the asswipe

[AbbynChloe]

I hate the stupid SOB so much right now

I cannot believe i reproduced with such a waste of oxygen.

He's off skiing in a week - is it terribly awful to hope he doesnt make it back unharmed???

asswhipe!

 

[Sophie1205]

Haha, with regards to wishing him coming back harmed, I'm sure we all have thoughts like these
What has he done? Hope you're okay xx

 

[AbbynChloe]

Ahh I am fine, every so often I need to get it out of my system.

the good news is that he's gone for now. i feel sad for Chloe but there is not much I can do if he does not want to be in his daughters life.

This is the email he sent this morning

"Abby

Your health is very important and hope you get back to full strength as soon as possible. I want you and Chloe to be happy and have fun, i wish i didn't cause so much stress but I always do. Please don't blame yourself, this is my fault. You have done so much for me and i have given little in return.

This is asking alot but I always will always be there for Chloe. She is so smart and funny, but whatever reason I just can't commit to her at the moment. I will prove myself wrong. One day I hope to have more involvement with your blessing.

I will always love you both very much. Ed"

What do i do with that???

 

[Bumpi]

he cant commit but will one day ? omg i would tell him to take a flying jump .. by saying 'with your blessing' he is looking for validation that he is doing right and permission to do so .. and he isnt right .. does he not realise that coming and going from a childs life will cause them all manner of insecurities and upset ?

i cant really give you advice cos as you can see from above things like that piss me off and i would probably get slated for what i would say lol .. hope things turn out well for you and Chloe xxx

 

[AbbynChloe]

Oh Bumpi this is an argument that has stemmed from before Chloe's birth. I didn't even reply, no point!

i'm not worried about me, i'm sad for Chloe, but it is not the end of the world, he's hardly seen her these last 5 months and its his loss!

Anyways onwards and upwards!!!!

 

[Bumpi]

Oh Bumpi this is an argument that has stemmed from before Chloe's birth. I didn't even reply, no point!

i'm not worried about me, i'm sad for Chloe, but it is not the end of the world, he's hardly seen her these last 5 months and its his loss!

Anyways onwards and upwards!!!!

you are so right .. it is his loss .. all the best for you and Chloe xxxxxxxx

 

[teal]

Massive hugs

 

[Sophie1205]

Oh my god!! He can't commit to his daughter?! What an absolute f*cking tosser!! You two are so much better without him!!!! Jeez! xxxxxx

 

[AbbynChloe]

Oh my god!! He can't commit to his daughter?! What an absolute f*cking tosser!! You two are so much better without him!!!! Jeez! xxxxxx

Lol you are telling me!! ahh well, today i'm feeling ok about it - the minute i start to question it i'll come right back here and hope you all remind me what a twat he really is!!! xxxxxxxxx

 

[Laura2919]

What a twat... it's unreal sometimes what they think? I'm pretty sure it's only to piss you off

 

[AbbynChloe]

Well my god natured buzz is starting to flitter away.... I looked at his facebook page I have no idea why I do it to myself!!

 

[Laura2919]

I think we all do it at on time or another hun.