The official cerazette missing period support thread!! *NAME CHANGE*

[hay246]

hope caleb is ok!

hi to every one else
def due some bfps
allister samie has been a nightmare with his mouth now too! literally cries until i hold him or put him in/on our bed then he laughs and is happy!! cheeky bugger!
he likes to chew a flannel now!

x

 

[annanouska]

hope caleb is ok pink-hes normally so smiley in all the pics.

hay made me laugh i think thats boys for you...Marcus makes weird noises in the night until you go check he isnt choking nad he stops and looks at you!

hope everyone is ok-nexis how are you doing on the met now? i started back on mine but keep forgetting it!

sorry for tmi but did any of you suffer with piles i was fine all pregnancy but ive given myself one during labour form pushing so hard- i will never forget that as long as i live!!! i think its external so now im freaking out il need surgery! im going to hold off the drs until 6 week check to give it time to see if it goes on its own its weird ifeel more embarassed and freaked out by my post baby body witgh its stitches and piles than i ever did having sweeps, birth internal scans etc!!

xxx

 

[Samie18]

Hope he gets better soon pink!

feel for ya hay! Sophia is ok again now the top 2 have broke the gum... she was a nightmare for days nothing soothed her!!

Very normal for the piles just make sure you mention them, you don't wanna suffer x

Hope everyone else is good x

 

[betty14]

Hay my friend used to freeze a flannel for her little boy, just let it thaw slightly before you give it to them and bobs your uncle!

Anna I got piles at 39 wks I used germaloids its fab as it has local in it so stops them hurting! But I do agree with Samie tell the doc at your 6 wk check!

Samie glad Sofia is feeling better, I'm not looking forward to the crying because of pain bits

Hope everyone is well!

X x x

 

[annanouska]

so tired!!! fed marcus at 2.30 it alwyas takes 45 mins so by itme i got him settled had some water myself etc was 3.30 and for some odd reason he wanted to wake up at 4.30! i made him wait until 5.30 for another feed, got him sorted and put back in crib thinking il have a few minutes extra sleep as hubby gone to work already, just drifted up and got woken by an almighty sound of a newborn projectile vomiting milk

Not to panic- scoop him up put himon change table strip him off and qipe down then new sleepsuit, strip the crib put it in to soak, wi[e all the crib and everything down with anti bac wipes.... went ot put a new sheet on and realised somehow it got under the matress!! think that was me as i was cleaning as i lifted the matress up so cleaned that but have got to leave matress off to let it dry so no hope of staying in bed!!!!!!!

how life has changed when the highlight of my day is baby sick

how is everyone? hope all the TTC people are ok cant believe Ollie is nearly a year old

Betty-can i ask what you will be doing for contraception? i ask as of allthe time you waited for daisy i wondered if you were just going to let nature take its course and see what happened or if you will use precautions? Samie are you still on the OPK method?

I really dont know what i want to do!!! i never minded cerazette at all until i came off it and i realised how long it takes to reset. i dont fancy coils or anything too long term right now and Im not a condom fan, doesnt leave much does it

I dont want to rule out ever ttc again but not right away-its hard as andrew is 39 this september and has this real issue that he is too old so id hate to hold off too long and then him not want anymore also the thought of going through that stress for another 9 months is too scary!!!!

im really enjoying Marcus, looking forward to him doing things tho like smiling and giggling etc. will be nice when im not fightinghim to support his head all the time too-you rest it on your arm and he wriggles off or thrashes about-teach as right for naming him after the god of war with a middle name meaning little battler- cant blame the boy!!!!!!!!! xxxx

 

[Samie18]

I came off the pill coz of all the weight gain. I now use ovulation test to avoid the dreaded days and we use condoms, not my fave but another baby is not on the agenda and neither is getting fatter lol.

Mad day here at work I'm just eating my sandwich.

Xxx

 

[annanouska]

i have nothing to say really i just wanted to say hi think ive lost the plot a bit xxx

 

[Honeybear1976]

Hey everyone!
Anna my hubby is 51 and not at all old
There is a 2 year gap between my two oldest and they are very close.
Hope everyone is well x x

 

[betty14]

Anna we are just going to use condoms, I don't want to go back on any form of hormonal contraception untill we are sure our family is complete, i think that the injection contributed to my problems in the first place so def glad I'm not on anything!!

Samie hope work is ok ATM for ya!

Honey hope all is well with you

We are getting so many smiles now! My favourites are just after I've fed her

X x x

 

[Samie18]

Was gonna post coz it's super quiet again!

Hope everyone is ok!
Sophia is into everything!!! The past week she learnt to sit herself up from laying down so my tv stand and sky box radio etc are terrorised daily lol. The finger prints show in the dust badly too haha she's super funny too because she's learnt to copy you so I tought her to cough if I did it's so cute!
I've got a bloody cold which doesn't help with the coughing because she thinks I'm playing with her hehe trying super hard not to share it, my hand gel is my best friend at the min =o)
Work has been hectic but it has been a full moon so hoping it eases a bit soon.

Xxx

 

[annanouska]

I feel the same Betty about the whole hormones confusing the body situation! i generally feel very muddled right now anyway so I dont think any hormones would help!

