The Chatterboxes

[Beautywithin]

Yes what are the chances of it happening again... im glad they didnt keep you waiting in hos and your lil girlie is ok... make sure you take it easy..xxxxxx

 

[twiggy56]

yeah its almost spooky...its about the same amount of damage aswell. Same car model and even colour involved, in the exact same spot (and im not exaggerating, its smack-bam on the same part of the road) its just crazy...waaay beyond coincidence or 'bad luck'...

im meant to be resting now but just keep replaying it in my head! Just what we need a month before our baby is due, argh!!

however may be fault of the local council as the road is an A road, hadnt been gritted in quite a while (ice was about 2 inches thick) and also we wernt at fault as we had a huuge stopping distance. So we might actually have a claim against the local council...the police are foning us with an accident number so we can take it further.

As we were not at fault...there is no way we're claiming from our insurance. We would not have been in an accident if the car infront had not have collided with the car they went into the back of...

 

[3 girlies]

oh no twiggy thats awful. The shock of it all must be horrible too. Im glad you are all ok & not hurt. Thats so freaky that its happened again. Try not to let it play on your mind, i know its hard but just chill out as much as you can
I remember when i crashed into the back of someone when Reese was a baby i couldnt stop hearing the sound of the bang & i had flash backs, it was only a tiny bump but it really shocked me.

 

[twiggy56]

Thanks heidi...yeah the shock just took over my body, everybody thought i was shaking coz it was so cold (and snowing) but i had so much adrenaline pumping through me i was actually hot, and was shaking from the shock.

I do keep replaying it through my head now, thinking could i have stopped it but it was just like slow-motion...we literally glided into the car infront on a sheet of ice..took about 4 full seconds for us to reach the back of them and hit..so it was a slow impact and we are totally unharmed apart from a bit shaken.

Midwife monitored baby for about half an hour, had bp taken etc...then doc checked me and felt baby and was a little concerned i had some tightening in my bump but was happy enough to let me come home. Iv to go straight back in if i feel reduced movement or more tightenings though...

 

[3 girlies]

take it easy & keep an eye on your little girl, im sure you will both be fine though

 

[twiggy56]

Thanks luv...we are all ok, now im just stressing about insurance/financial implications..

happy new frickin year eh?

 

[pinkclaire]

Hey twigs glad your ok xx what a complete nightmare, don't worry about the money that will sort itself out xxx

 

[twiggy56]

thanks claire

its just so bloody inconvienient the month before baby is due...either way its a claim from the insurance which means premium goes up or its fork it out our pockets to protect our no claims...so its not good either way

but we're all safe, which is all that counts. I burst out in tears when the midwife put the monitor on and i heard her wee heartbeat...i hadnt felt her move since the accident and was so scared for her

 

[3 girlies]

hope you managed to get some sleep last night twiggy

 

[AimeeM]

Morning all. Hope everyone is feeling well today.

Aww twiggs, so glad you are both feeling OK. I can't believe it happened at the same spot twice with the same type of car how freaky is that. Is there another road you can go on to get to their house in future? Sounds like a bad road i would defo get in touch with the council as it is obviously dangerous and needs sorting out.
The main thing though is that you and baby are well. Is she still moving plenty today?

Callie sending love for your year xx It is a new one now so hopefully it will bring good things to us all xxx

Where is Random, is she all caught up in moving?

33 weeks today yey! Looking forward to some kind of normality on Tuesday when Kayden goes back to school still very snowy here though cos it has been snowing again so gotta be really careful. I love snow but i am tired of having to be so careful all the time now it has got boring...

 

[Beautywithin]

Morning, ah i have so much to do today, Paris is back to school tomoz, so back to getting up early!! and walking in that freezing cold weather..........

hope you are feeeling a bit better today twigster

 

[twiggy56]

Happy 33 weeks Aimee hun

Well i didnt get hardly any sleep last night, and when i did i got nightmares about hitting the other car, woke up in tears So im absolutely exhausted, shock took it out of me yesterday and really needed to rest but i just cant seem to shut my brain off and keep seeing it happen over and over...

 

[Beautywithin]

Have you tried listening to something that will relax your mind twigster... its worth a try.. when you just lay there trying to sleep, its easy to think the worst

x

 

[AimeeM]

Yeah or a nice warm bath with candles and some lovely bubbles. I find that is always great

 

[twiggy56]

thanks girls, im getting pretty weak now...i might try leave the telly on or something so im not alone with my thoughts! I jolt awake just as im drifting off coz i think of hitting the back of the car infront!!

Aimee, now u mention it i got some lovely 'mum-to-be' bath salts from my mum for xmas...think i might see if i can relax myself in a bath!!

How are u girls? BW u feeling the strain now hun?

 

[3 girlies]

im in pain!! its making me feel a bit woozy. Braxton hicks are horrible!!

 

[twiggy56]

Argh! 3g's i think i had my first BH in the ambulance yesterday, bump tightened right up! Was so uncomfortable! So i think i now know what you're on about!

poor you hun, i thought one was bad, u must be in crazy pain getting them all the time!!

 

[pinkclaire]

I've been getting BH all day as well, so uncomfortable!

Well hubby has gone rubbish! Goes so fast!!!

 

[Beautywithin]

I sure am twigster, i cry daily now, because im in a lot of pain... keep thinking this time next month he could be here, it gets me thru an hour, then i feel down again , doing simple things with Paris is getting hard aswell. she cant really understand why i cant play football or pick her up as much...

TMI- but anyone else getting an increase of discharge, its getting silly now, keep checking to make sure it isnt blood x

 

[twiggy56]

aww claire thats poop...bet its harder because you've had him for a good block of time too... Hard having to say bye, and just after your wedding...duno how you do it luv

BW im having quite a bit of discharge! Like, it sometimes (sorry if tmi!) feels damp down there!! I keep panicking thinking its slow water leak or blood but its just normal colour discharge...just lots of it?!!