The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[3xBlessed]

Any news Kelly?

 

[Kelly9]

Should have had some but they lost the sample from my repeat draw and now won't redo it until Tuesday so there will be no news until middle to end of next week. This whole situation is just unacceptable and I am so incredibly pissed off. The last week has been unbearable and now I get to go through it again for another week.

 

[3xBlessed]

That is total BS!!! I'm sorry you have to keep waiting! Have you had any more bleeding? It's a good sign if it has stopped! I'll keep praying for you!

 

[Tella]

that is just horrible! ! if it was their mistake then they should make an effort to fit you in sooner and get your results to you urgently. but like blessed said as long as the bleeding has stopped its a good sign

 

[Kelly9]

My beta at 5+5 was 12935 and at 7+0 it was only 16008 so not looking good. I have to wait for a scan which won't be for a few weeks yet.

 

[girlinyork]

Oh Kelly really hoping for the best for you. I've everything crossed xx

 

[Tella]

im so sorry Kelly. hope it is just the hcg slowing down and that bean wil be ok

 

[girlinyork]

I know hcg plateaus after a certain point. Hopefully it is just that

 

[Kelly9]

It's possible I guess but very unlikely. I've accepted the pregnancy will likely end just for my own sanity. I'll try and Doppler for a HB at 8 weeks if no bleeding by then otherwise the scan will confirm what I've suspected all along. I just never really felt positive about this pregnancy I can't explain it but something didn't seem right.

 

[3xBlessed]

Sorry Kelly. I'm still praying it's just hcg plateauing!

 

[armymama2012]

I'm ready to be pregnant again. It took a while for me to be emotionally ready but unless something changes financially, we wont be able to afford another baby for at least 6-12 months. I've been applying to get a part-time job since DH's full-time job leaves us broke after paying all the bills. Plus we have his 19 year old sister living with us who wont be able to get a job until December due to still finishing high school. Sorry for the rant. Things have been stressful with stretching food to the max and having no clue when our state income taxes will come.

 

[girlinyork]

Kelly, how are things?

 

[Kelly9]

No change. Just had another scan today sac still empty measuring a week behind but slightly bigger then my last scan. Had hcg done waiting for results and going to see the doc about my options in an hour or so.

 

[girlinyork]

Just noticed your updated sig. So sorry

 

[3xBlessed]

So sorry Kelly!

 

[Kelly9]

Yeah it sucks. At this point I'm just waiting for the D&C so it can be over and so I have something to look forward to again. Life really is unfair.

 

[girlinyork]

It is very unfair A d&c isn't so bad. I was expecting far worse but I recovered very very quickly. It's the emotional recovery which is hardest

 

[Tella]

so sorry kelly

good luck with the d&c but like girlinyork says it wasnt as bad as I expected.

dont know why we have to go through this.

 

[Kelly9]

I'm a high risk for hemorrhaging so I'm terrified of it. And scared they won't get it all since they're going to be extra gentle when they do mine. I just want this over with so I can move on. Keeping everything crossed that it's easy and 100% successful the first time with no complications.

 

[girlinyork]

Oh bless you. I'm so sorry that this has happened. I wish women didn't have to deal with this