The Lovely Looney Great Pretenders

[lovehearts]

When I take pics on my phone I have to zoom in so it focus's on the test ifkwim?!

I would just got and get a frer hun xxx

 

[fuffyburra]

Yeah I think I will. I gotta go get ready for work anywho, so I'll let you guys know later on Thanks for your help this morning xx

 

[DJ987]

Morning ladies worst nights sleep ever!! Will explain in my journal in a bit.

Fuffy you so need to get a Frer! At only 12dpo you could so have a bfp on a frer so defo go get one! Ooh I'm too excited now!!! xxx

 

[pink23]

got my fx'd for yo fuff.
Your night doesnt sound to good danielle x

 

[Princess_LV]

Oooooh mebbe the Fuff is up le Duff! Ha! Love it xx

 

[4magpies]

Morning girls... hope all of you are well..

Fuffy get a FRER!!! Hope its not an evap honey. Mwah. Was gutted when LH told me you got a BFN.

xxx

 

[mushmouth]

FRER Fluffymuff!!! come on damnit, all this suspense isnt good for my blood pressure! FX hun x

 

[lovehearts]

yes fuffy - where the hell did you go?? we needed results woman!!

 

[Smile181c]

I have my fx'd for you fuffy! AF is due tomorrow for me as well! But no testy until AF doesn't show lol which she probably will!

 

[lovehearts]

i keep meaning to ask you this chloe - does matt pull out?

 

[4magpies]

FX for you Chloe!!

I'm not gonna get myself worked up this month. Got my "o" on my persona this morning so gonna try and avoid DTD for a few days even tho we did it last night but he pulled out so we should be fine.

xxx

 

[Smile181c]

Lol yeah he does...we had a bit of an "accident" this cycle though so fx'd something happened lol

I meant to put this in my journal but I'll just do it here instead cause I'm already here!

I went out on Saturday night with Matt and some friends and one of my friend brought their older brother as he was visiting...we got onto baby talk in the pub and he went on a massive rant to me when I said that if I got pregnant I could never have an 'a'...I got really upset because he was telling me how selfish I was because if I got pg and then me and matt split up I'd never be able to give my child everything it wanted/needed and wouldn't I rather wait until I earnt more money so I could give it a good life?

I tried to argue my side and say well I earn enough to be able to support myself and a child if it came along, but none of that mattered because me and matt weren't gonna split up because we're solid. I also said that I wasn't against 'a' per say as I don't know certain peoples situations but for myself I am very much pro choice and could never forgive myself...Matt also kind of jumped in and ended the conversation just by saying "If Chloe got pregnant now we'd definately have it" and I was grateful for that, but my God the other guy made me so angry!!

Got me thinking though...Is it selfish for me to want a baby so badly when there's a possibility that I could be on more money in a few years so I could provide a better lifestyle? Me and Matt are by no means struggling and we could definately afford a baby but still...advice? xx sorry about the rant!

 

[4magpies]

OMG how rude was this guy to say all this to you.... I probably would of kicked him in the balls!!

Thats well out of order...

And no if you can afford it and its what you want... you go for it!!

I think my mum knows we are thinking about starting a family... she didnt say anything though... I left my "planning a healthy pregnancy" book on the bed side cabinet in my room and she dried my hair for me yesterday whilst sat on the bed next to it so she would of well seen it. I didnt realise it was there till I got in bed!! Lol.

xxx

 

[Smile181c]

I wanted to lol I kind of excused myself from the table straight after and went to the bathroom to calm down. When I came back Matt was stood outside and he gave me a big hug and asked if I was alright. He knows how upset it made me cause he knows how much I want a baby...bless him lol

Oops on the book! Lol my mum would have definately said something to me if I had done that!

 

[lovehearts]

that would have made me angry too.

I am like you - i would never have an 'a' but i have stood by a few friends who have had them as their situation was less than ideal but for myself i would never do it.

as for the other stuff he said, i think it depends on the people! Sometimes people have unplanned babies in situations where they may not be able to afford everything but they get by and they still love each other just as much. Just because you dont have as much money doesnt mean you will split up when you have a baby. He doesnt know you 2 or your situation so how the hell can he give such an opinion. I would have told him to eff off. He was obv pissed about soemthing!!!!

 

[Smile181c]

He's just one of those people that thinks he knows everything about everything and that his opinion is always right. He said his wife would love me cause her view is exactly the same as mine lol

Did get me quite upset though! Silly man! He kept saying if you found out you were 3 weeks pg today you could not sit there and tell me that that is a baby. Its a ball of cells. You think nothing of it when you two have sex and all the sperm die or when you have a period and you lose and egg. Whats the difference? And I just blew up and said it's completely different! When sperm are on their own and an egg is on it's own it's nothing really. But when they've fertilised they're growing something and you can't even put the two things in the same category!! lol

Bah!

 

[4magpies]

Sounds like a properrrrr bellend!

x

 

[Smile181c]

Definately! lol

 

[lovehearts]

lol i agree with mags - bellend!

 

[4magpies]

Think we will be going greece chloe.... about £500 for the 2 of us for a week in Oct. Not bad! Need to get passports sorted first though... argh!!!

xxx