The day is finally here and I'm so scare

[faith_may]

Today I start to ovulate and I'm so scare, for the first time on my life I hope something so much, I want to have a baby, with my husband we want a baby, and now I'm so scare, because I don't know how I would react if after ovulation, the time to test come and I see a negative. I know it mind sound stupid cry, but that's how I feel, is the first time in my life that I'm TTC, and I don't want this stress that I have because I'm scare actually affect me conceive my first baby

 

[FJL]

Oh hun!

This is a very special time for you and your husband, don't be scared be happy!

Unfortunatley not many people conceive straight way - some do though! On average it does take a good 6-12 months.

If you time ovulation with sex and you and DH take care of yourselves, i'm sure you'll get your BFP

*If* it doesn't happen right away, try and concentrate on next month. I know it is hard because TTC is very stressful, I won't pretend otherwise, but just keep in mind that it might take a little time.

I wish you all the luck in the world for your first month

 

[avistar]

agreed. Don't be scared. But I can understand why you are. TTC is a live changing commitment for both involved. Getting a BFN/neg test is disappointing but all a part of ttc. A lot of women get BFN's because just just tested too early, and tested again to find that they are in fact preg. Try not to worry and be excited!!! Stressing can cause your cycles to be weird, so just enjoy bding!!! Best of luck to you!!!

 

[Suz]

Awwwwww....Hunny dont be scared....Enjoy TTC and try to just go with the flow.... ( Easier said than done) Wishing you a Speedy BFP, we are all here for you and for eachother......

 

[dakini]

I'm with the pps...it may take some time, but it will happen. It can be disappointing to see a BFN or AF again, but it will happen. There's nothing to be scared about.

I hope you get a speedy BFP!

 

[HAYS]

ditto its a happy time ttc altho stressful at times lol but thats why we are all here
x

 

[Arcanegirl]

TTC is a scary business, try not to think about it too much (hard i know)
Go with the flow and enjoy.

Good luck!

 

[faith_may]

Thank you all so much, you were all right the best thing that I can do right now is TTC and don't worry about nothing but that, if I don't conceive this month it doesn't matter, we will just keep trying.

 

[FJL]

You sound a little better hun which is great

Just have lots of fun and we will all be here sending you for a

And if it doesn't happen right away, we will all be here to support you and wish you well on your TTC journey which will hopefully be a very short journey!

 

[Snowball]

Good luck for this cycle hun

 

[poppy]

Good luck hun, I really hope you get your BFP!

 

[faith_may]

Thank you all for the support