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[Ley]

totally! I'm wishing I had saved up more and bought from somewhere reputable instead of over bloody facebook.
More stress than it's worth.

 

[Ley]

oh it just gets better!. Bob managed to get hold of her other half who knew absolutely nothing about any sale of any sofas and said the woman had gone out with her friend for the day.
Bob told him to get her to contact us asap or and either give us the goods or the money back or we will be contacting the police.
We don't have her address but I'm sure it wouldn't take much for the police to get one.

 

[Ley]

and after that she sent me a message saying it was obvious that I DIDN'T want the sofas.

so I replied with this...

No of course I don't want them, thats why I've been trying to sort something out for this whole weekend. I'm just sick of you messing me about! First you pissed about saying the money didn't go into your bank when I know full well it did and as soon as I confirmed this with my bank you said it miraculously appeared in yours. Then you told me about the cock up with the delivery and told me I would have to wait an extra week. When I tried to arrange my own collection you got funny about that.
My husband tried calling you and instead of getting someone else to talk for you if you really didn't want to talk, you just either left the phone on the side or hung up on him. Then made up some excuse about losing your voice.
You told me your friend would be delivering the sofas late afternoon today, which then became evening. I tried contacting you earlier for a rough time as I had to ask a friend to come and help my husband move them as I am pregnant and couldn't help him. I got no reply.
At 8pm we managed to get hold of you other half who told us he had no idea about any sofa sale or anything and that you had been out with your friend all day.
It's now 9pm and instead of delivering the sofa's to me, you have just contacted me on the internet with no explanation as to why the sofas and bunk beds aren't here either.


What am I supposed to think? because to me it smells an awful lot like you are trying to scam me out of my money.
I cannot afford to lose £240 of my money.......

I still want the sofa's and the bunks but I want you to be honest with me and tell me the truth instead of pissing about and making excuses all the time!




I'm glad I'm not further along in my pregnancy as I would imagine my blood pressure is through the roof right now!

 

[lovehearts]

Omg she is taking the piss!!! What a bitch!!!! I really really hope it doesn't come to contacting the police!! I hope you either get the sofas or your money back asap! x

 

[Smile181c]

Omg Ley she's awful!

You're message was good though! Has she replied? x

 

[Ley]

she replied with yet another excuse. All it said was that she wasn't at home and didn't have any battery on her mobile so wouldn't be able to reply......go figure!
Today I am going to tell her I want her address by the end of today and I will be there on tuesday with a van to collect the stuff and a delivery refund. If she obstructs or causes any problems at all then she can expect a visit from the police.

 

[mushmouth]

Flipping hell, what an absolute nightmare! I hope you get it sorted today!

 

[Ley]

so do I coz I don't think I can take much more of this


it's coooold today

 

[fuffyburra]

Woooooooooow Ley that sounds a frickin' NIGHTMARE. What a cheeky biatch she is!! I REALLY hope you can get it sorted by Tuesday.

Leah I'd go see a doctor about it too, maybe there's something they can do to stop it going any further, then hopefully your boss will start listening to you, and they'll be able to prevent the need for a c-section. It can't hurt m'dears

Viewed a flat yesterday with Neill, which he fell in love with and is going to take lol. So that was easy! We've talked about moving in and I think I'm gonna go for it whooooooooooooop!! ^_^ Moving day is in 2 weeks, so it's all stress! But I think we have enough stuff to get us going ^_^

That's all the exciting news I have! Anyone else got anything good? xx

 

[lovehearts]

What!!!!! U r moving in with him????? OMG how exciting!!!!! U will be preggers in no time mrs!!! I'm really happy for u hun xxxx

 

[pink23]

ley-i hope you get the sofa's soon. she is really taking the mickey now.
Fuff- happy for you. hope the moving goes well.
How is everyone. i have just finished a chinese and no more work till next weekend.
It was quite fun today we had a drill so that kept us busy lol xx

 

[Ley]

not getting them now hun. She admitted there aren't any sofas and said she would send money back tomorrow. Whether it gets here or not is another story.

 

[pink23]

sorry about the sofa's ley. have you give her a deadline to give you the money back i would xx

 

[Smile181c]

I can't believe she tried to con you out of all that money!! You should send the police round there anyway so they can warn her! That would scare the crap out of her lol

FX'd you get your money back!

And congrats fuffy on moving in with OH! exciting times xx

 

[mushmouth]

omg I totally missed fluffymuffs post! you're moving in? argh!!! you go girlfriend!!!

 

[fuffyburra]

Not moving in anymore Well, we are, but not in two weeks and not in to the flat we fell in love with :'( Neill's had trouble changing the mortgage on his old house (which he has to pay as his son still lives there) so it's looking more like September. Doesn't seem like long, but I'm still really upset about it, mainly because we lost the flat we really loved.

