The losers club

[Eve]

Glad you had a good dinner blondey!

Lettuce, sounds like a pretty cool job to me!

Good luck tomorrow Nats and hope you get the rest of your stuff soon!

 

[Emmy1987]

Good luck with the viewing today Nats.

I'm having a rough day thought I was coping after self weaning off my pills, but I just can't stop crying and I just cba with Daisy today, she just won't stop crying for no reason, won't sleep cause next door are doing building work.

I wanna get out but can't even afford the bloody fuel and I have nobody here I'm doing all this so OH can work his 'dream job' that he comes home and moans about. I'm fed up.

 

[Lettuce]

Oh Emmy I think you need to sort this out with your oh. His dream job should not come at the expense of your mental health! Is prob go back on the pills too. I know they're not fun, but they did help. I hate when they have a whiny day. Can you just sling her in the pram and walk? Even just round the block a few times? She'll prob sleep and you will feel better for the fresh air. I know its hard to even get out sometimes tho. Xx
I'm just staring at the mess my house is in. I had it tidy on Friday now its a tip looks like ill be spending my last day cleaning...

 

[Eve]

Super big hugs hun Big big big

 

[Emmy1987]

Im going wild and driving to the next town to see a friend. Bored of hearing building noises coming form next door

Have fun cleaning Lettuce :/ x

 

[Eve]

Enjoy yourself hun, you need to get out and do that once in a while!

 

[Natsku]

Emmy, I agree with Lettuce, your OH's dream job shouldn't come at the expense of your mental health.

The viewing went ok, its a nice enough flat. Bedroom is a bit small, but seeing as I don't have a bed that doesn't matter . Loads of cupboard space which is good, like to have everything stored away in cupboards so it is tidy. Nice little sauna. Big glassed over balcony and one end is tinted glass where the door from the shower room is so I can chill out on my balcony nekkid after sauna

Now I just have to wait to see if the landlord agrees with me renting it (and if, hopefully, he'll lower the rent a bit). Argh hate waiting!

 

[Eve]

^^ Sounds nice Nats!

 

[Eve]

Fingers crossed!!

I agree with Nats and Lettuce, Emmy. Your mental health is very important and his dream job* shouldn't come before it!

 

[Lettuce]

Ooooohhh sounds good nats, fingers crossed for you.
Have fun Emmy!
Think I need to phone my DH back... I hung up on him cos he phoned and I thought, that's nice, phoning to see how I was on my last day. Then I asked him to help tonight with watching Jen while I get ready for tomorrow and e said no, he had uni work to do and could I nt get ready now. I said what the hell do you THINK I'm doing!!??! But there will be stuff I need to do tonight! Raging. I just said, have a nice day and hng up.

 

[Natsku]

Ah let him suffer for a bit before you call him back

 

[Eve]

I agree, make him sweat a little first lol

 

[Emmy1987]

Definitely let him suffer!

Uh the builders next door have dumped a bath outside so I had to walk in the road. Grumble.

Hope you can get the flat Nats

 

[Fabby]

Hope Dh is not shitty with you still when he comes home lettuce.

I'm going gladiator training tonight! I've lost 17lbs now altogether, lots more to lose yet though.
Oh and rory no longer likes a sandwich, it as to be toasted!!! He's walking everywhere too. He's now officially a toddler!

 

[blondey]

hi losers, back from my assessment day. Had a stonking headache on the way home. In the room we were in it had ceiling to floor windows and I think sitting facing them all day set it off. A couple of paracetamol has taken the edge off.

Emmy. I agree, your OH needs to think about his family a bit more. Why is he so intent on doing this job at the expense of his family? Is there potential there? Either way I think you need to have a chat about it

Stooooopid OH Lettuce! You should just leave Jen with him and bugger off upstairs and do what you need to do. Then he hasn't got a choice!

Good luck with the flat Nats! Fingers crossed for you!!

I'll be looking out for the updates on the scrapes and black eyes Rory gets now Fabby, it gets clumsy before it gets better with toddlers lol! Although AM is pretty good now. Sometimes she'll go flying across the floor(and usually rolls, even though I can't see how she ends up rolling!) and we all hold our breath for tears and she just gets up and races off again!!

That's good going with the weight loss Fabby!! How much do you want to lose? Have you lost any dress sizes, I would imagine you have with all that weight! I've lost about 5/6lbs with this ongoing sickness thing. My primarni trousers I bought for work are a 12 and getting a bit lose, but think a 10 would give me a muffin top! Think I'm an 11 at the mo lol!!

Anything nice for din dins people?

 

[Lettuce]

He better not be or he gets no dinner! I'm making a recipe my brother brought back from Italy when he lived there! It's garlic, chilli wee bit of onion and grated courgette, with pasta, it's delicious. Plus it's healthy
Oh your poor head blondey! Hope it gets better soon.
Awww how cute fabby, hope Rory doesn't get too many bumps. That's a brilliant weight loss! I'm so impressed. I need to get my ass in gear. want to take up running again, I used to run in the mornings before work, 5k 3xa week and another 10k on the weekend. I felt great! Just didn't have the time anymore. But maybe now Jen is sleeping better!

 

[Emmy1987]

Well done Fabby! And Rory!

OH is eligible for promotions if they come up but they rarely do. I think he needs a reality check. We'd be better off on benefits tbh, how screwed up is that?!

Found a shared ownership new house in lincoln for....... £33,000....

 

[Fabby]

Very comfortable 12 now. Want loose another 22lbs ish but will be happy at another 19lbs. I really haven't stuck to dieting at weekends so yeah I think it is pretty good to still of lost that.
We've already got a bruised head with rory!

 

[blondey]

Goodness if you're a 12 and you still want to lose another 1.5st at least, you'll be a bean pole. Plus you'll make me think that I should really lose more weight, so cut it out

About 15 minutes after I wrote the above post about falling over, guess who fell over, hit the side of their head on the door frame and screamed...yes OH, joking AM!

 

[Emmy1987]

Aww silly falling babies!


Uuuugh OH is home and is being NO support, basically called me a bad mum for letting Doo trap her fingers in the stair gate (by accident) and just generally being a knob.