The Truth Thread

[Tanara]

When i first joined i was very scared of how people would treat me since i already have a child and am going to have 2 by 19.

 

[AyaChan]

when I was pregnant and still with FOB at one point I couldn't stop thinking about his friend, I kept thinking what it would be like to is him etc etc, even dreamt about it lol

 

[MommyGrim]

I feel extremely pathetic because I don't have any close friends..and the friends I do have only honeslty talk to me because I'm pregnant and they want to see the baby...

I feel like I'm not important enough to have friends....

 

[stephx]

I totally get what you mean about feeling intimidated! When I first joined I hardly ever posted coz i didnt wanna annoy the 'popular' girls Still feel abit like that coz I dont really talk to anyone alot

xx

 

[MissMamma]

^Me too! Scary girlies!
I smoked weed for the first few weeks of my pregnancy even when i knew. I don't know why i did it. I was kinda in denial about the pregnancy and was kinda addicted plus i was in Amsterdam. Please don't judge me i feel horrible enough now! and so worried i've done something to my baby!
Only my OH knows this it really is a biiiig secret!

 

[amandad192]

^Me too! Scary girlies!
I smoked weed for the first few weeks of my pregnancy even when i knew. I don't know why i did it. I was kinda in denial about the pregnancy and was kinda addicted plus i was in Amsterdam. Please don't judge me i feel horrible enough now! and so worried i've done something to my baby!
Only my OH knows this it really is a biiiig secret!

Just imagine what some poeple do and don't feel guilty for. You stopped which is the most important thing.
I think if there was a problem they would pick it up and your scans.
My neighbour done all sorts of drugs through her pregnancy and didn't care...Her baby was born with a hole in her lungs and was in hospital for AGES having ops and recorvering before she was allowed home.
Even when she had her LO home, this girl was still going out a lot, I rarely saw her with her baby

I WANT ANOTHER BABY...(now) ahh I just can't help it. I love Liam, but my family isn't yet complete. He's not enough, he needs a little sister. I really want a little girl now that I have my little boy. One of each. It would complete me. I don't think I will stop until I have a little girl as long as I can afford to keep going and cope emotianally etc.
I feel kinda guilty, but when I found out I was having a boy I was a little dissapointed. I wouldn't change him for teh world though.
He can look after his lil sis and beat up any boys who don't treather right

 

[Jadelm]

I WANT ANOTHER BABY...(now) ahh I just can't help it. I love Liam, but my family isn't yet complete. He's not enough, he needs a little sister. I really want a little girl now that I have my little boy. One of each. It would complete me. I don't think I will stop until I have a little girl as long as I can afford to keep going and cope emotianally etc.
I feel kinda guilty, but when I found out I was having a boy I was a little dissapointed. I wouldn't change him for teh world though.
He can look after his lil sis and beat up any boys who don't treather right

Haha this reminds me of my auntie, she has been pregnant 5 times (only got 3 kids though ) because they're all girls and they want a boy! Now she's like.. hmmm that's enough... oh but one more... no it's enough... hmmm one more though? It's my uncle I feel sorry for he so desperately wants a little boy to share the household with xxx

 

[newmommy23]

my truths:

1. sometimes I feel like odd man out in convos, and worry no one will like me like in real life. I don't have any friends except for my roller derby family.
2. I was so scared to post on here because I thought everyone would think I was an idiot for not knowing I was pregnant sooner.
3. The fact that I played roller derby my entire first trimester makes me feel so guilty. it must have been really scary for her and I fell and got hit a lot. I worry that the doctors are missing something and that she won't be ok. and it would be my fault, and she would blame me and hate me my entire life.
4. Amy I had a super abusive ex too. I thank everything everyday that he isn't my FOB.
5. I wish I was closer to people on here. It's sad to sit on my aim and my facebook and just....lurk. Ah I'm a sad little woman!

 

[Kailynnsmommy]

1.i dont feel like anyone on here really likes me, ive never really gotten close to anyone like a lot of you girls have. i guess maybe because i dont post on everything because im afraid of saying something stupid.
2. i dont have many friends but i would rather spend time with my mom because im afraid i will lose her too. (my dad died in 2008)
3. im afraid i will never find the right guy and fall in love

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

My truths:
1. I still kind of feel left out on here some days :/
I don't know why, I think it may be because I didn't post much in the begining when everyone else was making friends.

