The Chatterboxes

[AimeeM]

Make one asap i would say and really put thought into it and make sure the midwives are well aware of it or they will just ignore it.

 

[3 girlies]

my internet crashed just then & orange said they would sort it out & wiped all my details off the system, its taken half hour to put them back on over the phone its not a good day for me today!!!

paul just moaned at me to take it easy but hes at work & i need to bath the girls etc, they wrecked the house while i was on the phone so i need to tidy up aswell. I cant wait till bed time


The so called friend who mugged me off earlier had the cheek to text me a minute ago saying she hopes i can still make it to her birthday meal tomorrow, bloody cheek, as if!!!!!

Rant over

 

[pinkclaire]

Hello everyone!

So glad everything was ok 3girlies, I had to have an internal when I went in a few weeks back, OMG they told me a man was coming to do it! My heart was going 10 to the dozen, but in the end it was two ladies, although could of done a bit of gardening iynwim so I was very embarrassed! I felt the same after I went in as well hun, its amazing how alone stuff like that can suddenly make you feel. Like ive said before i wouldnt have any friends to talk to if I didnt come on here lol.

I havent posted my pictures anywhere but my journal, I will keep them in there but no actual baby photos will go anywhere else, I will put some on fb but Im going to delete some people first and make sure security settings are right.

OMG birth plans at 34 weeks! Thats my appointment next week! I cant do one until after my scan though really, although maybe I will do an emergency one and change it when I know? What do you guys think?

 

[AimeeM]

Was it your scan to see if your placenta has moved yet? Mine is on the 8th of Jan.

 

[nervouspains]

Thanks Aimee- I have quickly written one up, im going to stick it in my yellow book tonight! xx

 

[pinkclaire]

Yep, remember my hospital wont do it until 36 whereas yours said 34. Wow what a busy week for everyone!

 

[Beautywithin]

when do antenatel classes get offered? i dont want to go, but OH does, and think it would be nice for us to go together think he is a bit worried that he will be a spare part during my labour ( which of course he will be ) but he wants to get some tips, x

 

[randomxx]

im not sure when they start BW tho it should be soon i reckon i think itsa around the 34 mark

the hypnobirthing class the man has scripts to say to you ( to help you get more relaxed) when i get all my stuff like tht i will post it in a fb message to whoever wants it if you want tht is?

 

[Beautywithin]

Aimee did you listen to the CD? gunna let OH listen later it may help him fall asleep x

 

[AimeeM]

Bw bless him i think it is nice that he wants to go!

Claire i think if my placenta hasn't moved at 33+5 they will prob get me in at 36/7 to have another look before planning a section.

I was just reading my book that came with the CD it actually says to listen to it while you are at your most alert. I also found it funny that it says do not listen to the CD while operating machinery lol.

 

[AimeeM]

Aimee did you listen to the CD? gunna let OH listen later it may help him fall asleep x

I am just putting it on to my MP3 player now, i was going to listen to it on my PC today but it has really bad radio interference in the speakers and i wouldn't be able to concentrate on it as the interference bugs me like hell. I am going to listen to it on my headphones tonight.
I was just reading the little book that came with it it seems very interesting so far.

 

[pinkclaire]

Thats really sweet BW of your OH, mine isnt around to go so I have bought him a dads guide to labour for him to read for christmas lol. I keep telling him things he has to do but know he isnt listening! I think I will end up with my mum as my birthing partner with him as a spare part lol.

If I was having NHS classes they would have started 1st week of December.

I know NCT do a top up session for second time mums, might be good to go to that?

Fingers crossed for the 6th and 8th then Aimee! I really want a natural birth!

 

[pinkclaire]

Haha Aimee, I just read your last post as PC as in me, took me a while to work out thats not what you meant! Baby brain!

Oh all that talk of pictures made me remember I havent put a bump piccy on for a while so I just did one at my mums and if your lucky you'll spot my little sisters bum in it lol. Its on my journal xx

 

[AimeeM]

I know, time will tell but i am pretty sure they will have moved!

Wayne is so calm about the birth, i keep going on about how he needs to read more etc but he thinks he will do very well. I think once we are going through it he might loose his cool and start to worry but he may surprise me.

We were watching that amanda holden thing and i said OMG did you see the cut whan she was giving birth etc he said no i don't see all that crap i just concentrate on the baby it is all i see aww bless him! I said he wouldn't though cos he doesn't have to go through it!

 

[AimeeM]

Haha Aimee, I just read your last post as PC as in me, took me a while to work out thats not what you meant! Baby brain!

i actually thought that when i wrote it!

 

[pinkclaire]

thats good as long as Im not the only one! I keep thinking about that programme last night, I was crying for about 3 hours after I watched it lol

 

[Beautywithin]

i just watched that, and it has scared me, is hard noing what to expect, least if its your first, you can only "imagine" what the pain is like, but on the other hand, i guess i can prepare myself more

im not a fan of amanda, she comes across as a lil dippy to me, but for only a months training she did really well x

 

[AimeeM]

I'm not a fan of her at all, i used to not be able to stand her but after how well she handled it when the baby wasn't breathing and how supportive she was my opinion of her totally changed. That was horrific to watch and made me feel very sad and nervous, i was shaking after watching it and it is why i could never be a midwife

 

[pinkclaire]

She did do really well at the end, she was an idiot to start with but it calmed her down didnt it.

I have never seen a baby born like that before, the colour and how floppy it was really scared me, I was in floods of tears, although I was amazed how quickly the baby turned pink. The parents seemed quite calm,I would have been hysterical!

That first birth scene was horrific as well, but the lady having the water birth seemed pretty calm, I think I am going for that option lol

 

[AimeeM]

I am starting to get a bit fed up with B&B now. I love our thread but there are so many nasty bullying people on here who then jump to defend themselves when people mention that what they are saying is a bit harsh, it just really pisses me off. And when you get pissed off with people you don't know who have no direct contact in your life it is a bit much if you get me.

Sorry had to have a mini rant. It seems like stresses have been running high on here a lot lately.