I think I have some sort of delayed baby blues or a muddled body right now I do ok typing on here and can remain ok most of the time when with people but i just put on a brave face i havent even told andrew how I feel as he never really understands these things! I just get quite upset and things for no real reason. I worry im not good enough for Marcus or i cant do things right etc. I get really frustrated if for example i cant make him burp or i dont pu the nappy on right and it leaks a bit. I find it so hard picking him up and moving him about as im terrafied im hurting his neck or soft spots

I am still doing things and do take good care of him, we go out for walks or out to lunch or for a trip somewhere but I always feel useless. I even had a stress yday as i found it hard trying to wheel into the ladies to change him as there are 3 doors to get through close together and no seperate baby change room. I know it sounds weird but I always feel left out like its andrew and marcus I was jsut the delivery driver I think thats because everyone keeps saying how much he looks like him and how good he is with him and take little pictures of the two of them (prob as he is a giant and Marcus is tiny-ish) yet nobody says anything about me and nobody has every taken a pic of mum and baby or even all three of us.

Ive tried to get over it but seem to be struggling. i even took him to the in laws all by myself as i did feel a bit bad they hadnt seen him in ten days (which she did inform me of!) it wasnt actually that bad I took him out the seat and gave him a hug and fuss before i handed him to her (for 4 hours!!!!) but then she just annoyed me again as i was telling her of the photo shoot and she just said oh they sound nice shame he couldnt have any pics with his dad!!!

Sorry ive just ranted here a bit- i feel really bad now for moaning to you all

Hope everyone is ok-samie its still hot here my grow egg says 23 still in the sitting room and 24 by angelcare in our room. Poor Marcus gets so hot when i pick him up to feed him. I need to try and take a pic he has alittle white t shirt on today and cotton dungerees. Andrew is working away fri-tomorrow so i get to dress him in the outfits he doesnt like!! xxx

 

[nexis]

Hi all, FF reckons I O'd on 30th July so waiting to see if AF arrives around the 14th now. Hope it does as I'm cd 93 today. Just relaxing today as its our 1st wedding anniversary and DH has the week off from today hope everyone is doing ok.

 

[Honeybear1976]

Anna when you go for your 6wk check speak to your gp about how you are feeling coz I was feeling the exact same things after my first and I just smiled and got on with it and noone would guessed but inside I was falling apart. Eventually had medication and was diagnosed with pnd. Dont suffer its nothing to do with you its a chemical inbalance in your brain. You are doing a great job with Marcus. You will see 99% of our photos are of kids with their dad and they are the image of him too

 

[Samie18]

It's a hard one to call. I felt just like you for a good while and even now sometimes on bad days i wonder if i'm cut out for all this motherhood stuff but only you know how your feeling to how you normally are and all i'll say is don't suffer in silence! You are a fab mum and no-one will think worse of you for asking for help.
I wouldn't even wait until your 6 week check, speak to the Health Visitor....if they are any good that is, and if not go see your G.P. the sooner you get help the easier it is to treat.

Were always here to offload and i hope you know that
xxxx

 

[pink23]

I love having this group. Xx

 

[Samie18]

Fingers crossed nexis we need some new bfps to keep things going as its very quiet!

 

[annanouska]

thanks ladies

i think my hormones are just on smack or something! I stopped BF 3 weeks ago-boobs went soft 2 days after i stopped and leakage stopped after 3 days...today my left one has started leaking a bit! Also my PP bleed stopped at just over 2 weeks, yesterday i started bleeding again-its very light only needs a pant liner but is bright red and feels more like a period in terms of cramp, backache and tummy tenderness as i had none of them with the PP bleed so figure that all out if its giving me all these weird physical oddities then it probably is making me a nut case too!

ive felt a bit better this evening, gave marcus his bath and a bottle and ordered chinese- think ive gone off that. Your meant to have a weird sense of taste during pregnancy but ive developed it after everything tastes weird if its sweet its too sweet if its savoury its salty, told you im ready for the scrap heap!!

 

[Samie18]

Could be a period your nearly 4 weeks down the line and with the PCOS your cycles will prob be everywhere so hopefully its just that.
Since i had her a week before i had my peiod i totally lost it and cried over everything and if Sophia screamed i said i hated her and why did i have her, i was a total horrible bitch!! I obviously didn't mean it but i felt so down then my period came and i was fine again! Never suffered before her like that but now i know when my blood is boiling the period usually follows =o(

 

[betty14]

Nexis that's fab I'll keep everything crossed for you

Anna I know exactly how your feeling, I still cry sometimes especially when I'm very very tired everything seems harder and I have said the exact words about not coping or nit being enough for her.... I have sat in bed in the middle of the night all alone crying because I don't think I'm doin it right!

Please please speak to your gp they will help you and if it it pnd then you can get in medication, my sister had it with both hers like honey said it's a chemical imbalance and not a reflection on your ability to cope at all so don't beat yourself up! Marcus is a lucky little boy to have you as his mummy! And he couldn't care less if your a snotty heap in the corner as long as you love him!

I havent stopped bleeding yet.... Is that ok?

Also what happens at the 6 wk app? got it on tues

X x x

 

[Samie18]

Bleeding still at 6 weeks is fine. With bf it can take a bit longer to stop coz of the hormones.

They will just check your getting on ok and stitches have healed and they will check baby over again like the InItIal baby check like her heart and femoral pulses etc

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