Testing 4th July... Anyone else?

[Becky61]

Hi ladies! & hi 'new to this thread' ladies! Im a total newbie to this part of the forum. I can usually be found on General Chatter talking utter crap, occasionally baby talk toi as my LO is a little tear away atm!!

No symptoms here. Infact, lower backache & a dull abdomianl ache, so um pretty sure im out this month, but its only our 1st month NTNP.

How are you all?? X

 

[babyjan]

Yeah I'm pretty sure I'm out too, although AF isn't even due yet but I can just tell its not gonna happen! anyways I will take a break from opks, pregnancy tests and the whole ttc stress for next cycle, really can't deal with much dispoointment, I'm not going to ever go back on birth control but I just won't be obsessing so much iykwim?

Hopefully I can stick to my word

 

[sammynashley]

I know what you mean Hun, I've tried saying that to myself a couple times but still can't manage it, I've been thinking about going to see the doctor about not conceiving after 14 cycles, I think the contraceptive patch has messed my body up completely never felt so crappy ttc. But I guess it'll happen when the time is right! Just wish it'd hurry up!

 

[babyjan]

I had an appointment booked with my GP for Tuesday just gone but cancelled, I felt silly for even booking an appointment, no idea why though :/

I had ONE depo shot for the first time ever back in November 2012 and here I am still waiting, that was also my first ever BC so I can't help but think that it ruined me.

 

[sammynashley]

I wouldn't feel silly sometimes they San give you something to help bring af on after depo. I had some swabs taken to check for infection other than that my gp doesn't seem too bothered

Has anyone tested today? I did an ic saw something but think it's just a evap or something it had no colour.


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My Ovulation Chart

 

[babyjan]

Sammy, thankfully AF returned for me 9 months after the shot, they were wonky till December last year and have now settled back into a normal regular cycle, so I don't understand why I still haven't conceived!

Getting a bfp in April made me feel better actually, knowing I can actually get pregnant after depo but it had to end in miscarriage :/

My dr told me to wait 3 months but of course I didn't listen lol! It will be 3 months at the end of July since miscarriage anyway

How many dpo are you now?

 

[babyjan]

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[sammynashley]

At least your cycles have returned to normality Hun, sorry for your loss, my cycles have been all over the place since I came off the evra contraceptive patch last year, although I know I'm ovulating so that's something!!

I'm only 9 dpo but just couldn't resist


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My Ovulation Chart

 

[Becky61]

Grrrr... Im out

 

[babyjan]

Oh yeah I was out by Monday lol!

I will be taking a break from ttc, I will basically be ntnp, I'm done with all the stressing!

Good luck sammy! And becky hopefully you get that bfp for next cycle x

 

[Becky61]

Thanks babyjan. We are NTNP rather than actively "trying" which i view to be ovulation charting, temping ect. To be honest, i would love to be able to do all of that, but i just cant get my head around it!

I still find NTNP a mental rollercoaster & the 2WW absolute torture!!

Having said that, myself & my ex NTNP for 2 years, no success, & 8 weeks after we split, found out i was pregnant to a one night stand! Just saying thay anything can happen.

All the very best. Look forward to hearing you have you BFP