Also a looooooooong story with the soon to be ex wife. She's kicked up a real fuss because she wants him to give her another chance (he's spent the last 23 years giving her chances) but she's shown him literally no love or affection or anything, and they've both admitted to each other that they have no idea why they got married. For him it was a sense of duty because she had a 6 year old daughter with no father (whom she had to pin down the last bloke), and for her it was because she wanted a father for him. She even admitted that she had their son to pin Neill down! He could NOT have made it any clearer that it's over, I've seen every text and he tells me about every conversation, they've seperated their assets and have spoken about filing for divorce. They've even been to a counsellor together, who agreed with Neill that divorce was the best thing and that she hasn't dealt with her underlying, deep seated emotional issues that she's had since childhood, which is the reason she is so un-affectionate, and that their marriage hasn't worked, etc. So she's done nothing but treat him like shite for 23 years, and has been throwing herself a little pity party ever since.

It makes me angry, she only wants to keep him because she's afraid of being alone and because he pays the bills. She's so scared of being by herself that she's clinging to someone who doesn't make her happy, and who she doesn't make happy either. Last night she text him and said that she had taken some pills to block it all out for a while, and she's threatened to kill herself in the past. It pees me off, she doesn't love him, and he doesn't love her. Neill and I actually DO love each other, more than anything. Why can't she just cooperate? Obviously I know why, but it's for purely selfish reasons that she's doing it. Half the time I'm angry at her, and half the time I feel sorry for her because she's texting him and saying "you're forgiven, I'll forgive you anything please don't shut me out" and stuff like that, because she's SO scared of being alone, and for her own good he's having to text back and say "I'm sorry but no" so he feels like a number 1 arsehole for doing it, but if he gives her even a little false hope then she'll think he's coming back, even though he's been gone for months and they're half way through a divorce. So everyone's confused today!

I completely understand why she's doing everything, and I don't want to hurt her in any way. If we can possibly get away without hurting her, then that's the main aim. But I don't agree with her motives. She wants him because she's scared, and I want him because I love him and he loves me. So I can't help being a little bit angry at her sometimes I guess. She's saying to him that she doesn't want their son staying with us when we move out because it's an adulterous relationship, therefore a bad influence. So he said to her "well divorce me then, and I can marry Ellie", though not in so many words lol. So she knows it's serious between us, she's just doing everything she can to keep us apart in any way she possibly can. Urrrggghhhhhh my head hurts!! lol

Sorry, AGAIN I'm ranting. It's turned in to a bit of an essay, I just felt like I needed to write (or type) my feelings down so I could get them in to some sort of order!

Sorry everyone

 

[fuffyburra]

OH MY GOD Ley, I just read about the sofas!! What the hell?!!!! I agree you should send the police round even if she does give back the money, because that's AWFUL. I literally can't believe that anyone would try and do that to someone!! GRRRRRRRRRRR.

 

[4magpies]

Oooh fuffy I am really sorry to hear about the flat.

I cant imagine what your going through with your other half and his soon to be ex wife. I really feel for you.

Phillip and his ex werent married and had no children but she was/is a psycho and still cant grasp the fact that she has lost him and still hasnt moved on. I do feel sorry for her because in a way she is so delusional but I also hate her at the same time because of what she has tried to do to me and phillip with spreading rumours and being generally malicious!

xxx

 

[lovehearts]

ahhh fuffy - im sorry you didnt get the flat but im sure a much better one will turn up for september and it gives you a little more time to get some money together and have a few more ikea trips to pick everything

Im sorry to hear his ex-wife is such a b*tch!! why cant she just make it simple - it sounds pretty obvious that the will never get back together and she knows about you 2 so why is she trying to get him to go back! Im sure tht when you and neill move in together she will have a new man in no time!! someone who she doesnt really like. I really dont like women like that.
Ahhhhh neill wants to marry you..ahhhhh how sweet i would never have thought 6 months ago that you would have split from samuel and be with an older man and in a TWW!! LOL. its madness but i am so so pleased that your happy hun

xxxxxxxxx

 

[Smile181c]

for you fuffy!

I'm not gonna pretend to know how you feel but I can only imagine! At least be safe in the knowledge that Neil loves YOU and he wants to live with you and *marry* you! (Queue squeals )

His ex wife will eventually realise that she doesn't want/need a man to complete her life...hopefully therapy will help her with this and she'll leave you two alone. As for her not letting their son come and stay with you - I would see where Neil stands lawfully on this one because surely if they are separated it can't be classed as adultery?

Sorry you're having such a crap time of it but hey, like lh said - it means more trips to IKEA to pick out bits for your new place. A trip to IKEA is never a bad thing

xxx