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[2016]

So heres the conundrum...(and don't take this as me not quitting cos I am, I just want to understand something)

FF gives me a different ov date, for that evil cycle which shall not be named, depending on which analysis method I use. First one is advanced, then research, then FAM.

 

[Kelly9]

So sorry 2016 your chart was very mean to you this cycle! But please don't give up! It will happen, it happened once before even though it didn't end well, surely thats got to give you hope that it can happen? How long did it take you to conceive the first time?

 

[kstancook]

2016- I always default to FAM!!!! sorry honey!!!

 

[2016]

So sorry 2016 your chart was very mean to you this cycle! But please don't give up! It will happen, it happened once before even though it didn't end well, surely thats got to give you hope that it can happen? How long did it take you to conceive the first time?

We conceived first month off BCP. But the docs reckon that only stuck because it was ectopic so it didn't matter about the LP. I know this proves I ovulate and an egg can be fertilised - but nothing else. For all I know that tube could be blocked by scar tissue now.
All the ectopic has done is given doctors a reason to dismiss me even though I have ovary pains pretty much constantly and have geniune concerns.
The FS said I ovd day 14/15 (not looking at the charts because he says the scan is more accurate). That would give me a 16-17 day LP which is nonsense! He also said I would ov from my left and it was most definitely from my right. I thought I felt it on day 18 but I always know which one it was because just before af arrives that particular ovary throbs.

I still have my NHS appointment next Monday which I never cancelled. Going to go plead with him to have another look because I can't go on like this. If he won't then I will ask to be referred for a second opinion. It wouldn't be the first time I have had a doctor completely misunderstand my uniquely screwed up body

Am I wrong about the whole LP thing? Is 10 days enough? Was it 10 days this time? Which chart is right?

 

[Pretty Sakura]

2016- Based on the rules on charting, you ovulated on day 18. Those 3 temps going up confirmed that. That being said you had a 13 day LP which is wonderful. If you were manually keeping track of your charts all the books would tell you cd 18 was your day. I strongly believe that.

 

[Kelly9]

a 10 day lp should be fine I heard it was bad if you were lower than 10 and more so with 8 or less days. I would still go to apt maybe they will book you for HSG to see if your one tube is blocked from surgery, could you always pay for that procedure? It might give you piece of mind. I say hang in there, it might make it more difficult but DH and I had a more difficult situation to and it eventually happened. I know that doesn't help much but I have been through a situation with similar frustrations and people not getting that 16 cycles was just to long. Also as for FF I had no idea you could change the kind of cycle, is the FAM one the default?

 

[ablacketer]

nice little temp spike today, what do you think ladies?

 

[kstancook]

Angel- nice rise!! lets see what tomorrow brings

 

[ablacketer]

tomorrow brought my temp back down to normal. bleh.

 

[Titi]

12dpo, fmu with clearblue

 

[2016]

Awww Titi.. it's still early hun. Hope you get a line tomorrow

 

[kstancook]

ahh Titi give it two more days!!!

 

[ablacketer]

bah, stupid temp didnt go all the way back up. grr. bfn today too. 4 more days. Im not testing again till AF is late. *pout*

 

[Titi]

sorry Angel-maybe we'll get real lucky.

 

[ablacketer]

I hope so. I wont be able to get a good temp today I have overnight duty and we got a search and rescue case to launch at 130 this morning. which means I wont be going to bed tonight I wonder if I go home, sleep 5-6 hours and then temp if it would be a good temp?

 

[Titi]

Angel-Probably won't be a very good temp b/c the timing is so different. Sometimes the time I take my temp makes way more difference than solid sleep. If you see my chart it is crazy this month-I have barely gotten any sleep myself. I am due for AF tomorrow, and temp (although not that accurate) hasn't dropped just yet but all AF signs here. I don't think I'll test again unless I don't get af tomorrow. Your job sounds exciting.

 

[ablacketer]

oh it is! I get a call from district saying they need a helo to fly, I get up and pipe it over the intercom, call our operations officer, do a radio check with the helo and then sit here and wait for (in this instance) almost four hours and twiddle my thumbs lol. I dont get to do any of the fun stuff like saving lives. Im just a bean counter

this really sux, I was really looking forward to what my temp was gonna do....

 

[Titi]

It's frusterating-I know, my temps have been mixed up all month from stuff going on here out of my control. Thank God I'm finally really just familiar with my body. I'm on CD25 too-For some reason I was confused about my cycle yesterday and thought I was 12dpo when I am actually only 12dpo today........

 

[kstancook]

Tit and Angel- dropping by some for you!!! fingers crossed!

 

[Titi]

Thank you!!!! I sure NEED it!!!!! Wow what an awesome due date-Lucky!!!! : )