I didn't tell OH for same reason - was too worried it would scare the bollox off him. I'd been poorly so was worried that pill had failed, we didn't do no rudies in the 2nd half of cycle, but was worried some spermies had been hanging around. AF was utterly pathetic that month too! But, it was a bfn... glad I didn't have to tell OH, I think he would have passed out! x x