The losers club

[x Michelle x]

Opposite here, was shit yesterday but better (as in not raining but overcast) today.
What time is your ex coming over? Do you think he'll agree with your times for him to have Maria or is it going to drag on?

 

[Natsku]

About twoish. I really don't think he'll agree with me and this will drag on unless we take it to mediators or the courts

 

[Fabby]

No still shitting. Done 3 up to yet. He's just very agrevated today. Everythings getting on his nerves. The sun umbrella was pissing him off just. He's asleep now though.

Lovely pudding baby h is!

Hope it doesn't drag out. For marias sake!

 

[sapphire1]

Hope today goes ok Nats

Aww cutie Rory

I can't believe how big Hayden is, compared to when he was born! What size clothes is he wearing now?

Love the pics of Jen's birthday Lettuce, she's soo cute!

I'm going to Kimmy's later for a play date, haven't been for aages. Holly is a right grumpo, she seems to have all her fangs coming through at once She had 3 accidents yesterday - she flung herself backwards on my bed and hit her head on the headboard. She flung herself backwards off the footstool when I was eating my dinner, and smacked her head - I threw my spaghetti all over the floor while trying to catch her Her finale was getting her leg well and truly wedged between her cot bars, I thought I was going to have to cut the bars off. I hope she's not so clumsy today, she's daft in the head as it is

 

[Natsku]

Hahaha bless her! Hope the playdate is nice.

Maria is squeezing her lunch to death right now instead of eating it...I'm gonna miss her this week

Getting worried about my money situation, I sent in the bill for my washing machine last week but they still haven't given me the money yet and I'm pretty much skint now, dunno how I'll afford the buses to the hospital tomorrow.

 

[x Michelle x]

Can you phone and chase up getting money to cover the bill? Maybe explain that you really need it for a hospital trip?
H is in 6-9 for vests and sleep suits as they were all stretched down his chest! I thin he has a long torso as his 3-6 trousers and tops are fine! Jackets are a tight fit tho so they are 6-9 too! I'm gonna start ebaying all their old clothes I think.. Luckily I got loads of little boy stuff from my friend so I've not really had to buy proper clothes, just vests etc...
That's everyone asleep, hopefully Hayden's jabs have knocked him out and I'll get a few hours of peace and quiet

 

[x Michelle x]

Lol at Holly, they have no fear!
Tabitha has taking to walking everything around except her walker!
The dining room chairs, her activity table, Hayden's rocker seat.... the rocker still sets flung upside down and sat in tho!

 

[Fabby]

Peace and quiet is bliss isn't it Michelle. I ended up doing an extra mile cus rory was still sleeping, he's had a 2 hr sleep and I've done a 5.5 mile walk. Happy days

 

[Emmy1987]

Nice one Fabby!

Nats I hope you get things sorted

Been outside playing with Doo, she's gone for a nap so I'm sat sunning myself

 

[Natsku]

I phoned but cos its summer they have hardly anyone working so I couldn't get through to anyone. I left a message though.

Aww thats cute of T!

 

[Lettuce]

Arch, stupid thing deleted my reply. I can't remember it all now!
I hope you get money and visits sorted nats, this is not fair on you at all.
Tabitha is so sweet and h is a lovely wee pudding!
I've ordered the thank you cards, only 55 to write this time...
Um, forgot other stuff... Sorry!

Oh yeah, hope Rory is better soon.

 

[blondey]

Hope Rory is better soon. If it's a bug, which it sounds like, it's probably working it's way out by now and I reckon he'll be on the mend soon!

Silly Holly, hehe! AM has fake tantrums and she whinges and throws herself back really carefully!

Hope your meeting with the ex goes as well as can be. What arrangement do you want Nats?

Anything else planned for Jen's birthday week Lettuce?

Anyone seen my FB? Am I being over dramatic? I'm not tempted to take her out or anything, but I just want to let the nursery know I'm peeved. She's only just got used to the new girl and now they're swapping her out! She loves nursery and is doing really well and my mum doesn't have any issues (she does all the pick ups and all but one of the drop offs) But when they change the staff in the room it really throws madam off and she gets upset at drop off. She's fine within 5 minutes apparently, but I don't think that's the point. Grrr, all these mummy decisions/worries/responsibilities!!

 

[Natsku]

That is annoying of the nursery, its not good to have such a high turnover.

I was happy with our current arrangement of joint custody but its not good enough for him apparently. It went badly and I'm so fed up with all this shit now.

 

[blondey]

How often does he have her, is it 3 nights a week?

 

[Natsku]

Yeah thursday til sunday

 

[x Michelle x]

He surely can't have more than that! Correct me if I'm wrong and I'm sorry for bringing it up but hasn't he had anger issues in the past? Surely no mediation or court would see that it would benefit Maria for him to have her more than you? You're her mum after all!
I'm not surprised you're fed up

Blondey I think you're right to say something, surely continuity at that age is important and she can't keep getting to know all these new people?

How are your legs Fabby, sore after your walk? Sometimes if both mine are sound o i take the really long way home.... I just pop my headphones in and sing along (it's quiet where I live) and anyone driving will think I'm singing to the kids
Lasagne for tea tonight, yummy! Except I don't like mince so I make mine with baked beans instead!

 

[Natsku]

He wants sole custody and for me to see her only every few weeks or so. Fucking idiot

Beans lasagne...I am not sure what to think of that...

 

[x Michelle x]

Really?! Sounds like he is doing it to get to you

Trust me, just like normal lasagne but with beans instead of mince

 

[Natsku]

Yeah he's just trying to hurt me I guess.

I don't like normal lasagne, not sure it would be much better with beans.

 

[Fabby]

Oh my god Michelle........ Beans instead of mince!!!!????? That's not a lasagne lol!!

And oh my god nats....... Is he for real!!!!???? On what basis does he think that if it went to court that is what would be granted!!! More like the other way around!!

Blondey, no I don't think your over reacting whatsoever. I would actually give ofsted a call and speak to them. I'm sure they wouldn't like the continuity of it all!!!! They are all for continuity of care!!

Rory's not had a poo since about 10am this morning so think he's got over it now. Even though I'm still not convinced he had a bug you know even though the dr said he did. I think it's all teething related. I'm not joking you, he is slobbering like a tap!! Thick slobber too.

Legs are fine michelle, used to it! It actually felt a lot easier today only pushing a single instead of a double with a nearly 3 year old in their too!! It was quite enjoyable and didn't even need a drink of water like I normally do when I'm pushing the double

I've got the rest of the week to myself and Rory now.