The dr thinks i'm miscarying!

[DaisyDuke]

So i had a little more pink cm last night, so i went to bed praying, woke up covered in sweat, and there was a little more blood, so i took a test the line is so so faint now and it was the first proper fmu i have had, cos i didn't need to get up every 3 hours to go, which is a worry in its self. My cervix is also low and open. So i spoke to nhs direct and got put straight thro to the nurse, then the dr called me within 30 mins, she said it looks like i am miscarying, i'm truely heart broken. I love my bean so much and cant bear the thought of not being pregnant, i have never felt so special. I am so sorry u have all had to go thro this, it is truely awful.

 

[honey08]

ive just posted to ur other thread hun, and u look at old post p;enty av ad bleeding n been fine...im thinkin of u hun and keeping everything X,
if u do mc hun then im truley sry, i went thro one with first bfp in march this yr, and its so devastasting hun it really is this will be my first baby if everything goes ok, im keeping up hope for u hun xx

 

[Smiler]

unfortunately if you are miscarrying, there is very little, if anything, that can be done to stop it. Get some rest and look after yourself.

 

[DaisyDuke]

Thanks yeah i saw ur other post

 

[morayo]

oh dear, im so sorry about ur pain, but its not all spotting or bleeding that leads to miscarriage,so dnt give up hope until u have at least confirmed, are u still feeling pregnant? like are all ur symtoms still there as storng as ever, if yes try to draw some comfort from that, i m/c in oct too at 6weeks and its not an experience i wld wish on anyone cos even at that stage i had already bonded with the LO.hun try to get some rest, keep ur feet up, and keep praying, God can still work miracles!if u do miscarry then just beleive that there was something wrong with the bean and ur body had to expel it. im so sorry if that sounds crude! hugs. fx its just some spotting and babay is fine!

 

[DaisyDuke]

Thanks, i'm so sorry for ur loose it's truely heart breaking.

She did say tho there is no other explanation for my pregnancy test getting lighter and for my cervix being low and open

 

[Barneyboo]

Daisy....

I hope and pray this is not over for you, please try and keep feet up all day and just to let you know I'm thinking of you x x x x x

 

[becky77]

oh hun i am so sorry if this is the start of a miscarriage ,my heart really goes out to you i had a M/C in oct and it is terrible . please put your feet up and try and rest, there is little else you can do except pray.

you never know dr have been known to get it wrong and i pray this is the case.

 

[shmoo75]

Daisy hun I am so sorry if you are having a m/c. I had one at the end of May and it is one of the worst things that a women will experiance in her life. To lose a child regardless weather this child has been born or not or, what stage of your pregnancy you m/c as, to you that is your baby. Are you going to A&E today or tomorrow morning? You need to have blood test and scans for them to confirm you are having a m/c or, if everything is still ok.

 

[DaisyDuke]

The dr didn't say anything about A&E but as luck would have it i have an appointment tomorrow at 3 something, i have decided i'm gonna prove that dr wrong, and my bean is gonna stick, the dr told me on friday to stop testing and the spotting i had already had is nothing to worry about. So my thinking is the spotting is the same as he said 'nothing to worry about' and if i had done as he said and stopped testing then how would i know i had miscarried?

 

[shmoo75]

You need to keep thinking that you are pregnant. You do need to get confirmation one way or the other it is hard I know as I have been there earlier this yr. Keep strong hun

 

[mrsholmes]

try not to give up hope yet

 

[Rumpskin]

Thinking of you my darling. I so hope the doctors are wrong and everything will work out alright for you.

Fingers and toes crossed xxx

 

[tillymum]

Really hoping it's a false alarm and that you will prove the doctors wrong.
I'm crossing everything for you xx

 

[krockwell]

So sorry for your loss darling.

 

[hopedance]

oh love, there are lots of reasons a pregnancy test might get lighter - you may have had more fluids than usual, or that test might have had less reactant on it, so came up with a paler line, less hormone may have gone into your urine that before for some reason.

i'm not sure about the cervix signs though. i really hope that you aren't mcing. i'm sending sticky vibes your way!

 

[cleckner04]

I know I've read your other thread but I just now saw this one. I'm so sorry that your going through all this. I pray that it is all just a horrible misdiagnosis though. Good luck hun.

 

[Farie]

 

[sam76]

thinking of u xxxxx

 

[Alexas Mommy]

I hope evrything is okay. You are in my thoughts.