Any advice on how to deal with it??
Thanks in advance
Long story short, hubby's son came to live with us when he was 9 because his mother shacked up with a murderer as well as evidence of drug use/pornography around her kids (5 by different fathers), neglect, gang members frequenting the house etc etc - I know wtf - and decided to stop SS leaving the country when hubby got a job in Western Australia. During the court case bio-mum decided to have me investigated for child abuse - ?! - because SS didn't like how strict we were (of course, compared to his Mum's place! We had *gasp* rules!). MIL took hubby's ex partner's word as gospel, child services literally laughed at the allegations and said it was clear bio-mum was trying to create drama to win the court case (she didn't!) but that didn't change MIL's opinion of me.
SS is now 14 and happy as, well adjusted despite what has happened already in his short life. I'm very proud of him, hubby and our wee family and stoked to be adding another to it!
SOOOO... no doubt the MIL will not exactly be ecstatic at the thought of me having a child with her son (my hubby). Any advice on how to deal with it??
Thanks in advance