The Truth Thread

[Jadelm]

i want to do a birth story, but i dont know how it would affect tthe rest of the ladies since Kevan didnt make it :/

I would feel really honoured to read your birth story hun I know it's a completely and utterly different kind of lost but when my Dad died writing about it was the only thing that truly made me feel better so it might help you loads to get it out

also... and this is a big one... when FOB told me he didnt want the baby, a little part of me was relieved i loved him... but i couldn't see us raising a family together...
i haven't told anyone either of these things
xx

I can totally relate.. as heartbroken as I was to finally draw a line under mine and FOBs relationship with it came this HUGE sense of relief that this wasn't going to be my life forever, that I could actually be in a relationship AND be happy somewhere down the line you know?

I have NO friends, sometimes I wish I did, but other times I'm glad I don't.
I've been let down so many times in my life that I just can't be bothered to make an effort speaking to people who don't care.

Sometimes it pisses me off that my friends don't keep in touch or ask about the baby, make plans etc etc but then other times I'm glad because I have my little bubble: me, mum, evie, the nicer people in my family and my bnb girls and I don't want other people to come in a spoil it, cos they always seem to at some point :/

i remember feeling intimidated by quite a few folk in here when i came on at first, only til a few weeks ago. i kinda felt like i was back at school, like there were kinda groups. there were the popular girls. but i don't feel like that anymore, and all of you are lovely, and i dont feel scared to post anything at all. im totally myself on bnb now

i wish i had more close friendships in here. like proper talking to each other everyday like i have with amy and shona.

xx

Heehee I felt like this about you and Kayleigh for a while

I wish that too. Talk to me more Sam!!
And for anyone else who wants to add me my fb is in my sig and I'm ALWAYS on there chatting away to anyone who will listen lmao

I have no friends either literally

Haha lets change the stigma around teen mums.
We are loners that have nothing better to do than sit indoors with our OH's having sex.
I'm sorry I'm tired and my sense of humour goes shit when I need sleep.

Or NOT having sex as the general consensus seems to be

 

[Eabha'sMum]

jade... how do you quote multiple people xx

 

[Jadelm]

Next to the "Quote" thing there's a little + sign, just click that on each post you wanna quote and then on the last one click "Quote" properly

Can you tell I only recently found that out? It's like my favourite new toy!! x

 

[Eabha'sMum]

oh now the fun starts!!!

Thank you chick-a-dee
xx

 

[supriseBump_x]

What about us single 1s? we cant stay in & have sex xxx

use should think ure selfs lucky, i aint had sex since b4 xmas!!!!

 

[Eabha'sMum]

anybody want aaron for the night? he is out at a party, and will come back blocked... and will do the whole 'are you awake' - 'no' - 'haha... yes you are! your so pretty' - 'piss off' - 'now don't be like that' - 'its 4.30am!'
lol... and on and on... until one of us gets bored and gives into the other... and if he is on vodka and red bull its usually me who gives up first
xx

 

[samface182]

jade - really?! i feel bad that i made you feel intimidated! im not an intimidating person though.. i hope you know this now

we shall start talking more!
xx

 

[rubixcyoob.]

I literally have no friends in real life and want to punch most the people who have tried speaking to me recently. I talk to OH, my best friend and a couple of others regularly and recently everyone has tried to find out about the baby and if he has been born so they can visit. I'm too nice to tell them to their face "you aren't seeing him, you never gave a damn before, he isn't a toy" so I just tell them politely he isn't here, but on the inside I'm raging.

My ex abused me and I am 1000% glad me and him finished. I would have cried and cried if he had gotten me pregnant and I would have finished with him and taken him to court not to see his baby. No one needs a drug addicted, girl beating, home wrecking, car stealing, compulsive lying little prick of a father

I cannot get enough of my OH I seem to go against the majoirty on here lol.

