The official cerazette missing period support thread!! *NAME CHANGE*

[sara15h1986]

Hi everyone. Just checking in. AF due this week an hoping she comes this time as I have V festival in 2 weeks which includes sleeping on the floor in a tent for a weekend and lots of drinking and if I got a BFP it would be a little weird. Selfish I know. Plus also my most fertility time if not pregnant will be that weekend so I can count the next month out too. My fella got a new job so is handing his notice in tomorrow. All very exciting

 

[betty14]

Thanks Samie, good to know I'm normal haha! How long might it go on for?

I didn't have any stitches so will be an easy appointment for my gp eh

Pink I love this group too have made some fab friends how are you? Have you seen the doctor yet?

Sara sound hectic for you at the mo! Enjoy v and good luck to your hubby with his new job!!

X x x

 

[pink23]

Ive got drs wednesday at 5. Anxious to know why appointment was made. Hopefully something simple and might just ask about kidneys and maybe another scan on them. Xx
Well my weight loss was going well but im hungry all the time in pressuming its because im expressing. Need to change crappy snacks for fruit and veg lol.
We are all well first lot of jabs wednesday to. Oh is taking her in.
Oh has applied for a iob at work which could lead to more money. Which would mean we will help us to get a house. I am desperate for one so we can have a garden and i can have s proper place for my sewing machine.
Hope everyone is ok xx

 

[annanouska]

enjoy v sara,party for us all!

Pink-GL to him for the interview and to you for the drs i hope its nothing major with the kidney thing. hope the jabs go ok too- got a while to go for ours yet!

Betty some people bleed for 8-12 weeks i think but i think it should be a little lighter now but im not sure? ask the gp when you go.

This weird bleeding i have has slowed right down again to pinky d/c-i think my body is just confused its not bothering me so i will keep an eye on it and mention at check as well as everything else depending how im doing.

ive been feeling a bit better until hubby came home this morning and Marcus' little eyes lit up and he was following him all round the room. it was really lovely but he never seems to react that way with me. i dont know why i have it in my head he doesnt like me-stupid hormones!!

xxx

 

[betty14]

Pink I'll keep all crossed all is ok, I'm sure if it was serious they would have hauled you in ASAP! Gl to your oh that's exciting hope it goes well and your on your way to a house

Anna it is like watery spotting so has slowed significantly im not worried but will mention it tomorrow Daisy has her jabs on the 22nd

I'm sure Marcus loves you just as much as his daddy, babies dont have object permanence at his age so whoever is in eye line is amazing, when he can't see him he doesn't even know he is missing and you are his everything! I definitely think you should see your gp and discuss how your feeling Hun

X x x

 

[MrsHopeful]

Hi....sorry I absent been on in a while.
Betty-How do I hide people on Facebook?
Pink23-hope everything's ok tomorrow at your appointment.
Annaouska-I am sure Marcus loves you just as much as his daddy
Samie.....when it comes to my due date I will be looking out for full moons hehe. Hope Sophie's teeth aren't hurting her now.
Sara, Nexis sinn-good luck.
Hi everyone......

 

[betty14]

Mrs h, when the person posts you can just hover the mouse over the top right of their post and a list of options will appear and it will have the option to hide their posts

Lemme know If it works ok for ya

X x x

 

[annanouska]

betty ive been ignoring everyone on fb its fab since i learnt it from u and samie

just a really quick post-got marcus weighed 10 lb 2 now. hes so thin but so long he was on a mat next to 6 month old boy and was same length! had a bit of a wobble at baby clinic my HV (who is a bit odd shes like barbie but nice enough) was there and was really kind, she is coming to see me next week to have a chat and see how we can go forwards. also spoke to andrew about it who sort of understands but sort of doesnt. got 6 week check booked too now even tho im not meant ot book it until hes 6 weeks the hv did it for me!

 

[annanouska]

ooops- posted too early-also MIL is really getting to me and andrew too now its ridiculous and i think it is fuelling how i feel as it jsut adds to my weird fear of somebody taking him away form me as when she sits down she snatches him. we are trying to find a good way of addressing it as i fear i will snap soon and i dont want to as they are nice (enough) and ahve helped us out a lot over the years.

hope everyone is ok thanks for putting up with a (very) neurotic and generally bizarre person all the time xxxxx

 

[Samie18]

If it's watery Betty it sounds fine, if it was fresh red then i'd worry =o)

Thanks MrsH Sophias teeth are much better....until the next lot come in it's just the cold were contending with now!

