This is what everyone has been saying to me recently & I really hope its true!
After ttc for 1 year we made the appointment with the our doctor & the tests began, everything with my husband was fine. They discovered I wasn't ovulating every month & then said I had POS. After lots of appointments i soon learnt it would hard for us to conceive on our own & we needed to see a fertility specialist, felt okay about it all really as after having no luck after year it felt things were moving in the right direction. My cycles have always been all over the place so I regularly do pregnancy test if I go over CD50, So back in June this year it was no big deal, done the pregnancy test, left it on the bathroom shelve and went and done the housework! Well, I was speechless when I returned and it was positive! We were over the moon, went straight to the doctors and the guessed I was 5 weeks. We told our families & close friends as we were so excited and it was such a shock. 5 weeks later it ended. I started bleeding and doctors confirmed the worst at the hospital and we left feeling totally devastated, it really was awful. I was about 10 weeks. It took a while to get our heads sorted but as we did I had this feeling something wasn't quite right...............................
I had been doing pregnancy tests to get a negative one after miscarriage so we knew when we could start trying again but they would not go negative, Weeks passed and it was about 7 weeks after our loss i went to our surgery where they did my hcg and I got I gpt a phonecall the next day to say my levels were elevated and that I had to go to hospital to get it checked out as they thought it was a new pregnancy. Ultra sound showed nothing, so had to have an internal where it showed an ectopic pregnancy, I couldn't get my head around it as we actually hadn't had sex since the loss 8 weeks ago as I found it too hard. Then the doctors told us they had missed this and obviously because I had miscarried 8 weeks before it meant it was twins. Anger set in first as this was so dangerous and had went undiscovered but after a week in hospital I just feel so low. 18 months ttc to get to this.
I know there are ladies who probably don't consider me as long time trying to conceive as some people have been trying for years but I wanted to share my story. We are waiting for our first fertility appointment and I dont feel I fit in in the ttc forum.
Sorry for the long post I got kinda carried away there!
I just hope, The best things come to those who wait.
Lolly x
After ttc for 1 year we made the appointment with the our doctor & the tests began, everything with my husband was fine. They discovered I wasn't ovulating every month & then said I had POS. After lots of appointments i soon learnt it would hard for us to conceive on our own & we needed to see a fertility specialist, felt okay about it all really as after having no luck after year it felt things were moving in the right direction. My cycles have always been all over the place so I regularly do pregnancy test if I go over CD50, So back in June this year it was no big deal, done the pregnancy test, left it on the bathroom shelve and went and done the housework! Well, I was speechless when I returned and it was positive! We were over the moon, went straight to the doctors and the guessed I was 5 weeks. We told our families & close friends as we were so excited and it was such a shock. 5 weeks later it ended. I started bleeding and doctors confirmed the worst at the hospital and we left feeling totally devastated, it really was awful. I was about 10 weeks. It took a while to get our heads sorted but as we did I had this feeling something wasn't quite right...............................
I had been doing pregnancy tests to get a negative one after miscarriage so we knew when we could start trying again but they would not go negative, Weeks passed and it was about 7 weeks after our loss i went to our surgery where they did my hcg and I got I gpt a phonecall the next day to say my levels were elevated and that I had to go to hospital to get it checked out as they thought it was a new pregnancy. Ultra sound showed nothing, so had to have an internal where it showed an ectopic pregnancy, I couldn't get my head around it as we actually hadn't had sex since the loss 8 weeks ago as I found it too hard. Then the doctors told us they had missed this and obviously because I had miscarried 8 weeks before it meant it was twins. Anger set in first as this was so dangerous and had went undiscovered but after a week in hospital I just feel so low. 18 months ttc to get to this.
I know there are ladies who probably don't consider me as long time trying to conceive as some people have been trying for years but I wanted to share my story. We are waiting for our first fertility appointment and I dont feel I fit in in the ttc forum.
Sorry for the long post I got kinda carried away there!
I just hope, The best things come to those who wait.
Lolly x