 

[Jadelm]

anybody want aaron for the night? he is out at a party, and will come back blocked... and will do the whole 'are you awake' - 'no' - 'haha... yes you are! your so pretty' - 'piss off' - 'now don't be like that' - 'its 4.30am!'
lol... and on and on... until one of us gets bored and gives into the other... and if he is on vodka and red bull its usually me who gives up first
xx

I haven't had good sex in a loooooooooooooong time. Obvs it wasn't a regular occurance while my poor pops was ill as it kinda kills the labido (f*** knows how I got pregnant!) and then once I was preggers I went off it the whole first tri and then only did it out a guilt for being so frigid a couple of times after and then we split up.. so now I'm like.. what is sex? I can't even remember x

 

[Jadelm]

jade - really?! i feel bad that i made you feel intimidated! im not an intimidating person though.. i hope you know this now

we shall start talking more!
xx

Not like as in your an intimidating person I think it's more like cos you seemed really nice and stuff I really wanted to be your friend so I was scared of saying anything that would piss you off or make you not like me x

 

[Eabha'sMum]

it is like such a chore... and i did get like a wave of feeling real sexual and be like, when he gets home I am gona 'blah... blah...blah' and maj of time by the time he comes back i am like bleh xx

 

[samface182]

I literally have no friends in real life and want to punch most the people who have tried speaking to me recently. I talk to OH, my best friend and a couple of others regularly and recently everyone has tried to find out about the baby and if he has been born so they can visit. I'm too nice to tell them to their face "you aren't seeing him, you never gave a damn before, he isn't a toy" so I just tell them politely he isn't here, but on the inside I'm raging.

My ex abused me and I am 1000% glad me and him finished. I would have cried and cried if he had gotten me pregnant and I would have finished with him and taken him to court not to see his baby. No one needs a drug addicted, girl beating, home wrecking, car stealing, compulsive lying little prick of a father

I cannot get enough of my OH I seem to go against the majoirty on here lol.

xx

 

[rubixcyoob.]

Thanks Sam I'm over it now and pity him for being such a waste of space doing who will never amount to anything x

 

[Green373]

i posted kevans story i feel great now, like im not keeping her a secret anymore.

 

[LoveAlways,]

I lost all my old friends with this pregnancy.
The only ones I can securely trust and call my friends is my FOB, his best friend Drew, and you girls on here.

I also feel like people don't reply to my posts (outside of the teen pregnancy section) because I'm only 14 and I'm having a baby. I feel judged. :\

 

[divershona]

I lost all my old friends with this pregnancy.
The only ones I can securely trust and call my friends is my FOB, his best friend Drew, and you girls on here.

I also feel like people don't reply to my posts (outside of the teen pregnancy section) because I'm only 14 and I'm having a baby. I feel judged. :\

you're 14 :O you seem so much older to me :O

sorry little bit of shock here that your as young as you are, from the way u speak in posts i kinda figured you to be 17 or 18, and mature 17/18 at that!

 

[LoveAlways,]

I lost all my old friends with this pregnancy.
The only ones I can securely trust and call my friends is my FOB, his best friend Drew, and you girls on here.

I also feel like people don't reply to my posts (outside of the teen pregnancy section) because I'm only 14 and I'm having a baby. I feel judged. :\

you're 14 :O you seem so much older to me :O

sorry little bit of shock here that your as young as you are, from the way u speak in posts i kinda figured you to be 17 or 18, and mature 17/18 at that!

haha that's okay, I get that a lot
I guess it's better than people thinking I'm younger, right? haha.

 

[youngmum2b]

My truth: i felt kinda gutted when we found out bump was a boy cos i really really wanted a girl, but now i wouldn't have it any other way.

You lot talkimg about DTD is making me want it again OH is guna think his b-days come early, i usually can stand doing it atm so oh's new nick name for me is C**k tease hehe gota love his sense of humor lool

 

[Jadelm]

My truth: i felt kinda gutted when we found out bump was a boy cos i really really wanted a girl, but now i wouldn't have it any other way.

You lot talkimg about DTD is making me want it again OH is guna think his b-days come early, i usually can stand doing it atm so oh's new nick name for me is C**k tease hehe gota love his sense of humor lool

lucky him! x

 

[youngmum2b]

My truth: i felt kinda gutted when we found out bump was a boy cos i really really wanted a girl, but now i wouldn't have it any other way.

You lot talkimg about DTD is making me want it again OH is guna think his b-days come early, i usually can stand doing it atm so oh's new nick name for me is C**k tease hehe gota love his sense of humor lool

lucky him! x

Yea lool, i think i'll make him work for it though hehe get what i ant before he gets his