That's my story...

[Foxxy]

Hello Ladies,

i just always read ur posts, but haven't put my own one. But now i want - because i'm really annoyed...
My story's a long one and i try to make it shorter. When i've found out that i'm pregnant (January this year) it's completely unexpected , but my boyfriend was so happy with this fact, that we've deceided to keep the baby. After 2 weeks he told me that his ex-girlfriend gave a birth to their child and he'll be living with her and his baby under the same roof again for the sake of the child as he's a really good guy. And also that he's more than sure that i'll make an abortion and will live happily afterwards. But i've choose another way, although it's hard. Between February and now a lot of things had happened, different feeling i had. He's still living with her, although he promised to finish everything in 6 months time and so on...
And can u imagine that several days ago he called me and told that he's not sure that it's his baby, that probably i've told someone else that he's baby's father too (just to be on the safe side), that he want DNA test after baby's birth if i want any financial support from him (thanks no, as i have enough money by myself and i can cope with my baby alone, as i've my supportive family) and as we live with him in different countries he want me to fly after baby's birth just to prove it to him!!! Can u believe in it?! And also i've heard a lot of s**t about myself during this talk. I just couldn't listened all this bulls*t anymore and switched off the phone...
And now i'm thinking: why i've not seen all this before?! why i's so stupid?! why i had all this hopes?! and also still couldn't not believe that someone could be so nasty!!!
Sorry for long story. Hope that it's not too complicated.

 

[brownhairedmom]

To put it simply, guys are idiots. I know there are some out there that are probably perfectly sane, but for the most part they are not.

I don't know what to say. I'm expecting a "are you sure that this is even mine" question to pop up with my sperm donor, even though he knows damn well that I was with him for a year and didn't sleep with anyone else. And then I'm expecting all hell to break loose.

You need to just cut him out. You don't have to prove it to anyone whos this babys dad is. I don't know where guys think they get the right to ask that. If you have enough money to take care of the baby, just change your number and forget about him. Don't let him contact you. He is the only one missing out here because he's missing out on his child.

 

[nikky0907]

Moron...It's fascinating how the number one excuse is always 'Are you sure it's mine?'

He is an idiot,you don't need to revolve your life around him,flying to see him...he's the one missing out.You just focus on yourself and LO,it's the best you can do!

 

[Foxxy]

Thanks for ur words!
I know perfectly that i need to throw out him from my life: it's hard for me before (cause i still have hopes that we'll be toghether), but after all his words about me (and not only during the last talk), after all he has done and hasn't done although promised a lot of times it'll be easier for me to do this, but anyway it'll will not be easy at 100%. Plus i know that in 2 months time i'll be holding my precious baby in my hand and all other things will be so miserable in comparison with this beatiful feeling.

ps yeah, idea with DNA test's really great!!! He repeats thousand of times that if he'll be me he'll do it with pleasure and happiness, just to prove that he was wrong. But he just doesn't understand that if i don't want to be with him - there's no reason to prove something for the guy who means nothing for me... And what's the reason to prove if i know perfectly that he's the father, as i've not slept with someone else?!

pps will he miss our baby? probably not, as he has his own child which is growing in front of his eyes now... It's just the question of his conscience. But now i've doubts that he even has it!

 

[maybebaby]

What a jerk!!

 

[Foxxy]

Can u believe girls how some guys could be?!
My baby's dad gave me a txt how he enjoyed his holidays...that it's a pity that i couldn't be with him at that moment cause it's tooo hot for me...what an ass!!! Although i know that most probably he's not on holidays at all and just jeer at me i'm very-very ANGRY!!!
Plus i couldn't change my mobile number, as i had to inform too much people about it...terrible!!!!