2. I worry that my angel with think I am replacing him with our LO, or that I will forget about our angel

x

I know who you are.. i have you on facebook too, and i love seeing you update your bump picture - and i felt like you were part of the group and you were having conversations with people and i was like, i don't talk to anyone in particularrr..
i like reading your posts

ohh and as for your angel - i bet your angel doesn't think anything of the sort, and he thinks that you're now moving on, and he can watch over your little girl, and look after her, because that's his job - to make sure your little girl is safe!!
xx

My truths

I have no one irl to talk to other then my mom but even her I don't like telling everything to just the people on bnb, I always think what if everyone hates me on bnb? or if they met me irl they would hate me cause everyone else does

i get exactly the same.. i have OH and my mum but that is it.. and even then it's like i think i just go on too much and they're not interested and get bored and i'm too dependant on them..
i think you're really lovely.. i don't think anyone would hate you
xx

My truths
1. i feel so lonely, everywhere.. i always think people don't like me, irl it's worse, but even on here, i feel people might think i'm weird or something, i don't see what's to like about me. i'd love to have people to speak to regularly, but i feel like people would just get bored of me or something. and i got really intimidated by certain people too.. hehe.. but now i know everyone's soo lovely.. i'm so glad i found bnb

2. i've suffered quite badly with depression, and i'm REALLY scared of losing people, or not treating people properly, so i get really worried about saying something to hurt people, but i hate seeing people upset.

3. i think sometimes my posts on here are wayy too long, and people might think i'm really boring or annoying
xx

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

another truth...

all of a sudden, i'm not so worried about going over, i'm gunna miss being in the teen pregnancy section, especially after threads like this
i really want to meet my baby girl, and be comfortable again and stuff.. but i can't imagine what it's gunna be like not being pregnant!! i love my bump now, i'm becoming REALLY attatched to it, and i LOVE LOVE LOVE her kicks!!
xxxx

 

[newmommy23]

Oh I'm afraid of that too.

 

[Eabha'sMum]

Can I say THANK YOU SASHA!!

reading through everyone's comments i think it is clear that everyone feels lonely, and feels a wee bit left out at times. we are all going/ have gone through similar experiences, and I'd like to think we'd all be here for each other.
on here can seem a little clicky, and when you first come on, it can seem clicky, but i really do think it has something to do with, whoever replies... lol like... we all have the ability to hold a convo with whoever talks to us!

reading back was nice... i feel like we all bonded!!
I love you all! serious.....

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

Can I say THANK YOU SASHA!!

reading through everyone's comments i think it is clear that everyone feels lonely, and feels a wee bit left out at times. we are all going/ have gone through similar experiences, and I'd like to think we'd all be here for each other.
on here can seem a little clicky, and when you first come on, it can seem clicky, but i really do think it has something to do with, whoever replies... lol like... we all have the ability to hold a convo with whoever talks to us!

reading back was nice... i feel like we all bonded!!
I love you all! serious.....

i second that!! sooo actually...
there should be a new stereotype for teen mummy's
We're all lonely people, who sit on the computer for wayyyyy too many hours a day.. and we talk to everyone!!
ahh see we're not so bad, once you get to know us!!
xxxx

 

[divershona]

i second that!! sooo actually...
there should be a new stereotype for teen mummy's
We're all lonely people, who sit on the computer for wayyyyy too many hours a day.. and we talk to everyone!!
ahh see we're not so bad, once you get to know us!!
xxxx

brilliant new stereotype i agree with it atch lol

 

[holly2234]

I think im too difficult to talk to. I dont mean to be but i dont seem to make friends easily

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

holly 2234 - i'm sure you're not.. it's just you need to find people your comfortable with, and on here just comment on posts, when i was early on, it was harder for me, cause everyone seemed so much further along and was getting kicks and stuff and i had nothing - but actually.. you have loads of questions and we've been there
xxxx

 

[Lauraxamy]

I think im too difficult to talk to. I dont mean to be but i dont seem to make friends easily

I sometimes feel like this too
I'm sure you're not though at all. You don't come across as being difficult to talk to from your posts on here x

 

[amandad192]

Can I say THANK YOU SASHA!!

reading through everyone's comments i think it is clear that everyone feels lonely, and feels a wee bit left out at times. we are all going/ have gone through similar experiences, and I'd like to think we'd all be here for each other.
on here can seem a little clicky, and when you first come on, it can seem clicky, but i really do think it has something to do with, whoever replies... lol like... we all have the ability to hold a convo with whoever talks to us!

reading back was nice... i feel like we all bonded!!
I love you all! serious.....

I feel lonely at home when we have people over, because its always OH's family and friends, who I feel comfortable round, but it makes me miss my family and old friends.
I moved away from my mums side of the family in nov 08. I live near my Dad, who is now very involved in my life, but the rest of hos family, I've hardly seen. They don't bother with me much. In fact most of them don't bother at all.
When Liam was a few weeks old I took him to meet my Grandad and Step-nan...they'd got him some clothes and when step-mom gave them to me she said " I didn't know how old he was so I bought 6-9months." I appreciate the kind-of thought and he wears it now he's bigger, but it did seem a bit "thoughtless" That he was only a few weeks, hardly out of his newborn clothes, and she didn't have a clue how old he was. It actually upset me.

 

[bbyno1]

im always home alone just sitting on bnb with nothing ever better to do..
just waiting for my lil girl to come out and keep me company xx