I'm superrrrr happy you have spoken to people Beth. Things will only get better =o)))

My cold is finally giving in so i'm hoping Sophia gets better tomorrow because last night was really bad the poor little thing.
Having a mini breakdown here........my af is 4 days late i've had a neg test and i'm praying more than anything for it to arrive!!! Sounds really selfish i know when it's all others would want but it's not in my plans =o( Keep everything crossed for it to come!

xx

 

[pink23]

fx'd samie . how our bodies love to play games xx
wednesday is nearly here and I'm dreading my appointment its probably because my average sugar is high well thats what im hoping.
esmae is being weighed to so hoping for a good weight gain. xx she was 10lb 5 3 weeks ago xx

 

[betty14]

Gl today pink will be thinking of you!

Anna I'm so glad the ball is rolling for you to speak to someone
Also for sorting your mil out too!! Glad you spoke to Andrew as well, it's important he knows how you are feeling as he needs to help you

Samie I had 6 wk check yesterday and my gp said exactly the same! Incidentally it seems to have stopped

As for af being Mia..... Hmmmm...... Hope for you she arrives soon, could be any number of things delaying her .... Is this the first since you went back to work? Could be stress related?

Hope everyone else is well, it's too quiet these days! Where are all our TTC ladies hiding!!!

X x x

 

[Samie18]

Yeah first month back so I think it's stress related too!

Hope your appt Is good pink.

I know it's super quiet where is everyone lol

 

[hay246]

Like betty said it could be stress related Samie?

Anna I'm glad you are going to have a chat with someone. And maybe it's worth just saying I know you want to hold him etc but when he's settled and we have left him then please could you leave him rather than picking him up all the time.

Allister now has his 2nd one coming through. Until last night we had 2 nights of hard to settle him but then he slept all night no disturbances which has been fab! But short lived!

Pink hope appointment goes ok!

Hope all the ttc'ers, bumps and babies are well and mums of course!
Has gone really quiet !

X

 

[Sinn]

Hi all,
I'm feeling really sad at the moment, had an appointment yesterday at the docs and was told it was unlikely I would get pregnant without intervention devastated doesn't cover it xxx

 

[betty14]

I think that's prob it then Samie, being back at work has put your body all outta sync!

Hay hope his tooth comes through quickly and doesn't cause too many problems!

Sinn have they said why? Have you got an appointment for the fs now? I really feel for you and I know it doesn't help me saying this but the help that is out there is amazi g and you WILL have your baby, I won't say it will be an easy road but the results will be so very worth it! If you wanna chat you know where I am

X x x

 

[Samie18]

Aww sinn did they give you reasons? You will have a baby it will just be the longer way round.

xx

 

[Sinn]

Thanks so much Betty. I just feel like I've failed and let DH down. He's been so nice about it but can't see why I feel like this. She wasnt sure what the issues were yesterday so I have to go for tests (have to make another appointment to discuss things as I was upset and just wanted to leave. I managed not to cry!) I drove 50 miles to my best friends house and spent the day with her and her LO. She is such a good friend and let me get it all out and then put me in charge of the baby. Sounds cruel but it helped, she knew what she was doing! It helped to refocus me and stop feeling like there is nothing I can do. 12 hours later (!) I drove home to DH and we've decided to let ourselves feel sad but try to be positive. My sis is moving house this week so I have that as a distraction and then we are on holiday next week so that will help.

I was prepared for bad news but I didn't think this would happen to me...I've only told DH and my friend and you ladies here. My mum knew I had the appointment but didn't ask about it. She can't believe I'm not like her and am not super fertile (her words!) apparently she thought a baby would be nice and as if by magic the next month she fell pregnant with me. I'm from a big extended family and noone has had this problem before.

Rant over... I should really get out of bed and stop moping about!

 

[Samie18]

Thats a bit pant's to tell you you will need assistance without knowing what the issue is =o(
There is soooooooo much out there to help with fertility so once you know the issue you will have a solution and a baby =o)

It's fab your friend is so good it always helps to chat and have the support and hopefully when your mum understands the issue she will be more supportive.

Big hugs and you know were always here
xxx

 

[annanouska]

sinn-they said the same to me It wasnt just my pcos it was a couple of other little things but we got there.

I would do your best to enjoy yourselves-im sure other mums will back me up that we do love our LOs and would never change them but it does change your life a lot so enoy things whilst you can go out to the theatre, cinema, theme park. book a last minute weekend away and eat dippy eggs and soldiers witha glass of wine I think until you know what the problem is its hard to get really focussed. it could be such a 'simple' problem to fix and like betty said there is a lot of help out there.

Hay- thanks for the tip, think thats hwat we will ahve to do as we had got him settled in his rocker and she picked him up, woke him up and unsettled him so he got confused thinking it was feeding time so had to give him another bottle which he didnt want!

Samie- sure it is just stress related but you will have to wait and see i guess will cross my fingers for you! would it be worth considering something like the coil if you dont want hormones but really dont fancy another LO just yet? Im still undecided ont he contracepton front-will get aroudn tot hinking about long term solutions soon xxx